After spending a night (we'll go with that) with a girl recently, we kept in contact. I often just find her making a conversation over anything. Though it is more just friendly not sexual or flirtatious. Though I am left wondering whether she wants a relationship or if it was just a 1 night stand. Im not going to act like im in love with her, because Im not. But she is nice and I would try dating. Though Im afraid if I ask her if she wants a relationship or anything she might just be like "uh no, it was just sex", and thus ruin what could even be a great friendship. But if she does want a relationship I might lose her if I dont act on it. What should I do?

I also just realised this question doesnt just apply to women, so ignore the title.

Well I won't say sorry, because I just don't apologize a lot. But I will say that even though I don't understand why someone would have sex with someone they hardly know, that I can't stop people from doing as they are. But I will also say that people need to slow down and think about how they see theirselves in the far future when they are like fifty and see if that sex was worth it or not and think what would happen to them if the girl did have their baby.

Yeah but you still attacked him when he did nothing wrong. Your way of thinking is not for everyone and he didn't really hurt the girl by having a one night stand considering it was mutual. It pretty unrealistic to think long term with every girl in your first meeting. This is especially true if it's a mere chance encounter. It's no guarantee that you'll stay together forever with the one you marry. Like I said he did nothing to merit your attack but you tried to push your values on someone else.P.S Pregnacy is an extreme scenario there is no real preparing for it unless its plan. Unless you're going around "raw dogging" its not always going to be the way it plays out. Protection may not be 100% but its there for a reason.