Ok, this might be kinda long but bear with me. I want to ask this girl out at my school, but I'm afraid she will reject me as I'm not much of a sight (I have some acne, slightly overweight 170, need a tan) and we are in different grades so she has no clue who I am (I'm a Sophmore, she's a Freshman) so I need some help and advice here. First off, I want to excercise so I look more attractive. Does anyone have a really good way to go about this? I was thinking before school do some pushups (20-30) curl ups (20) and chin ups (10), then later in the day go for a bike ride around a lake near my house for about an hour or so and end with a healthy meal. I don't have any excersizing equipment at my place, so I gotta do it the old fashioned way. Second, could you guys give me some advice when I ask her? Like any tips on what to say? How do I approach her? The only time I see her is at school, and during passing time we constantly walk by eachother so I was thinking then? Would it be creepy if a random guy walked up to you and asked you out? Also, would Valentines day be a good day to ask her? I think if I work out really hard, eat right, obtain some courage, and boost my self-esteem I could ask her by then, it would also be most appropriate, and she's more likely to say yes, since it's a day of love. I will be checking this daily, so if you need more info I'll provide as much as I know. Please help me, I've never felt this way before in my life, it's the first time I've truly been in love, and I don't want to pass up this chance. I appreciate it if you've read this far, means alot to me.
Edit: I gotta go somewhere so I'll be on later to check the replies to this, if there are any
Ok, this might be kinda long but bear with me. I want to ask this girl out at my school, but I'm afraid she will reject me as I'm not much of a sight (I have some acne, slightly overweight 170, need a tan) and we are in different grades so she has no clue who I am (I'm a Sophmore, she's a Freshman) so I need some help and advice here. First off, I want to excercise so I look more attractive. Does anyone have a really good way to go about this? I was thinking before school do some pushups (20-30) curl ups (20) and chin ups (10), then later in the day go for a bike ride around a lake near my house for about an hour or so and end with a healthy meal. I don't have any excersizing equipment at my place, so I gotta do it the old fashioned way. Second, could you guys give me some advice when I ask her? Like any tips on what to say? How do I approach her? The only time I see her is at school, and during passing time we constantly walk by eachother so I was thinking then? Would it be creepy if a random guy walked up to you and asked you out? Also, would Valentines day be a good day to ask her? I think if I work out really hard, eat right, obtain some courage, and boost my self-esteem I could ask her by then, it would also be most appropriate, and she's more likely to say yes, since it's a day of love. I will be checking this daily, so if you need more info I'll provide as much as I know. Please help me, I've never felt this way before in my life, it's the first time I've truly been in love, and I don't want to pass up this chance. I appreciate it if you've read this far, means alot to me.
Edit: I gotta go somewhere so I'll be on later to check the replies to this, if there are any
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