I have always had problems socializing with people, and it's my life been pretty boring so far. I never have any friends over since a couple years ago, I very rarely do anything with friends outside of school, and I've never had a girlfriend. If I keep up what I'm doing now and not socialize very much, I'll never get to do normal things a teenager does. All I really want in my life is to have fun with friends, because even though thats happened only a few times for me, they were the best times of my life.

It's all up to you... As cliche as that sounds. It starts with you buddy. I used to think "How come no one wants to hang out with me?" But soon realized that friendship is a two way street. Sometimes you have to ask those friends if they want to meet up after school, or even part take in an after school activity with them. It definatley develops the long term friendship bond if you make the effort to hang out outside of school. Sure there will be some awkward times in the process (which is what I was afriad of) but like any real relationship with a person your going to have to get through the awkwardness till your both comfortable with each other. And once you have one connection, you will start to develop many more. Hang in there dude, if you need someone to talk too, I'm here. I've been in similar situations.

I have always had problems socializing with people, and it's my life been pretty boring so far. I never have any friends over since a couple years ago, I very rarely do anything with friends outside of school, and I've never had a girlfriend. If I keep up what I'm doing now and not socialize very much, I'll never get to do normal things a teenager does. All I really want in my life is to have fun with friends, because even though thats happened only a few times for me, they were the best times of my life.

This is essentially me and I think I'm doing pretty alright. Hell, I'm older than you by three years and I still don't have a license or even a cell phone. You really shouldn't worry about stuff like this at 15, just wait a while. I guarantee you'll probably be free to do whatever you want before I will, at the very least. 

Edited March 16, 201411 yr by Kaweebo

Well , I am not sociable at all ,if that makes it any better . I prefer being with my family . And about the girlfriend matter , I've never had one and I am not going to . It's a waste of time . So ,yeah, I am not really able to give you any advice .

I have always had problems socializing with people, and it's my life been pretty boring so far. I never have any friends over since a couple years ago, I very rarely do anything with friends outside of school, and I've never had a girlfriend. If I keep up what I'm doing now and not socialize very much, I'll never get to do normal things a teenager does. All I really want in my life is to have fun with friends, because even though thats happened only a few times for me, they were the best times of my life.

Don't worry too much about being single if that's what it is. I'm your age too. And i've been single my entire life. It's fine to date in college or never date someone in high school. I've had problems in the social world as well, but I've gotten better at it. It's mostly because i've changed my environment a ton. And even though i only have like 6 or 7 friends right now, i think i'm having a pretty normal life. 

 

And that's one solution: change your environment. Go and do more things with your friends, eat with them more often. No, i'm not saying for you to barge in their houses to eat with them, i mean go hang out with them at lunchtime at school. Go do stuff in the weekends, hang out on Fridays. I know, it's harder than it seems. But work at it and you'll eventually find the answer. I live in a boarding school currently, so that's how i've gotten over my problems with socialization. Maybe you can do something like that too. No, i don't mean change schools or anything drastic like that, but something small is fine. Change your lifestyle for the better if you wish