There's a dance this Friday, and I don't know what the hell I'm going to do. I'll still be too embarrased from last year's dance. (Explanation of last year's dance: I was in the locker room for 2 hours and people were ambushing me from outside of the bathroom and they were planning to drag me in the ******* dance room and force me to ask the girl, who I used to like to dance with me. If I didn't say that, I would've probably been beaten up, so I just stayed in the locker room for about 2 hours) People will still probably put pressure on me to ask me if I would ask the same girl to dance with me, and I don't know what the **** I'm going to do.

Ask her to dance.

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No, though, I'm serious. If you like her, just at least try instead of hiding away.

It's always better when things are out in the open- and, if she turns you down and people try and tease you, then so what? It's your heart, your feelings. People should be proud of how they feel, not hide it!

 

Even if it does hurt, act like you're just happy that she knows, and it's a load of your chest. It took a few weeks, but when practically everyone I knew found out my crush, when I just shrugged and refused to get embarrassed about how much I liked him, in the end the teasing stopped, because it wasn't working.

 

Plus, we were nearly friends when my liking him slipped out. We see each other far more often, and even though my feelings are the same, it doesn't seem to affect the way he talks to me. I was pretty amazed, but he just took it in his stride, and told me it was cute, really.

 

Good luck, though.

I don't like her though. That's the problem. Half of the people in my grade FAIL to understand that I don't like her anymore. And all the people who understand that I don't like her anymore (who by the way are mostly girls) are accusing me of being a liar, gay and emo. ._.

Ah, fair enough.

 

I take it there's no one else you like?

 

Regardless, the name calling is really stupid. Granted, all the sticks and stones stuff is a bunch of crap, because stuff like that CAN hurt like hell. But, if you yourself know it isn't true, isn't that what really matters?

Getting called gay or emo doesn't mean it's true. You don't become what people call you. I know it's what everyone says, but if you don't retaliate, it isn't as bad.

Nope. I don't like anyone else. And yes, the stick and stones thing is a bunch of crap. And also, sure, you don't mind being called gay and emo a few times, but after a while it gets EXTREMELY annoying

Just don't go to the dance...?

Be as I do, go home, go online, pop in a song, and drown out the outside world. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but first you have to throw them.

I'd just go to the dance, and if people start on you about dancing with that girl, just go ahead and ask her. Trust me, when you look back you'll realize that's is really not that big of a deal, and you'll probably regret not going.

I think everyone is freaking out too much about these dances. -.-'

 

Well, you've basically got two options:

 

1) You like her, and are going to be a man and ask her out.

2) You don't like her enough to want to ask her out, so you go with a group of close friends.

This is just about asking a girl to dance?

God, it's not like you're asking her to marry you.

Just suck it up and ask her, even if you don't like her.

I don't mean to be rude, but man, this is just kind of ridiculous.

Well, I say, just ask her. Even if you don't like her, ask. Maybe y'all will have a good time, then it's over.

How about you ask some of the annoying girls that are annoying you to dance, just to make them awkward..... it'll be revenge

 

Or you can just ask the girl to dance, get it over with, and never mention it ever again

 

Or don't go, but you will most likely regret it....

 

There's 3 choices, and those are probably the only normal choices there are, so yeah, just do whatever you feel like doing on the night

Here's what I'd do:

Try becoming friends with girls. you'll eventuall find one you like and you can ask her to the dance. None of the buys think I'm "cool", only my friends, so thats how I found out, becoming friends with girls

Possible options:

1. Tell those people to screw off, and do what you want to do.

2. Ask someone else that you might like, and ignore their pressure.

3. Don't go, if it bothers you so much.

Possible options:

1. Tell those people to screw off, and do what you want to do.

2. Ask someone else that you might like, and ignore their pressure.

3. Don't go, if it bothers you so much.

 

I'm with him if you don't like her ya just don't like her, it does not mean your gay so tell them bitch's to go to hell.

Just ask her, she might just say yes. And if she says no, so what?

 

And why would you hide in the locker room? In my school if you get caught in the locker room when people are after you then its all over. With no teachers and nowhere to run your done for.

 

If you don't want to ask her then get some muscle and be prepared for a fight.

If you don't want to fight then get some balls and ask her.

 

I think the second option would be much better. Then again you may not be keen to handling things the way I do...