one of my friends named Kain idk my friend Redshi said he was nasty today he is very nice (a bit of a wise ass)

but he was serious today we think he is going to kill himself just help me i need some advise here guys heres what he said:

after I was told she would firetruck that singer and after she hung up...I kept hitting myself swearing at myself saying bad things to myself very bad things saying how I am pathetic I should be dead i'm only a mistake I dont deserve happiness that i'm a disgusting monster that nobody should or could love.

i kinda know what to do but i dont want to make bad desicions

any help guys please im asking this as a part of the family here at kh13.com

Edit: good news guys me and my friends had a intervention with him and talked about the situation because he really was going to kill himself but we talked it out and tried to calm him down. So hes ok!

mods feel free to remove this thread is you want

Well, before you jump to conclusions, you should talk to him yourself, and see how he's doing. People can often be extremely harsh on themselves, and could say things that they don't mean.

 

Don't assume he's suicidal just because of one thing he said. Look for other signs.

Well, before you jump to conclusions, you should talk to him yourself, and see how he's doing. People can often be extremely harsh on themselves, and could say things that they don't mean.

 

Don't assume he's suicidal just because of one thing he said. Look for other signs.

 

yeah i got more texts from him and he is really saying hes going to do it

and my friend Redshi is really worring about him

believe me he is really serious this time.

i know hes been going through alot lately but man o man

Well you should sit down and talk to him hes just saying he wants to die becase of one thing but hes not really gonna kill himself just talk to him and then finally come out saying that he needs to move on theres plenty of other people out there he can be with so its not really then end of the world." man i hope this made sence to you

This is a phase a great many kids at your age (12-14? 15?) have the unpleasant burden of enduring. My younger sister (14, now) went through a very serious one.. she's only just beginning to come out of that phase. It was not a good time. Regardless, it is very rare, in these situations, that the kid is experiencing a true and severe state of depression/similar mental state. It is often just a phase, and the "I'm going to kill myself" routine is really quite natural - in this phase, the mind is fragile, and its agitation at even the mildest thing can implant incredibly irrational ideas. Fortunately, they almost always remain ideas. Because it is so impulsive and sporadic, the immediate potent fascination with following throw with the idea passes more quickly than the blink of an eye... those, however, with a serious mental condition can potentially put themselves in a higher risk of self-injury, because they are more prone to immediately act upon these momentary irrational thoughts... in any case, don't bother yourself worrying about your friend. Provide him with the support he requires, let him know you're there for him, and perhaps keep an eye out for him in case any more serious signs arise. If you do observe something you'd consider much more serious, in a situation in which he is actively inflicting harm upon himself... slitting wrists is something many kids of that age experiment with, it is not abnormal, but it can be overdone... if signs of significant self damage appear, it wouldn't hurt to inform somebody else, and get him professional help. Just as long as he isn't prescribed to anything... those drugs can really mess you up. But I'm getting ahead of myself. Don't worry about him. Support him. Keep an eye out for him. That's the most you can do.

This is a phase a great many kids at your age (12-14? 15?) have the unpleasant burden of enduring. My younger sister (14, now) went through a very serious one.. she's only just beginning to come out of that phase. It was not a good time. Regardless, it is very rare, in these situations, that the kid is experiencing a true and severe state of depression/similar mental state. It is often just a phase, and the "I'm going to kill myself" routine is really quite natural - in this phase, the mind is fragile, and its agitation at even the mildest thing can implant incredibly irrational ideas. Fortunately, they almost always remain ideas. Because it is so impulsive and sporadic, the immediate potent fascination with following throw with the idea passes more quickly than the blink of an eye... those, however, with a serious mental condition can potentially put themselves in a higher risk of self-injury, because they are more prone to immediately act upon these momentary irrational thoughts... in any case, don't bother yourself worrying about your friend. Provide him with the support he requires, let him know you're there for him, and perhaps keep an eye out for him in case any more serious signs arise. If you do observe something you'd consider much more serious, in a situation in which he is actively inflicting harm upon himself... slitting wrists is something many kids of that age experiment with, it is not abnormal, but it can be overdone... if signs of significant self damage appear, it wouldn't hurt to inform somebody else, and get him professional help. Just as long as he isn't prescribed to anything... those drugs can really mess you up. But I'm getting ahead of myself. Don't worry about him. Support him. Keep an eye out for him. That's the most you can do.

 

hes 18... >_>

Lol... I'm glad things worked out. I'm starting to get a little depressed... but not gonna kill myself

 

This is a phase a great many kids at your age (12-14? 15?) have the unpleasant burden of enduring. My younger sister (14, now) went through a very serious one.. she's only just beginning to come out of that phase. It was not a good time. Regardless, it is very rare, in these situations, that the kid is experiencing a true and severe state of depression/similar mental state. It is often just a phase, and the "I'm going to kill myself" routine is really quite natural - in this phase, the mind is fragile, and its agitation at even the mildest thing can implant incredibly irrational ideas. Fortunately, they almost always remain ideas. Because it is so impulsive and sporadic, the immediate potent fascination with following throw with the idea passes more quickly than the blink of an eye... those, however, with a serious mental condition can potentially put themselves in a higher risk of self-injury, because they are more prone to immediately act upon these momentary irrational thoughts... in any case, don't bother yourself worrying about your friend. Provide him with the support he requires, let him know you're there for him, and perhaps keep an eye out for him in case any more serious signs arise. If you do observe something you'd consider much more serious, in a situation in which he is actively inflicting harm upon himself... slitting wrists is something many kids of that age experiment with, it is not abnormal, but it can be overdone... if signs of significant self damage appear, it wouldn't hurt to inform somebody else, and get him professional help. Just as long as he isn't prescribed to anything... those drugs can really mess you up. But I'm getting ahead of myself. Don't worry about him. Support him. Keep an eye out for him. That's the most you can do.

 

hes 18... >_>

 

Then he may have problem more worth looking into, or just an extended version of a phase similar to what I was talking about. Again, I emphasize, it is not necessarily abnormal. I can't by any means make a "diagnosis," that's not what I'm trying to do. But generally, the same things I mentioned in that paragraph apply. Humans often tend to naturally migrate toward the thought processes that are more rational and logical, at some point or another.

Whenever people get really upset they always bring suicide into the equation. 99% of the time they don't do it and them saying it was just caused by the hysteria.

 

You should talk to him though. Ask him what is really going on. Although he probably won't do it, all suicide threats should be taken seriously.

 

Here are a few signs if you can't get him talking.

 

1. Complete loss of interest in the things he enjoys doing.

2. Scratches, bruises, and cuts that look like they may have been caused from self abuse.

3. Avoiding friends and loved ones.

^That.

Well at least hes not gonna kill himself thats really good to hear hope everything goes ok with him but in the future make sure something like this wont happen again cuz then well he maybe more seriouse that time