Posted November 14, 200915 yr okay .. my friend .. I won't mention any names .. keeps hurting my feelings all the time, saying really rude stuff claming to help me. but still ... I keep forgetting him and he keeps doing the same thing over and over again. I don't know what to do anymore ... should I forgive him .. or?
November 14, 200915 yr If I were you, I would confront him and ask him "Why are you doing this?" and tell him that it hurts. And trying fixing this in a civil manner. If it continues, you don't deserve that! and well, move on! thats my advice, I had to do that, now we never talk and I have better friends. I hope I helped!
November 14, 200915 yr hmmmmm we are dealing with a tough one...... give him 3 more strikes. Once he strikes out. idk its up too you! i did that... so i am just telling you what i did. I HOPE it works... i am horrible with advice soo yea... i hope it works out!
November 14, 200915 yr How many times can you forgive him though? Are you going to keep forgiving him when you are in horrible emotional pain? There has to be a limit to how much you can forgive him and it looks like you are reaching that limit. He seems shallow to me, but Idk anything about him and he is your friend. You need to explain to him that it hurts when he keeps continuing to say rude things. You need to find out exactly why he is doing that and talk to him about how he would feel if he were in your position. This just sounds unfair.
November 14, 200915 yr Author it's good that I never gave you his name .. cause I know you all know this guy. and that would probably affect your answer .. true .. yeah, I guess you're right but he hurt my feelings about 10-15 times this month ..
November 14, 200915 yr omgay! 10-15 times and u r letting him? Sorry, but that is just... i am babaffled! i think you should tel, him straight foward.. and i can ges who it is, if u want, i can PM u meh gess..... cos u dun want everyone to know..... if not just reply
November 14, 200915 yr noo ... maybe he doesn't want me to tell everyone .. >.> ok! i dun wanna make it worse! but i hope everything works out!
November 15, 200915 yr Ask him is there any wrong about you (like maybe you hurt him sometimes?) and tell him that he's hurting you. Hope this works :S *Feels dumb for giving advices*
November 15, 200915 yr Author I asked him ... he said something like " I want to see how much crap you can take"
November 16, 200915 yr He needs to get over himself! Jeez. Just ignore him for a while or something, make him miss ur awesome presence, lol. Seriously, he'll come begging to have ur company again
November 16, 200915 yr wow. Kushi and Ran are right! He needs a life, or a better one, or or or or idk! lol but I hope he stops soon! ^.^
okay .. my friend .. I won't mention any names .. keeps hurting my feelings all the time, saying really rude stuff claming to help me.
but still ... I keep forgetting him and he keeps doing the same thing over and over again.
I don't know what to do anymore ... should I forgive him .. or?