So, when did you realize that you weren't straight? For me it was when I saw Riku turn back into himself at the end of KH2. From that moment I knew I couldn't be 100% straight, given the fact that I felt more attracted to Riku than Kairi even though she now had long hair and wore a skirt. 

 

What about you? What made you realize that you were gay?

Love has nothing to do with being attracted though right,? At least not most of the time.. The simplest way I can describe it is that a Demisexual never feels the impulse to be attracted to someone on the base level. They have to bond with that person before they can become a attracted at all. People have loveless attraction all the time because they lack the need to form that bond to have it in the first place. Just look at people who are lustful/attracted to celeb s. Yes, it's technically loveless, but they're still sexually attracted to them, are they not? A Demisexual wouldn't feel attracted toward them because they lack a bond. 

 

To use a conversation kind of example.

 

"Oh man, Beyonce is so hot, I totally want to do her!!"

"I wouldn't want to have sex with her unless I really knew her well, and felt a very strong bond form."

 

That's the difference. The majority of people are the former, just change who the target of the desire is for, for each varying person's tastes.

Well, I still don't "get" it, but if that works for some people then, alright. Love's still love. Thanks a for taking the time to explain it to me though

Well, I still don't "get" it, but if that works for some people then, alright. Love's still love. Thanks a for taking the time to explain it to me though

You're welcome. I'm just glad you're at least willing to accept what others feel comfortable identifying as. 

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There's a lot of bisexual people on here.

Cool. 

When I realized the mind matters more than physical form.

Oh, I can't tell that story here *giggle*

 

But I think I haven't made up my mind yet. Not about a single matter in my life (e.g. job, university, sexual preference).

And I'm 20 already! Gosh, talk

 

 Who said I was attracted to boobs? Boobs are just awesome. Squishy, and fun to play with B) Everyone loves boobs.

 

Actually w8 mean girls reference:

 

"Oh my god karen you cant just ask someone why they like boobs"

 

Boobs are SURELY fun to play with LMAO

 

One doesn't simply doesn't like boobs.

 about an indecesive person.