How would you feel if your best friend of if your brother or sisters died?

I know i would feel so devastated and never gunna wanna do anything and i know i would never get over it.

 

if my brother died I would go into such a deep depression and most likely become a living nightmare, having a filthy mouth and not a care for anyones feelings

 

As for my best friend..... Yeah no more Antrium if that happened.

 

Wow, it amazes me that you could care for another person that much.

 

 

Well I care for all my friends and family with my life... I would do anything for anybody I knew that needed my help.

@ventus1109. did something happen that made you ask this question???

And i would also feel bad this is why i try not to get to connected with the person so when they die i wont feel a lot of grief.

I really think it would depend on the cause of death... Here would be my responses if one of my friends or family members died, Old age, I guess it happens. Car wreck, SHIT.(Then i would be sad for a week or so). Disease, same response as car wreck. Murder, GGGGGGGRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Then, if the killer was present, I would grab a pencil and...)

 

In the end, it would suck. But depending on the cause of death, it could be more or less acceptable. (And even fun (Given i had a pencil)>)

@ventus1109. did something happen that made you ask this question???

And i would also feel bad this is why i try not to get to connected with the person so when they die i wont feel a lot of grief.

 

If i could, I'd do this too. depending on the situation, I could even give my own life for some that I care.

It... changes your perspective on things.

 

Makes you rethink your life choices, especially if the friend you loved dies in the same way you might have. I... I really think, honestly, that my friend dying actually saved me at that point in time. The sad thing was, had she seen just how many people cared about her, she might still be alive. I supose it brought the rest of us toogether some more.

 

It's a strange feeling, especially once the grief lessens. Once you reach acceptance- or as far as it is possible to accept that someone you love is dead. The world just carries on, as if nothing had ever happened. You expect everything to grind to a halt, but it never does. It keeps hurtling ahead.

 

All you really need are some pillars of support- in my case, it was my friends. It takes time, I know, but eventually things seem a little better.

 

My personal reaction involved very little of what felt like mourning. I was just numb most of the time, distant- unable to concentrate or focus. I cried, but at awkward times, when I wasn't supposed to- when I didn't even feel sad.

The same thing happened when another friend of mine was diagnosed with cancer. Same numbness.

 

But it passes. It comes back sometimes, a reminder, but at least it passes.