Parents Rant(i need your oppionin)

[xion---424 51]

i dont think im in the wrong here, but i want your guy's opinion, cause. yeah...that would be great.

 

i've always been angry with my parents, PARTICULARLY my mom. her and my father are and always have been abusive,

they have threatend to break all my toys and threatend to kill my cat. they have hit my head numerous times. And if i try to duck that, they grab me by my hair and shake me around/ hit my head into a wall, call me things like idiot, stupid, worthless,(ect) sometimes i didnt even make it to school because they had left me at the side of some road or highway after kicking me out of the car. my mom has nearly strangled me..shes punched me in my stumach shes pushed me, called me cuss words and such.they often played favorites with my brother too, like on a long trip going into a gas station getting him a snack and a drink but getting me nothing (they pulled that ALOT) anytime something goes wrong like something gets broken, ive always been blamed for it...theyd often hit me and tell me to stop being a baby when i was little and scared/hurt...or if i started crying when mom was hitting me shed yell at me to "stop playing damsel in distress"....i never really told anyone like my freinds told me too because my mom said theyd come and take me away then and was always saying how much worse off id be at a foster home, how i have it so much better here, when i was still liveing with my parents about the only time i was alloud to leave my room was to eat or go to the bathroom, its not like i had nothing to do theyd buy me nearly anything i wanted, but...i dont exactly think thats right...i dont think parents should make you feel worthless and stupid, or hurt you (sometimes for NO APPARENT REASON)i often DREADED comeing home, school wasnt much better, but if i was at a freinds or another person in our family..it was really hard haveing to go back.i have my own place now and my mom will often invite herself in (my mom is really bad about bargeing into the bathroom or my bedroom..i like my doors locked shes always picked them) shes still doing the same shit she always has,

 

is any of that ok?..she claims its not abuse im being overdramatic, that i should quit being a ungratefull bitch.

 

i just dont think its right.

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

No, that is a textbook case of physical, verbal and emotional abuse. You have every right to feel the way you do, it's not overdramatic at all. You should call the police too if your parents try or succeed in physically hurting you again. Try talking to friends or even coworkers, if you have a job. You should probably stay away from your parents as much as possible, perhaps stay at friend's house until everything is sorted out.

 

And try to save your cat too. ;u;

[Col.Random 3,683]

 

 

.she claims its not abuse im being overdramatic, that i should quit being a ungrateful bitch.

 

 

 

SHE IS WRONG AS FIRETRUCK.

Not to invite myself into your personal matters, but how the hell does she think YOU'RE the one being ungrateful!?

Also, why do they seem to dislike you so much?

[Weiss 8,279]

I don't think any of that is right. If they hurt you like that it's definitely abuse and it's wrong.

I'd say talk to someone about it and try to stay away from them. If things don't get better and they still come to your place I'd say call the police.

Please stay safe.

[Caity 3,946]

Personally and frankly honestly if it was me, I would have stabbed your whole family in their sleep. They just comes a point when you can't take anymore. My mother would never attempt to do any of that stuff to me (though she's actually seen me threaten to stab someone, actually holding a knife and all so no one wants to mess with the crazy person)

 

I was going to say, that given the situation I'd go to the police, and actually wish to be put in a foster home. I know some people have bad experiences, but I have friends and my ex was a care kid, they had better stuff, facilities and all than I did. But since you live by yourself now, I simply wouldn't let her in my home, but since she's actually picking the locks I would get a restraining order. Explain the abuse you had to suffer, and the effect her overbearing uncaring selfish attitude has been having on your mental health. Then if she tries to break into your house again, she'll get arrested.

 

People may say you should talk things out, but there's times when completely indecent and undeserving people become parents, who's children would have been better of being put up for adoption at birth and going to a loving family who couldn't have kids. If someones gonna make you feel like trash, then don't give them the chance and just cut them out of your life.

[Iamkingdomhearts1000 1,170]

i dont think im in the wrong here, but i want your guy's opinion, cause. yeah...that would be great.

 

i've always been angry with my parents, PARTICULARLY my mom. her and my father are and always have been abusive,

they have threatend to break all my toys and threatend to kill my cat. they have hit my head numerous times. And if i try to duck that, they grab me by my hair and shake me around/ hit my head into a wall, call me things like idiot, stupid, worthless,(ect) sometimes i didnt even make it to school because they had left me at the side of some road or highway after kicking me out of the car. my mom has nearly strangled me..shes punched me in my stumach shes pushed me, called me cuss words and such.they often played favorites with my brother too, like on a long trip going into a gas station getting him a snack and a drink but getting me nothing (they pulled that ALOT) anytime something goes wrong like something gets broken, ive always been blamed for it...theyd often hit me and tell me to stop being a baby when i was little and scared/hurt...or if i started crying when mom was hitting me shed yell at me to "stop playing damsel in distress"....i never really told anyone like my freinds told me too because my mom said theyd come and take me away then and was always saying how much worse off id be at a foster home, how i have it so much better here, when i was still liveing with my parents about the only time i was alloud to leave my room was to eat or go to the bathroom, its not like i had nothing to do theyd buy me nearly anything i wanted, but...i dont exactly think thats right...i dont think parents should make you feel worthless and stupid, or hurt you (sometimes for NO APPARENT REASON)i often DREADED comeing home, school wasnt much better, but if i was at a freinds or another person in our family..it was really hard haveing to go back.i have my own place now and my mom will often invite herself in (my mom is really bad about bargeing into the bathroom or my bedroom..i like my doors locked shes always picked them) shes still doing the same shit she always has,

 

is any of that ok?..she claims its not abuse im being overdramatic, that i should quit being a ungratefull bitch.

