So I was curious to see what you guys think. There is a guy in my spanish class class who is very cute and funny. We are always hanging out now at lunch and are always talking and together. It seems like he has been flirting with me...but i'm not sure. Let's see we always sit next to each other at lunch and always end up rsquished all on top of each other. He playfully jokes with me and punches me. (He does like 3 martial arts ) But I'm afraid to ask him out or if he is gay/likes guys cause iv'e done that before and ruined a friendship. Like i'm not totally blunt about it but I still ask. What should i do??

I'm not a girl, gay, or ETERNA, but I reccomend you get someone to ask him, if he is gay, and if he is, move on from there.

same, i'm none

 

he doesn't sound gay, just nice.

he probably likes you, but depends on if he acts the same around other people

Why don't you ask a girl to ask him if he's gay. That way it seems perfectly normal.

 

But make sure he has no feelings for the girl because it may backfire terribly.

Why would somehow being nice make you gay, I just think he like you alot.

I'm a little confused by the first post, do you know if he's into guys or girls? If he's into guys then go for it! Ask him out. If he's not friendship is good too. If you don't know ask one of your friends(that's a girl) to ask him if he's gay for you.

So I was curious to see what you guys think. There is a guy in my spanish class class who is very cute and funny. We are always hanging out now at lunch and are always talking and together. It seems like he has been flirting with me...but i'm not sure. Let's see we always sit next to each other at lunch and always end up rsquished all on top of each other. He playfully jokes with me and punches me. (He does like 3 martial arts ) But I'm afraid to ask him out or if he is gay/likes guys cause iv'e done that before and ruined a friendship. Like i'm not totally blunt about it but I still ask. What should i do??

 

What does he do that makes you think he's Gay?

 

So I was curious to see what you guys think. There is a guy in my spanish class class who is very cute and funny. We are always hanging out now at lunch and are always talking and together. It seems like he has been flirting with me...but i'm not sure. Let's see we always sit next to each other at lunch and always end up rsquished all on top of each other. He playfully jokes with me and punches me. (He does like 3 martial arts ) But I'm afraid to ask him out or if he is gay/likes guys cause iv'e done that before and ruined a friendship. Like i'm not totally blunt about it but I still ask. What should i do??

 

What does he do that makes you think he's Gay?

 

thats what i was thinking

like i said, he just seems nice

I'm only bi, so i can only half post. I say you-HALF POST RESTRICTION REACHED

 

lolzxno, you should just leave it be, don't ask him, but if he comes onto ya, punch him in the mouf

^ ._.

 

That sounds tough, but I honestly wouldn't do anything. You're becoming really close friends, I think, which doesn't nessecarily mean he's coming on to you, lol. If you eventually are convinced enough, though, you should ask him. If you're too afraid, you could always get someone to ask for you.

 

 

So I was curious to see what you guys think. There is a guy in my spanish class class who is very cute and funny. We are always hanging out now at lunch and are always talking and together. It seems like he has been flirting with me...but i'm not sure. Let's see we always sit next to each other at lunch and always end up rsquished all on top of each other. He playfully jokes with me and punches me. (He does like 3 martial arts ) But I'm afraid to ask him out or if he is gay/likes guys cause iv'e done that before and ruined a friendship. Like i'm not totally blunt about it but I still ask. What should i do??

 

What does he do that makes you think he's Gay?

 

thats what i was thinking

like i said, he just seems nice

 

I was more asking about how he behaves around him.

Even though I'm anihuman I know the human nature about dating. You should just try and joke about it at first. As in get him in a laughing mood and just through out the question. Or you can email him or call him on the phone. If he doesn't date you or if he's not gay then it was never meant to be. I really hope it works out for you guys

What makes you think that he's gay? I recommend that first, you should ask him out of curiosity if he likes any girls and stuff like that and move forward after that, depending on the answer he gives.

It kinda seems like he flirts with me but idk I just got a feeling sorry not very explanatory

It kinda seems like he flirts with me but idk I just got a feeling sorry not very explanatory

 

Next time you talk to him look straight into His eyes, if you notice his pupils dilating it may mean he like's you.

 

Thats what my boyfriend did, I found it quite odd. Also try to pay attention as to how he carries himself, if you really study him you should be able to determine if he's gay or not.

 

Or you could just ask.