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Introvert or extrovert?

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I think introverts and extroverts aren't really good labels because you can be an extrovert who convinces him or herself that they are introverted because of various reasons. I know from my experiences I used to improperly label myself as an introvert because I was shy at times, but that is just how willing you are to talk to new people. Yes that is a measuring factor into judging whether you are an introvert or extrovert, but I believe you can put yourself into a self-fulfilling prophecy of being an introvert when you can be extroverted. Not that there is anything wrong with being an introvert.

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(Me) An introvert thinking out-loud::

 

Well, now that I think about it. As an introverted person, as much as I love spending time alone: I love being around extroverted people even more because I naturally find extroverted people very fascinating. On the other other hand I really hate it sometimes because their loudness and willingness to talk puts emphasis on my silence thereby making me look like a total idiot (since I have a tendency do things without talking....so I don't want to be mistaken as a deaf-mute or a weirdo...however put me in front of a piano and I shall cradle you with the language of my music).

 

And so I've noticed when I go out with huge groups of friends (whom are also mostly extroverts). Sometimes, I feel as though I don't exist because I don't talk alot by myself unless I am spoken to. There are times where I really ponder whether or not it was a good decision to have agreed to go out in the first place. But in the end I always never regret the decisions I make because I know I am spending time with the people who are dear to me. Afterall, for most introverts, friendship and trust are really big issues and losing friendship can be just as bad as being stabbed with a knife (in my opinion anyway).

 

Long story short: Introverts do also love being in the company of friends, despite their nature to hide away in the worlds that never was...so lets all enjoy some sea-salt ice-cream together in the setting sun :)

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