Okay this is something that I need a bit of help on. You see I normally do well with getting people to leave me alone because I look like the photo below which is why they bully me. Now there's one person that won't leave me alone but i'm not bothered by it. It's my friend who is and I would like to see if anyone can help me figure out a reasonable idea to get them to leave us alone before they do anything stupid. I've had a kid maybe 13 start beating up my 10 year old sister who can't fight. Thankfully my mom is okay with me fighting back if they start a fight with my sister since I can throw a punch unlike my sister. So please give me some idea's to make sure a bad fight won't start like some have done.

if they keep on trying to pick on you, ignore them, thats the one thing they are after which is for you to take notice, if you keep your mind away from what they are doing you should be okay, all they want is attention, just dont give it to them, and beating up a girl? wow, these guys sound like absolute arses, just dont fight back unless you really need too, as self defense. Best thing to do is try and find out where his parents live, get you and your parents to sit down with him and his and discuss the matter do this before doing something you might regret

I know I mean my mom is alright with me getting in a fight if it's to protect my sister who can't fight. I'm fat and ugly but I sure as hell will not let anyone hurt my little brat of a sister without making them regret it. If there in my sight doing it they better be ready for this fat girl who is most likely heavier than them. Fat also acts a little like padding making it less painful. I can ignore them but my friend can't stand it like I can. Sometimes I think of a smartass comment to annoy them like this one. Boy "Hey there fat,ugly, bitch get out of the way of my locker." Me "Ya ya asshole just wait I have to get my stuff." Boy gets ticked and walks off and leaves me alone for a while. This is one of the most effective ways of getting people to leave me alone.

if they keep on trying to pick on you, ignore them, thats the one thing they are after which is for you to take notice, if you keep your mind away from what they are doing you should be okay, all they want is attention, just dont give it to them, and beating up a girl? wow, these guys sound like absolute arses, just dont fight back unless you really need too, as self defense. Best thing to do is try and find out where his parents live, get you and your parents to sit down with him and his and discuss the matter do this before doing something you might regret

 

one awesome come back i had was "sorry, i couldnt hear you from your head being to far up your arse" feel free to use it if you wish

one awesome come back i had was "sorry, i couldnt hear you from your head being to far up your arse" feel free to use it if you wish

 

The best one is "Damn straight i'm proud of it." If it has me being called a bitch I say, "Well thank you so much for the compliment asshole."

Ignoring is usually the best option. I can't say I've been bullied, but that's merely because I'm naive I think. If someone says something insulting to me, I'll just ignore what they say and move on. Because of that, I can't recall a bully, but I can recall the occasional comment or two. Just know that these people don't know you, so their opinions don't matter.

 

If you can, avoid a fight. With these sick souls tormenting a ten year old, I wouldn't put it beyond them to have a weapon. Of course if they try to hit your sister, defend her. If they try to go at you and you can get away that's the best choice too. The sister complicates things, and being an older brother myself, I can't tell to to literally jump in front of a bullet, but I know that I would in a heartbeat. But don't overreact to anyone teasing your sister; only come to blows if it's in self-protection. I don't know the age or environment of the bullies, but if it's anywhere near responsible adults go straight too them. I have seen them stop potential problems.

 

If your sister is being bullied in a school environment and is too proud to do anything, alert the teachers. They can keep an eye on her without any embarrasment and step in at a crucial moment. Since your sister is only 10, I can't imagine her being in an unsupervised environment for too long. If she ever is, make sure she cuts back on it (i.e. going to the corner store to buy Mom some butter; convince your mother to take her).

 

You mentioned your friend but only talked about your sister; was there a separate incident?

 

Good luck; as an older sibling I can feel your pain.

Well this normally happens during things when she comes to my school. Unfortunately no one is really in the locker room when I have to go and get ready for choir with my sister in there helping me. When the guy came in there and started hurting her I got pissed and me being a tomboy and someone who actually can take a punch without becoming a diva went and kicked them away before getting them in a headlock because my dad being military taught me some of the things he learned. I got in trouble but hell my mom was okay with it because my sister came out bruised and injured. I came out with a few scratches but JoEllen can't take hits like I can.

Now i'm not bothered by bullying at all but my friend who is fat like me can't and she often says that she is ugly when she really isn't. I have helped her a bit with her self confidence but I want to see if there is anything else I could do to help my friend that is now having a few minor issues with family and all of that.

 

Ignoring is usually the best option. I can't say I've been bullied, but that's merely because I'm naive I think. If someone says something insulting to me, I'll just ignore what they say and move on. Because of that, I can't recall a bully, but I can recall the occasional comment or two. Just know that these people don't know you, so their opinions don't matter.

 

If you can, avoid a fight. With these sick souls tormenting a ten year old, I wouldn't put it beyond them to have a weapon. Of course if they try to hit your sister, defend her. If they try to go at you and you can get away that's the best choice too. The sister complicates things, and being an older brother myself, I can't tell to to literally jump in front of a bullet, but I know that I would in a heartbeat. But don't overreact to anyone teasing your sister; only come to blows if it's in self-protection. I don't know the age or environment of the bullies, but if it's anywhere near responsible adults go straight too them. I have seen them stop potential problems.

 

If your sister is being bullied in a school environment and is too proud to do anything, alert the teachers. They can keep an eye on her without any embarrasment and step in at a crucial moment. Since your sister is only 10, I can't imagine her being in an unsupervised environment for too long. If she ever is, make sure she cuts back on it (i.e. going to the corner store to buy Mom some butter; convince your mother to take her).

 

You mentioned your friend but only talked about your sister; was there a separate incident?

 

Good luck; as an older sibling I can feel your pain.

 

Good older sister. Keep it up.

 

Now i'm not bothered by bullying at all but my friend who is fat like me can't and she often says that she is ugly when she really isn't. I have helped her a bit with her self confidence but I want to see if there is anything else I could do to help my friend that is now having a few minor issues with family and all of that.

 

Unfortunately, you can't change your friend's emotions alone. She needs to make a decision to how she reacts to this sort of stuff. Just by being a good friend and offering her support, you can help her out. You can't change her family or appearence, but you can try to help her put a positive spin on things.

 

Oh, and it's kinda funny that you said your name is Cassidy and you look similar to a Cassidy in my school.

You're beautiful; don't let a couple of assholes trick you into thinking otherwise.

 

Keep trying to calm your friend down, like Swords said, help her out and be a good friend. If things get bad and it seems like a fight's going to happen, get an adult/some kind of authority figure involved. it sounds cliche, but it can really help.

Good older sister. Keep it up.

 

 

 

Unfortunately, you can't change your friend's emotions alone. She needs to make a decision to how she reacts to this sort of stuff. Just by being a good friend and offering her support, you can help her out. You can't change her family or appearence, but you can try to help her put a positive spin on things.

 

Oh, and it's kinda funny that you said your name is Cassidy and you look similar to a Cassidy in my school.

 

What school do you go to and what's your name? Because I might actually know you............

 

You're beautiful; don't let a couple of assholes trick you into thinking otherwise.

 

Keep trying to calm your friend down, like Swords said, help her out and be a good friend. If things get bad and it seems like a fight's going to happen, get an adult/some kind of authority figure involved. it sounds cliche, but it can really help.

 

No the assholes bring my friend down. I'm not bother but hell I hated it when my teacher made a big fuss over it in the middle of class. I wanted to die and cuss her out right here when she did it. I've hated her ever since then and I don't plan on changing it anytime sooon.

What school do you go to and what's your name? Because I might actually know you............

Sorry, I don't give out my personal info, but the Cassidy I know is 19!