Posted October 30, 201014 yr I feel like ranting, so here it goes~ Don't you just love when random people just come up to you when you clearly aren't okay, to ask how you feel? Pretending they care? And are just to idiotic to understand that you don't want anything to do with them, refusing to leave you when you're telling them to? Sure, some people maybe cares, but others are just curious, only there to get an idea what's going on. What do you guys think when people do this?
October 31, 201014 yr I feel like ranting, so here it goes~ Don't you just love when random people just come up to you when you clearly aren't okay, to ask how you feel? Pretending they care? And are just to idiotic to understand that you don't want anything to do with them, refusing to leave you when you're telling them to? Sure, some people maybe cares, but others are just curious, only there to get an idea what's going on. What do you guys think when people do this? They suck more than a lvl 1 Ven vs Vanitas, ya know what I'm saying?
November 3, 201014 yr Apparently there's a lot of STRANGERS who talk to me in kh13... so random x_x I wish I can just block all of 'em (By all of them I mean the strangers)
November 4, 201014 yr Honestly, I really don't care. At least around here, it's common courtesy to do that and acknowledge the person in pain, even if it's none of their business and they can't do anything about it. A random act of kindness, so to speak, or if you're in the belief that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't met... well, you get the idea. My two cents
November 4, 201014 yr How in the hell is someone supposed to know wether or not your upset on the internet? I do not really care about the "how do you feel" people cuz no one says that to me cuz i NEVER show emotion in public, cuz showing emotion shows weakness. so maybe your problems would go away if you did not act upset, your gonna die eventually so don't worry about anything. just float on.
November 5, 201014 yr How in the hell is someone supposed to know wether or not your upset on the internet? I do not really care about the "how do you feel" people cuz no one says that to me cuz i NEVER show emotion in public, cuz showing emotion shows weakness. so maybe your problems would go away if you did not act upset, your gonna die eventually so don't worry about anything. just float on. Well, people like me usually ask how people are, and they answer truthfully, then yes you would know if someone is upset or not over the internet. And, hun, emotion isn't weakness, it's a sign of being alive and not completely dead inside, and actually enjoying life. Emotion is important in life, so don't say you don't show emotion because everyone does, at least once in a while. And acting upset is the natural reaction we have if we are upset. Sometimes, people ask if you are okay because they just wanna see if you wanna talk about your problems and want to help. Not to be nosy. Sure maybe some are there to gossip, but if it's a friend asking if you're okay, they're just being a friend. I myself, will ask anyone who looks or ask upset ifanything is wrong and if they want to talk about it. I'm just that type of person. Some see it as nosy but I believe that just listening to ones problems can save their lives. Yes, that sounds cheesy, I know.
November 5, 201014 yr How in the hell is someone supposed to know wether or not your upset on the internet? I do not really care about the "how do you feel" people cuz no one says that to me cuz i NEVER show emotion in public, cuz showing emotion shows weakness. so maybe your problems would go away if you did not act upset, your gonna die eventually so don't worry about anything. just float on. Well, people like me usually ask how people are, and they answer truthfully, then yes you would know if someone is upset or not over the internet. And, hun, emotion isn't weakness, it's a sign of being alive and not completely dead inside, and actually enjoying life. Emotion is important in life, so don't say you don't show emotion because everyone does, at least once in a while. And acting upset is the natural reaction we have if we are upset. Sometimes, people ask if you are okay because they just wanna see if you wanna talk about your problems and want to help. Not to be nosy. Sure maybe some are there to gossip, but if it's a friend asking if you're okay, they're just being a friend. I myself, will ask anyone who looks or ask upset ifanything is wrong and if they want to talk about it. I'm just that type of person. Some see it as nosy but I believe that just listening to ones problems can save their lives. Yes, that sounds cheesy, I know. it does sound cheesy, but your right. emotion is a very important part of life, different balances of emotion create different personalities. i may find it easy not to show what makes me sad (hence people know how to get to you and thats a weakness) because i hardly ever feel sadness. this is mainly because i channel sadness into anger and use said anger to do something about the problem at hand. if you can't do anything about it then just let it go, no sense cryin' over spilled milk. i know this is somewhat hypocritical (spell check) of me because of some of my posts throughout the past 2 weeks. i would like to apologize to everyone on this site for being such a cry-ass.
November 5, 201014 yr Author Wait a sec, here .. why would a person I have never spoken to in my life, nor have met before care how I feel? If they ask me what's wrong, and keeps asking me .. then it's CLEARLY cause they only want to know the reason.
November 5, 201014 yr Like I said Luzze, maybe some people are just those people who can't help but care about someone, whether they know them or not. Just like me Sure it they might just be curious and not really care but usually you can tell the ones who care from the ones that don't.
November 6, 201014 yr Like I said Luzze, maybe some people are just those people who can't help but care about someone, whether they know them or not. Just like me Sure it they might just be curious and not really care but usually you can tell the ones who care from the ones that don't. But why do random people wanna talk to random people and care about their feelings? Are they bored to death or they just can't concentrate in school so they come up here to "Talk" to you? It gets REALLLY annoying if you talked to them at the start cuz they'll bug you A LOT the next time. Because of this one guy I was thinking about putting offline mode...But I didn't so I tried to ignore him but he went as far as to send me a pm asking me why I didn't talk to him. Now that is something I don't like cuz, if I talk to people doesn't mean I like them y'know? I'll be going back to my corner then... /someone whos usually nosy But...but I like you D: <3
November 6, 201014 yr Now that I understand could be a little upsetting Yeah, some people are just really truly nosy. But I'm one of those people who talk to random strangers. Mostly because I don't like seeing people upset.
November 6, 201014 yr Like I said Luzze, maybe some people are just those people who can't help but care about someone, whether they know them or not. Just like me Sure it they might just be curious and not really care but usually you can tell the ones who care from the ones that don't. I agree with this, i mean, i don't do that with random people online, coz i've never met them, and i fail at telling if people are sarcastic or not online (we need a sarcastic font, i nominate Courier font) but when it comes to real life, i help people if they need help, sometimes even if we've never met, but i don't do that much, coz it seems weird to talk to a random like you already know them (i only do that if they look like they need help and everyone else chooses to ignore them)
November 6, 201014 yr Author Mostly, I meant people online .. At least when I posted this thread .. But it still can apply to people in real life. I honestly don't think strangers give a damn.
November 6, 201014 yr Lol, being nosy online is a joke. Just saying, because you practically have to put yourself out there to be noticed. I guess you can say that sometimes random people are really annoying, but thats why you go offline and go hidden. Besides, how will you meet the regulars on this site if you don't chat with them? In real life I do that to other people when they piss me off. Or when I as well as them fell really sad, thus I have an easier time relating to them at that moment.
November 7, 201014 yr I always thought this thread is only for nosy people online But if it's irl I can bear it... Also, someone needs to teach me how to be a not-so-kind person... I'm bugged by nosy people irl and online but I just can't tell them to leave me alone/shut up/don't talk to me (My friend says cuz I'm too kind )
I feel like ranting, so here it goes~
Don't you just love when random people just come up to you when you clearly aren't okay, to ask how you feel? Pretending they care?
And are just to idiotic to understand that you don't want anything to do with them, refusing to leave you when you're telling them to?
Sure, some people maybe cares, but others are just curious, only there to get an idea what's going on.
What do you guys think when people do this?