I think its time to reveal something about me that i've been hiding from my entire life. 

 

I am an asshole.

 

I constantly bitch about stuff that is insignificant, i have an ego problem.

 

And i'm not even sure whether people like me or not.

 

 

 

 

It's ok. Us assholes have to stick together... That sounds kind of gross. 

By knowing you admitted your faults, not just to others but to you yourself personally, that can be both a big step and a source of inspiration, a big step for you in that if you truly, honestly want to do something about your faults then all you've got to do is move past them, simple as that though it's not easy, however, It's suppose to not be easy I personally think and about being a source of inspiration, by admitting your faults and then wanting to do something about them can this be inspiring to some people, inspiring because you are hopefully the first to do something about his faults and by following your example, can they also hopefully change, as well. 

Edited April 13, 201510 yr by Iamkingdomhearts1000

The first step to becoming a better person is to be able to admit your faults or when you are wrong then change and better yourself. No one is perfect but as long as you are able to improve on your faults you are already on your way to being a better person. Some people never do that and think it's cool and ok to be an asshole.It's not. How you treat others says a lot about you as a person and we should always strive to be better people instead of being proud of being an asshole like some. We should also always strive to be a positive force in society not a negative one.

 

I have faith that now that you have recognized your faults you can work on them and eventually improve or overcome them

Edited April 13, 201510 yr by Flaming Lea

Well , I mean , sometimes , it's good to be an asshole . A sarcastic , mean , egomaniac ,usually emotionless asshole . That reminds me of myself .

That is an upsetting place to be in.  However, it takes a strong person to admit your faults, and considering you recognize that you're doing something wrong means you're not all too bad.  So many people are entirely oblivious to this and continue being jerks in society.  I cannot say this for sure because I don't know you personally, but it could also be that you're incredibly hard on yourself.  No one is perfect and we all make mistakes.  Sometimes complaining can be legit, and sometimes we have the right to be proud of our accomplishments.  Of course there's a fine line between egotistical and crucial self-worth, so I do not wish to say too much here since I don't know the full extent of the problem.

 

My advice: lighten up, find positive things about yourself that you like, and make a list of all those faults that displease you and work to change them.  It won't happen overnight, but acknowledging these things and continuing to strive toward betterment is the best way you can improve upon yourself.  And I'm almost certain that people must like you!  Probably not everybody, because there's a lot of people out there who are just so into themselves, but I'm sure that your friends and family must truly like you. : )  Keep your head up and think positive!

Deep down, everyone's a bit a bit of an asshole. Some more than others, some hide it well, etc. 

I have asshole-ish thoughts from time to time, and then I think to myself 'wow I can be an ass sometimes'.

My advice is if you like or simply have to complain about stuff, to save it for the things that matter, or at least matter to you. And of course, don't just complain, but try to actually do something. Then, if you can't do something, you're allowed to complain.

Also, don't complain too much to one person, or they'll start complaining back

Who cares if people like you. People are assholes.