my life........ its not very good. if you've been on this website for a while then you know i totally adore love/romance etc. it totally warms my heart. i love a lot of things and i hate a lot of things. but sometimes i wish i could just not change what i like. i want to keep thinking of love the way i want to think of it. but i'm afraid it might change someday. i wish i could just keep liking what i like and the important stuff like the way i think of love. (or used to about a month ago) not to change. i recently stopped liking love the way i wanted to like it about a month or so ago. i want it to go back to what i used to think of it. is this just in my head or am i starting to not like love like i used too? is this some sort of disorder? pls answer. pls tell me if you think i will be who i want to be.

That's just what happens as time goes by. Your opinions on things change. That will always happen. Nothing is wrong with you for it. So it's nothing to worry about.

Change is normal, even I go though it nearly every month. So don't worry and embrace it.

Edited May 5, 201313 yr by WingedIcarus

You're growing up.  It's scary.  Always will be.  But, you don't need to worry.  Promise.

That's just what happens as time goes by. Your opinions on things change. That will always happen. Nothing is wrong with you for it. So it's nothing to worry about.

what is i change into the kind of person i just cant stand. i want to just be a guy who lives happily with his wife and kids (no refrence intended). i dont want to think about girls like some sort of womanizer or perv. i want to be like the guy in my profile picture. i dont want to stop loving love. what do you think?

Edited May 5, 201313 yr by benj0818

You can't really stop opinions changing. That's natural.

what is i change into the kind of person i just cant stand. i want to just be a guy who lives happily with his wife and kids (no refrence intended). i dont want to end up like some sort of womanizer or perv. i want to be like the guy in my profile picture. i dont want to stop loving love. what do you think?

Benny, if you don't want to be that person it's simple. Just don't be that person. You wont turn into something you hate. No need to worry about that. Things will change yes but as long as you stick with what you believe in you will be just fine.

Benny, if you don't want to be that person it's simple. Just don't be that person. You wont turn into something you hate. No need to worry about that. Things will change yes but as long as you stick with what you believe in you will be just fine.

thx xaon. when i first met you i thought you were a jerk but now i see you arent.

thx xaon. when i first met you i thought you were a jerk but now i see you arent.

I know you did. And i was kind of rude to you. Sorry about that.

I know you did. And i was kind of rude to you. Sorry about that.

whats done is done!  dont even worry about it.

Edited May 5, 201313 yr by benj0818