Once again, I've come back, and once again, I've come to seek advice. So, I've asked this girl out, who I've liked for a long time. I've heard that she likes me, and she blushes when she sees me, so I figured why not? I have also talked to me a lot on Skype. She seems to be very concerned about me and seems to care about me. Well, when I asked her out, she just sprinted away. The next day, we talked a little bit, but not about my situation with her. And when my friends tried to talk to her about me, she just walked away. Some people have told me that she's just playing hard to get. So to recap, here's the facts: I've heard she likes me and she blushes when she sees me, she seems to be concerned about me, cares about me, and we've talked a lot on Skype, but on Thursday when I asked her out, she just sprinted and we talked a little bit on Friday. Now as I'm taking a 2 week winter break from school, I've been wondering and some people have told me that she's playing hard to get. So help, please.

Hm.....Maybe she just shy?

She is partially shy, but she's really talkative to me...

well you could try again and if she runs away go after her and catch her or something or you could talk about it like while your in conversation with her just aske hey remember when i asked you out why did you run away, idk really this never really happend to me those are just some ideas and if she dose care about you and all such that you said she dose than maybe shes just shy and such so i dont know just some helpful stuff

Embarrassed?

Maybe she's not allowed to date, but she's too embarrassed to admit that to anyone? Or maybe there's something else she's embarrassed about? Haha I don't even know...

Tell her a Chuck Norris Joke, ask her out again, and hug her.

Laughing at a Chuck Norris joke will make you hysterical. And while you're laughing at a joke, it's hard to run away. Hugging helps too.

Anyway, it's how I got my first girlfriend.

'Distance makes the heart grow fonder' or something? Winter Break could actually be a good thing. She'll have time to think about you and miss you and she might be more ready to talk about it when you're back in school in January. If you haven't gotten her a gift or won't have a chance to give it to her because of break... better late than never? Ask your parents for help, as stupid as it sounds. Put some thought into it, though, and think about what she'll think of it. Girls can sometimes over-think things.

 

If she's never been in a relationship before, because you guys are so young, don't be troubled if it's taking too long for her to warm up to the idea of being your girlfriend. You might have to be close friends with her for a long time first, and just let her know you'll give her all the time she needs. She might not be ready for it, yet.

 

(Speaking from experience here... back in 6th grade I had a great friend who was a boy. Suddenly, because the thought had never occurred to me, he wanted to be my boyfriend. I went with him to his grandma's by the beach and we took a long walk and he bought me lunch and I was given a small stuffed monkey with velcro paws ((I still have it, all these years later))... at the end of the date, it was sunset, and he wanted a kiss. But... I was too shy, got scared, and just couldn't do it. I'm not even sure why, I just... couldn't. It didn't mean I didn't like him as a friend, but at that age, I just didn't understand all the changes between friend and girlfriend and wasn't sure if I could even live up to it.) So: My advice here is... go as slow as you have to if she's playing hard to get, because it -will- be worth it. Try too hard too fast and she might hurt your feelings.

 

I hope things work out.

There are other fish in the sea........unless she's a legendary pokemon.

There are other fish in the sea........unless she's a legendary pokemon.

 

emm... are u ok?

emm... are u ok?

 

I'm fine, thanks for asking.

I'm fine, thanks for asking.

 

i am not talking to u, i am talking to Rob

well you could try again and if she runs away go after her and catch her or something or you could talk about it like while your in conversation with her just aske hey remember when i asked you out why did you run away, idk really this never really happend to me those are just some ideas and if she dose care about you and all such that you said she dose than maybe shes just shy and such so i dont know just some helpful stuff

 

But there's the problem. I can get into a conversation about almost anything at almost any point of time as long as she's on Facebook/Skype, but I just have a feeling that if I try to ask her about it, she'll just be like "Oh, brb, have to help my parents do something"

 

Embarrassed?

 

But she's known that I was going to ask her out for 3 months and I've asked her to dance with me once, which she did...

 

Maybe she's not allowed to date, but she's too embarrassed to admit that to anyone? Or maybe there's something else she's embarrassed about? Haha I don't even know...

 

Perhaps, I guess that she's not allowed to date..

 

'Distance makes the heart grow fonder' or something? Winter Break could actually be a good thing. She'll have time to think about you and miss you and she might be more ready to talk about it when you're back in school in January. If you haven't gotten her a gift or won't have a chance to give it to her because of break... better late than never? Ask your parents for help, as stupid as it sounds. Put some thought into it, though, and think about what she'll think of it. Girls can sometimes over-think things.

 

If she's never been in a relationship before, because you guys are so young, don't be troubled if it's taking too long for her to warm up to the idea of being your girlfriend. You might have to be close friends with her for a long time first, and just let her know you'll give her all the time she needs. She might not be ready for it, yet.

 

(Speaking from experience here... back in 6th grade I had a great friend who was a boy. Suddenly, because the thought had never occurred to me, he wanted to be my boyfriend. I went with him to his grandma's by the beach and we took a long walk and he bought me lunch and I was given a small stuffed monkey with velcro paws ((I still have it, all these years later))... at the end of the date, it was sunset, and he wanted a kiss. But... I was too shy, got scared, and just couldn't do it. I'm not even sure why, I just... couldn't. It didn't mean I didn't like him as a friend, but at that age, I just didn't understand all the changes between friend and girlfriend and wasn't sure if I could even live up to it.) So: My advice here is... go as slow as you have to if she's playing hard to get, because it -will- be worth it. Try too hard too fast and she might hurt your feelings.

 

I hope things work out.

 

We've been pretty good friends for a couple years, and I can't necessairly wait a lot longer because she's probably going to a school in Hawaii for high school and I'll be here in California.

thats why you ask her in person

We've been pretty good friends for a couple years, and I can't necessairly wait a lot longer because she's probably going to a school in Hawaii for high school and I'll be here in California.

 

Well THAT'S probably it. Why get attached to someone and have to say goodbye? It'll never work out long term, so she just may not see a point in it. Or trying to save you the grief in the end.

 

So let her know that even though you know she won't be around forever, that you really, really think she's special and that she deserves to know she's amazing and that you just want to make her feel like the happiest/luckiest girl in school.Temporary things can be very fulfilling and worthwhile.

i am not talking to u, i am talking to Rob

 

You douchebag. ;(

thats why you ask her in person

 

True, I guess.

 

Well THAT'S probably it. Why get attached to someone and have to say goodbye? It'll never work out long term, so she just may not see a point in it. Or trying to save you the grief in the end.

 

So let her know that even though you know she won't be around forever, that you really, really think she's special and that she deserves to know she's amazing and that you just want to make her feel like the happiest/luckiest girl in school.Temporary things can be very fulfilling and worthwhile.

 

I guess that could be the reason why, but it's just that I don't feel as if I could care about any other woman, but her. She's overall just mature, smart, and beautiful. I really want it to work long term, even though it doesn't seem possible.