What am i doing wrong?im a nice guy i pay attention.i treat every girl around me right yet all of them still say im just friend material.help!

You have bad grammar, I'm guessing your twelve. You're talking about real life, right? Get over it. 12 year olds do not need girlfriends, but 25% of them are already making out and stuff, which is terrible. Don't be one of them. When you're 12, girls your age have probably not even started thinking about relationships, so that's why they say you're only friend material. Just accept things as they are, and start relationships at around fourteen or something.

Thanks but I am not 12 friend. Is my grammar bad? My auto-correct is acting up again I knew it that's why my last paper only got a C.Anyway I'm not twelve I am actually going on 20,but you're right 12 year olds don't need to deal with this. Anyway its just I've got my act together and everything(job,license,and in school)yet I feel like the biggest loser ever because everyone just won't leave me alone about not having a girlfriend and I guess its just finally starting to take its toll.

What am i doing wrong?im a nice guy i pay attention.i treat every girl around me right yet all of them still say im just friend material.help!

 

I think you might be going through nice guy syndrome. Just because you treat every girl right and etc., does not mean she will want to be in a relationship with you. You can't expect girls to come flocking towards you because you're nice. YOU have to make the move. Flirt, tease, etc. Being nice doesn't cut it.

^What Koko said. Not every girl wants a nice guy. Firetruck, them sexy genius girls you see in class might want a bad boy riding a motorcycle. Those bad girls might want a good guy. You never know.

^What Koko said. Not every girl wants a nice guy. Firetruck, them sexy genius girls you see in class might want a bad boy riding a motorcycle. Those bad girls might want a good guy. You never know.

 

That's not what I meant AT ALL.

Don't be a nice guy.

Don't be a bad guy.

BE YOU.

Be interesting.

Bad boys and nice guys are boring and one dimensional.

Most of the time, people want someone exciting and entertaining, someone they can't talk to and have silly little arguments and tease each other and laugh. Just basically someone who they like to be around and have fun, despite their difference.

Nice guys are just annoying because they think that because they're nice that's why a girl should like them. That is not true.

Not many people want to be with someone who always agrees with them and is overly predictable to the point where it's not even cute or funny, but just annoying and tiring, and etc.

First of all, I really hope you just typed like that because you're lazy.

Second, if you want a girl, be yourself and hope she will like you. If not, deal with it. Not everyone can be happy.

What's up with everyone suddenly becoming a grammar nazi?

Anyways, you don't have to be nice all the time. It also can make you very useable, and I'm pretty sure you don't want to be a tool. Just be yourself, man.

I think you might be going through nice guy syndrome. Just because you treat every girl right and etc., does not mean she will want to be in a relationship with you. You can't expect girls to come flocking towards you because you're nice. YOU have to make the move. Flirt, tease, etc. Being nice doesn't cut it.

 

This is the best answer by far.

Yeah, I also don't get the grammar issues. My last boyfriend was a l337 master and it never meant anything in our relationship

I think it's more important that you find a girl you really connect with. Someone that is easy to talk to and you get along well with. Once you find that girl your interested in, try to get her interested in you. Beyond that, I'm not really and expert, but it's most important to be yourself.

While I do agree about the whole grammar thing its time to chill out i was feeling to happy this morning so I didn't notice ok?leave me alone about the grammar. Getting back to business thank you all I'm glad there are some people understanding where I'm coming from.