 

i just dont think its right.

 

HA! says the people who think that bringing about abuse like that will bring you fortune or something like that? lemme tell ya something that means no offense at all whatsoever and something you should tell your parents that might just wake them up from their stupid dream world but only if your absolutely sure in telling them this since there's obviously no going back once you do but why did they even bother to have you born in the first place when they very well could have had you aborted when you still inside the womb huh? im not saying that im not grateful towards them for at the very least helping create and give birth to you Xion 424 but rather what gives them the right to hurt you and favour your brother when they could have just very well had a single child alone huh? it's just so stupid for them to actually do things like that and so in my opinion you should actually go to a orphanage and stay there until you find a real family that will actually both care and love you but not so much as to do the very same thing that your parents are doing to you to there very own child so yeah but im honestly going to say right now that this is the opinion of a coward of whom while he does truly care if not a whole lot about your current situation that about the whole thing involving the orphanage thing is that everytime me and my father have a fight and he wants me to leave my house even though i know that he doesn't really mean it and that it's just something he says in the heat of the moment since he's ill that i could never leave my house since both because i don't think i could take all of my stuff that i want to take with me and especially because im very poor at doing things like washing the dishes and cleaning the entire house with the vaccum and so on so forth so i will now that please do what you think, say, feel and/or do what is right and if your really ready to take on your parents and go live in a orphanage then please at the very least consider what i just said since both because i can't help you since i both don't know who you really are and where you live and because like i said before there's no turning back so yeah but still i really do help that my words will have helped you if not a whole lot and before finishing please let me say that i am sorry if i offended and hurted you in any way possible and that i will make up for it if i can and sorry that my post is so long.

[AnsemTheWise 1,114]

I'm a little too dizzy to type it all out, but I've gotta agree with everyone else. You need to summon a little outside interference in situations like this. Throw that cat in a carrier, shack up with a buddy for a bit, and just get everything laid out.

[Oishii 3,987]

1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)

 

Please call them. They are great and wonderful people who can talk with you and give you support. Whether you want to know what resources there are in your town that can help you with your situation or just want someone to talk to, they are there to help.

 

Also, your mother is only saying those things because she's scared you'll report her. She knows what she is doing is wrong but instead she's trying to scare you into not doing anything so she won't get in trouble for it. I hope you'll be strong. You are a wonderful and don't deserve any of the treatment your parents have done to you.

[Col.Random 3,683]

Personally and frankly honestly if it was me, I would have stabbed your whole family in their sleep. They just comes a point when you can't take anymore. My mother would never attempt to do any of that stuff to me (though she's actually seen me threaten to stab someone, actually holding a knife and all so no one wants to mess with the crazy person)

 

People may say you should talk things out, but there's times when completely indecent and undeserving people become parents, who's children would have been better of being put up for adoption at birth and going to a loving family who couldn't have kids. If someones gonna make you feel like trash, then don't give them the chance and just cut them out of your life.

 

Can i add yo to my list of inspirational people? Edited November 8, 2012 by Lt.Random

[Caity 3,946]

Can i add yo to my list of inspirational people?

 

Well, for the advice or the stabbing ?

[baylaust 2,531]

...yeah, that is the very definition of emotional and physical abuse. Something's very wrong at that house, and I can tell you with certainty that it isn't you. You NEED to talk to someone about this, whether it be a help line, friends, or even police. You aren't being overdramatic, you are being badly abused, and you should stay away from them as much as possible. And yeah, take care of your cat as well. Doesn't sound like he / she is safe either.

[teh lazy prince Xylek 1,559]

im in college for social work all of that is very bad...

[KeyOfVentus 90]

dude if she's coming into your house uninvited, call the cops, break off communication, none of that is good. You're entitled under the law to have privacy, and if you're old enough to have your own place, then your rights supersede her parental rights...

[Rashid Miko Ahmed 36]

yeah thats way too much. i'm ok with discipline, but thats not even remotely ok. call the cops or something.

[Samantha Dominis 25]

If she is breaking into your house and hurting you on top of that, you need to call the cops and have them put you in protective custody and/ or find a friend you can truly trust and stay with them until everything is sorted out. At the very least call the cops and tell them what is going on.

[Sora_Roxas26 124]

get a restraining order, asap, and get a BB gun if your horrible mother picks the lock until you get the order, shoot her right in the eye

[axele 151]

MOVE A.S. A. P

 

Get to a friends house that you can trust, Aunts or Uncle's House if they don't live too far away, same as Grandad etc.

 

These are not good parents at all. You deserve better than this.

[SoraBlade 832]

I almost creid fro you.... :wacko: http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-cry.png