I don't know why, but I have trouble letting the past go and if I try to accept the truth I get really angry.  I hate it when people attack me on here with a few paragraphs full of things why I have to agree with them or why this isn't possible and then when I try to comment back I can't because I ran out of ideas. I really hate getting mad and  I want to stop it. All I'm basically saying is I have anger problems. The social anxiety is just making it worse than it is.

Fool. If it makes you feel better, I don't care if you agree with me. And I will never write even a full paragraph on how I'm right.

well, dude, all i can say is that weather you have anger problems or not, youre an awesome dude! ive seen your posts and your a nice guy! i guess some people just arent built to accept things. all i can really suggest is to endure the pain and rage accepting it and just say to yourself "ill try not to get mad". i say you let the pain of accepting things set in and i think you will eventually grow used to it and be able to do it more. the fact that you run out of ideas after someone tries to answer your question with an answer that you dot like, means that you have nothing you can say without being ignorant. it means that your wrong in this particular situation. sometimes its best to accept that fact even if you get mad over it. i think it will over time become more easy. there is no magical answer to help you. if you want to get over youre anger problems, then your going to have to endure some pain. if you feel like you can live with the anger issues than you dont have to do what i said. plus, this is only what i would do. maybe i just dont understand the situation enough. do what makes you happy. im not attacking you by ANY means. im just trying to help becouse youre my friend.

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well, dude, all i can say is that weather you have anger problems or not, youre an awesome dude! ive seen your posts and your a nice guy! i guess some people just arent built to accept things. all i can really suggest is to endure the pain and rage accepting it and just say to yourself "ill try not to get mad". i say you let the pain of accepting things set in and i think you will eventually grow used to it and be able to do it more. the fact that you run out of ideas after someone tries to answer your question with an answer that you dot like, means that you have nothing you can say without being ignorant. it means that your wrong in this particular situation. sometimes its best to accept that fact even if you get mad over it. i think it will over time become more easy. there is no magical answer to help you. if you want to get over youre anger problems, then your going to have to endure some pain. if you feel like you can live with the anger issues than you dont have to do what i said. plus, this is only what i would do. maybe i just dont understand the situation enough. do what makes you happy. im not attacking you by ANY means. im just trying to help becouse youre my friend.

Thank you. I'll try to accept fact it when i'm in this kind of situation again.

Thank you. I'll try to accept fact it when i'm in this kind of situation again.

no problem!

It's alright, it's not your fault. Truth be told, every person on every forum is trying to prove they're right or at least better than everyone else, I've seen it dozens of times.  :dry:

 

The difference between you and people like that is the willingness to want to let things go and to open up about that desire. You're here to actually be more involved with Kingdom Hearts, and that's an awesome thing! Sometimes, I don't even think that those other people are even on the sites because of their fandom anymore, I think they just stick around to act like high and mighty snobs that sound like they know better and have higher tastes because they bash on almost every thing that the companies and franchises dish out. They don't even really discuss their tastes that much, just that something about the subject they are talking about is bad and because of that one thing the whole thing is bad. I know of two who are like that, but I'm not going to name them since they're on a different site for a different fandom and as far as I'm aware don't go to this site, which makes them irrelevant. 

 

You're better than them because you have a sense of humbleness and humility about you. Whenever you post something, to me, it feels sincere. Please do not let go of that. It's that sincere interest that keeps fans from turning into forum-Grinches like the ones I've just talked about. Just be yourself, make you're desire to not continue hailstorm debates like the ones you've described clear and then leave it at that. If those people are as low as I was talking about, they'll probably keep posting things until they give up and forget about it. You're a good fan, and it's rare that I ever come across fans as sincere as you. You're AWESOME!! 

It's alright, it's not your fault. Truth be told, every person on every forum is trying to prove they're right or at least better than everyone else, I've seen it dozens of times.  :dry:

 

The difference between you and people like that is the willingness to want to let things go and to open up about that desire. You're here to actually be more involved with Kingdom Hearts, and that's an awesome thing! Sometimes, I don't even think that those other people are even on the sites because of their fandom anymore, I think they just stick around to act like high and mighty snobs that sound like they know better and have higher tastes because they bash on almost every thing that the companies and franchises dish out. They don't even really discuss their tastes that much, just that something about the subject they are talking about is bad and because of that one thing the whole thing is bad. I know of two who are like that, but I'm not going to name them since they're on a different site for a different fandom and as far as I'm aware don't go to this site, which makes them irrelevant. 

 

You're better than them because you have a sense of humbleness and humility about you. Whenever you post something, to me, it feels sincere. Please do not let go of that. It's that sincere interest that keeps fans from turning into forum-Grinches like the ones I've just talked about. Just be yourself, make you're desire to not continue hailstorm debates like the ones you've described clear and then leave it at that. If those people are as low as I was talking about, they'll probably keep posting things until they give up and forget about it. You're a good fan, and it's rare that I ever come across fans as sincere as you. You're AWESOME!! 

Thank you. Then I'll act like myself then.

Thank you. Then I'll act like myself then.

That's what I like to hear!  :lol:  :biggrin:

Well , if people attack you on here , do something . Report them.