Posted March 8, 201213 yr How bad is to fear own parents? They're not violent or anything but I still fear them... I don't even want to come home after schooldays. And now I'm going to school... (Sorry about my bad english)
March 8, 201213 yr i think that alot of people fear their parents, despite how violent they may or may not be. just the thought that they hold control over many aspects of your life is intimidating. if they arent violent, i'd say just remember that you're one of the luckier ones. i felt the same at times growing up. my parents weren't particulary violent, although my dad has hit me a few times before, because of escalated arguments. but, i feared my parents, too. probably because we were so different. my dad and step-mom are both very outdoors kind of people and they don't care for video games or anime. i'm the exact opposite, so it was hard to relate. but, i must say that it's easier now, because i moved out, months ago. so, they have no control over me and we get along a lot better than before. my best advice, would be to just remember they're your parents and they care about you. but, its hard to give advice when i don't know you or your parents lol
March 8, 201213 yr You better be scared of the people who gave birth to you. I was scared of my mom and dad even though we had our good times.
March 8, 201213 yr If I may ask what scares you about your parents? I believe even though you may not get along with your parents that you should respect them. Most of the time parents are trying to do what is best for you because they love you. Even though sometimes it may seem annoying or scary it is because they are trying to protect you.
March 8, 201213 yr even though in don't have experience of it,but listen to this: Fear is not "Evil".It is to know your weakness.If you know your own weakness,people can become strong and gentle...."
March 8, 201213 yr Author I'm back home. And I don't know what to say... I quess I'm lucky because they are not violent. But they're still scary. I can't do anything and I hate it when they shout and make me do every little thing.
March 8, 201213 yr If you ask me it's okay if you're scared of your parents (or just one of your parents) sometimes. If it helps I actually use to be afraid of mom if I sometimes did (or on ocassion didn't do I was told) that I knew would make her mad at or dissapointed in me, and believe me if she had ever yelled at you or talked to you in a disapointed tone you would be scared her too! But my point is it's okay to be afraid of one of or both of your parents from time to time so long as you don't let fear of them rule your life or change how you truely feel about them deep down in your heart (which by the way means you should feel love for your parents in your heart)!
How bad is to fear own parents?
They're not violent or anything but I still fear them...
I don't even want to come home after schooldays.
And now I'm going to school...
(Sorry about my bad english)