I need help with getting attacks and magic so far and friendship mostly

This is what i have for attacks:

Quick Bitz, Bitz, Sliding Dash, Fire Dash, Strike Raid, Fire Surge, Barrier Surge, Aerial Slam, Time Splicer, Poison Edge, Blizzard Edge, Stun Edge, Slot edge, Fire Strike, Confusion Strike, Binding Strike, and Break Time, im missing 7 attacks.

Now what i have for magic is:

Fire, Fira, Firaga, Fission Firaga, Blizzard, Blizzara, Thunder, Thundara, Thundaga, Cure, Cura, Mine Shield, Mine Square, Zero Gravity, Zero Gravira, Magnet, Magnega, Aero, Aerora, Aeroga, Deep Freeze, Ice Barrage, Firaga Burst, Ignite, Bind, Poison, Slow, Stop, and Sleep

Im missing 22 magic spell, oh and also what is a secret gem? Please and thank you if u can help

Look at this FAQ , it will help you:http://www.gamefaqs.com/psp/943347-kingdom-hearts-birth-by-sleep/faqs/59102

The Secret Gem is a rare synthesis Crystal. It works like a Chaos Gem, but when you use it the command is automatically at full level. The best way to get one is to find all of Aqua's Stickers.

This guide

http://www.gamefaqs.com/psp/943347-kingdom-hearts-birth-by-sleep/faqs/59102

Should help you find your missing commands.