I'm gonna make this short and sweet guys, there's this girl at my school i like, i've liked her on and off for the past few years but not asked her out, i want to now but i can never seem to get a chance to talk to her on her own and if i do i wouldn't know what to say. The past couple times i've asked girls out ive done it over facebook or something. help would be appriciated guys

" i want to now but i can never seem to get a chance to talk to her on her own and if i do i wouldn't know what to say." This part sounds like me. I want to ask someone out but I can't. My family would not be happy with it. So, everyday I give up a chance to speak to her I get more depressed. So if there is someone you like and your friends and family will be okay with it you should just go for it.

I'm gonna make this short and sweet guys, there's this girl at my school i like, i've liked her on and off for the past few years but not asked her out, i want to now but i can never seem to get a chance to talk to her on her own and if i do i wouldn't know what to say. The past couple times i've asked girls out ive done it over facebook or something. help would be appriciated guys

 

Maybe you can put a note in her locker that asks if it's okay to talk to her? Or call her on the phone and ask her if she would like to meet up somewhere (like a local park, food place, etc) or just be brave and walk up to her even when she's with her friends! Just be like "Hey, can I talk to you for a second" Girls respect a man that will be brave enough to go up to her even when she's with her friends (which is most of the time).

 

Can't hurt to try, right? Good luck with however you approach it!

Maybe you can put a note in her locker that asks if it's okay to talk to her? Or call her on the phone and ask her if she would like to meet up somewhere (like a local park, food place, etc) or just be brave and walk up to her even when she's with her friends! Just be like "Hey, can I talk to you for a second" Girls respect a man that will be brave enough to go up to her even when she's with her friends (which is most of the time).

 

Can't hurt to try, right? Good luck with however you approach it!

 

Yes, waytothexdawnx gives good advice here.

And whatever you do, DON'T ASK HER OUT ON FACEBOOK. A guy asked me out over Facebook chat, and I thought, Are you kidding me? You really expect me to say yes to that?? I just think it lacks any class or confidence. I'd way rather see a guy who's brave enough to ask me out in person. I mean, different girls might have different opinions on the matter, but I think it would be wise not to take that risk and potentially have her think less of you. Like waytothexdawnx said, it's fine to ask if you could meet up and talk to her via a note or a phone call (or even Facebook), but you shouldn't do the asking out part that way. Ask her out in person. Even if she doesn't say yes (and I'm not saying that she will turn you down), she'll probably think better of you than she would if you had asked her some other way.

EDIT: On the flipside, let's say you decide after all to ask her out over Facebook, text messaging, whatever, and she says yes. Well, that's great, but she would've appreciated it a lot more if you had asked her in person. In fact, she would feel more appreciated by you. By wanting to ask this girl out, I assume you want to express that she means a lot to you and make her feel loved, right? Asking her out in person would get that message across a lot more clearly, and it would show that you're willing to put yourself on the line for her.

First of all, do you have any classes with her? If so, then ask her out during that period. Second of all, what to ask her? You could make a real long love poem to her (which I do not recommend) or just say this "Hey ________, do you want to go out with me?" Just ask her casually. And result to doing this at school or when you're right in front of her. In other words, do not do a text message with her or Facebook. Heck, don't even video chat with her when you ask her out. Just talk to her in person and ask her out.

Yeah, you can't simply do it via facebook!

 

You need to ask her out when you get the chance to meet her. In school, or even in the streets. But do it with her right in front of you. Personally, I don't find it nice to ask others via facebook.

Oh, yeah, one more thing to add. I've had personal experience with this stuff. I asked this girl out via Skype once and it was the worst possible thing I could've done. Well, in terms of like right there in the past.