is it possible to have 2 girlfriends and does it work out well cuz i have 2 right now one thinks im awesome and loves me and stuff, but the other one thought i was all that she thought i would be andmore and that made her really happy and loves me.

 

please help this is my 2nd and 3rd girlfriends please help and discuss.

So 2 girls and you wanns go down to one? Howd it become 2 anyway?

the way it got to 2 was, the one got me hooked up with the other and after about 78 days the one that got us together well we somehow got together

That's not right at all. :// Eventually, they both WILL find out. They'll dump you, and both be pretty heart-broken. If the girl's feelings aren't enough, you'll still be marked a cheater, which is a definate turn off. You shouldn't be doing this to those girls--just think of how sad they'll be because you lied to them.

 

Yep, People who do what your doing get cast with a horibe mark. Cursed!

 

Meaning No girl in her right mind would go out with you. So take a cuple breathers, and Just pick one. I have to defantly Agree with Butterflylexi she's 100% right. Besides its wrong and you look like a pig. Nobody likes a pig.

I gotta tell you wat you've done to these girls is gonna be so cruel on them wen they find out! Especially depending on how much they like you. I should tell you there is gonna be some serious stigma in store for you if this gets out.

ok it doesnt matter ones taking a break from me cuz of bullshit she heard so im now with the 9th grader

Oh well, now it's settled. Now don't go messing up with this one!

......so does that mean you're going out with the first one you were going out with, or the second? (and don't mess that relationship, and don't go out with 2 girls at the same ever again)

i got her to agree that we needed space and out of the 2 its the first one

Ah so you're manipulating them now, you convinced her a break was in order.

Its ok CCDP me and her are just friends now and i still dating the first one b4 all this happened.

Ah so you're manipulating them now, you convinced her a break was in order.

 

I have to agree with CCDP, it does seem like you maniputlated her.

 

and that is bad. But good luck on this relaltionship.

If I called you an asshole would you be offended? Cause' right now I think you are. I mean I know that Morals do not apply to you but you know sometimes... you need to be put in your place Two girls are a NO NO. Manipulating one of them... A HELL NO!!! That is like emotional abuse! I am ashamed of you.

hey to let you know the one girl wanted to date me and she knew i was with the other girl and yes i done stupid things like cutting myself and trying to kill myself, yes im a lil suicidal, but for some ppl i mostly say nvr say no, and i nvr wanted this to happen so yeah call me wat ever ya want and if im a ass then im a huge one for all this so who really wants a ass like me on this site, so cya!!!!!!!

If I called you an asshole would you be offended? Cause' right now I think you are. I mean I know that Morals do not apply to you but you know sometimes... you need to be put in your place Two girls are a NO NO. Manipulating one of them... A HELL NO!!! That is like emotional abuse! I am ashamed of you.

 

um, too far, way too far...... that's not helpful at all, that's just insulting and demeaning, look at what you posted, and see you went too far, there's constructive criticism, and then there's just plain insulting......

Don;t be sucicdle man, you learn form your mistake. So go on to move in the here and now, present. But remember this lesson, for years to come, you an always say no, you have that opption. But you earn form your mistake, I hope all goes well for you nick, thats all i can say.

 

If I called you an asshole would you be offended? Cause' right now I think you are. I mean I know that Morals do not apply to you but you know sometimes... you need to be put in your place Two girls are a NO NO. Manipulating one of them... A HELL NO!!! That is like emotional abuse! I am ashamed of you.

 

um, too far, way too far...... that's not helpful at all, that's just insulting and demeaning, look at what you posted, and see you went too far, there's constructive criticism, and then there's just plain insulting......

 

There's also a harsh truth. It might sound insulting, but it needs to be said. Jerking girls around is NO way to form any kind of stable relationship, or expectations for relationships in the future. And Antrium is right. Nick IS treating them with a total disregard to their feelings- asshole-ish behaviour.

 

I'm not saying he IS one, strictly, but he's being one hell of a jerk about them. They're not possessions. They're people. And yet he talks about them like they're just there to please him, and that it doesn't MATTER if he dates more than one.

 

He doesn't NEED "constructive critisism". He needs someone to tell it like it is, and put him in his place.

 

And, Nick... I really don't get how being suicidal affects how you treat your girlfriends. Surely if you're feeling that way, you would want some genuine support...?

thank you all for treating me like shit, i asked for help and this is wat i get back, heres the damn truth i just wanted one the other one barged into having me, but i broke up with her and im still with the other one i been with for about 3 months so go ahead give me crap with my 2nd girlfriend when my ex broke up with me sometime b4 we got together, i nvr wanted any of this crap, and i betcha you all are or were the same way in life,

 

 

If I called you an asshole would you be offended? Cause' right now I think you are. I mean I know that Morals do not apply to you but you know sometimes... you need to be put in your place Two girls are a NO NO. Manipulating one of them... A HELL NO!!! That is like emotional abuse! I am ashamed of you.

 

um, too far, way too far...... that's not helpful at all, that's just insulting and demeaning, look at what you posted, and see you went too far, there's constructive criticism, and then there's just plain insulting......

 

There's also a harsh truth. It might sound insulting, but it needs to be said. Jerking girls around is NO way to form any kind of stable relationship, or expectations for relationships in the future. And Antrium is right. Nick IS treating them with a total disregard to their feelings- asshole-ish behaviour.

 

I'm not saying he IS one, strictly, but he's being one hell of a jerk about them. They're not possessions. They're people. And yet he talks about them like they're just there to please him, and that it doesn't MATTER if he dates more than one.

 

He doesn't NEED "constructive critisism". He needs someone to tell it like it is, and put him in his place.

 

And, Nick... I really don't get how being suicidal affects how you treat your girlfriends. Surely if you're feeling that way, you would want some genuine support...?

 

Thank you, Rosie.

 

See I say it how it is. I am not gonna sit here and let someone jerk off with women. It is just plain wrong. How can I give constructive criticism when there nothing to appreciate? There is wrong and there is right. No middle road here people. So I don't care if I come across insulting, it is a fool who does not reproof the wrong. I state my opinion and now you know it. So, agree with me or don't.

Ok guys now please just cool off a bit. He just wanted some help and advice to not do it again. No need to be offensive. Besides he already apologized and he already broke up with one of them. So lay off his back, I think he has had enough.

thank you guillus, i have had enough and i have done apoligizing, it just shows by the looks of it here that no one really can be trusted or nicely asked for personal stuff again,

you guys, Personal threads are made because the person wants to be given advice and wants to feel better, not be brought down and ect. If you don't have any help to give, then just don't post.

Closed.