Tanglefrost20

UPDATE: I told him that I wasn't comfortable with what he wanted me to do and that I would go to the police and file for sexual harassment if he ever did this to me again. Thanks again!

Thanks! I live in Minnesota, so I'll have to check on what the law says about abuse, harrassment, ect. I'm going to talk with him tomorrow and tell him that I'm not going to do what he asked. Thanks again to everyone who responded! I really appreciate the advice!

My ex asked me if I wanted to take naked pics of myself and have sex with him. I'm 20 and my past history with boyfriends isnt very good. I've been touched inappropriately, pressured to take naked pics by my exs, and was verbally abused by my first bf. All my exs are in relationships, except for my fourth boyfriend whom I broke up with yesterday (yes, I know today's Valentine's Day and I realize I should've probably waited until after Valentine's Day!) I don't feel comfortable doing any of these things with him because he pressured me into taking naked pics before. I told him no over and over today and gave him reasons why I didn't want to, but I don't think he undestands how traumatic that is for me. He told me not to tell anyone or else we'd get into trouble, but I don't want to end up pregnant like my birth mom or get an STD. I've stayed abstinent and alcohol- and drug-free throughout my 20 yrs. of life, and I plan on waiting until I get into a serious relationship to have sex. What should I do??