Okay, so I got a crush on this boy and I want to ask him out, but I don't know if he's gay or not. ;-; If he isn't, I just want to be his friend. Well, I guess we are already friends, but it doesn't feel like it 'cause we don't hang out a lot but I want to. But I suck at making friends. I want to talk to him, but nothing good comes to mind to talk about. If I do have something in mind, it's usually a question that can be answered in one reply from him and the conversations over. I get chances to talk to him at PE/Gym and lunch. He's usually standing alone in the same place at lunch everyday, or sometimes he hangs out with his friends, so it feels harder to talk to him when he's with his friends. So, any advice on what I should do? ;-; Sorry if this is hard to understand.

WHat? wait, you're not making this very clear...

First... are YOu a boy or a GIRL?

Is HE a BOY or a GIRL?

Are YOU GAY or STRAIGHT?

Cuz from what you said up there I was confused

Sorry for not being helpful

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I'm a boy.

He's a boy.

I'm gay. :I

Okay, so I got a crush on this boy and I want to ask him out, but I don't know if he's gay or not. ;-; If he isn't, I just want to be his friend. Well, I guess we are already friends, but it doesn't feel like it 'cause we don't hang out a lot but I want to. But I suck at making friends. I want to talk to him, but nothing good comes to mind to talk about. If I do have something in mind, it's usually a question that can be answered in one reply from him and the conversations over. I get chances to talk to him at PE/Gym and lunch. He's usually standing alone in the same place at lunch everyday, or sometimes he hangs out with his friends, so it feels harder to talk to him when he's with his friends. So, any advice on what I should do? ;-; Sorry if this is hard to understand.

 

It's not hard to understand. But I think you should tell him how you feel. You don't have to rush into though. Just tell him that you really like him and that you want to be friends. You could always ask someone who knows him better to see if they know if he's gay but if they don't, then just ask him. Just tell him that you would like to hang out with him more and maybe invite him over to your house so that he won't be around his friends. It'll just be you and him and it'll put you at ease.

hmmmm, let see, just ask him if he wants to be friends, and if he says sure, than fine. after like, a week or month, ask him out. if he gives you a weird look, just say wondering..... *gag*

 

Okay, so I got a crush on this boy and I want to ask him out, but I don't know if he's gay or not. ;-; If he isn't, I just want to be his friend. Well, I guess we are already friends, but it doesn't feel like it 'cause we don't hang out a lot but I want to. But I suck at making friends. I want to talk to him, but nothing good comes to mind to talk about. If I do have something in mind, it's usually a question that can be answered in one reply from him and the conversations over. I get chances to talk to him at PE/Gym and lunch. He's usually standing alone in the same place at lunch everyday, or sometimes he hangs out with his friends, so it feels harder to talk to him when he's with his friends. So, any advice on what I should do? ;-; Sorry if this is hard to understand.

 

It's not hard to understand. But I think you should tell him how you feel. You don't have to rush into though. Just tell him that you really like him and that you want to be friends. You could always ask someone who knows him better to see if they know if he's gay but if they don't, then just ask him. Just tell him that you would like to hang out with him more and maybe invite him over to your house so that he won't be around his friends. It'll just be you and him and it'll put you at ease.

 

I'm shy to do all that stuff. ;-; Um, how do you make friends? But I guess I do have the guts to say "Wanna hang out after school" though.

If you think he might not be gay as well, I'd just hang out with him for a while and I'd tell him that you're gay. then ask him if HE is gay as well.

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Hang out with him a bit and get to know him some more. Go out of your way to start a conversation, nothing flirty or anything. Talk about the weather if you have to. Just anything that can keep you talking for at least 5 minutes.

 

Then come out of the closet when your comfortable, then he might say he is gay too. From which you can easily confess your feelings and viola! You live happily ever after!

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I know how you feel, I'm in the same situation.

Try talking to him more. If he's alone at lunch, sit next to him and start a conversation, even if you're really shy. Friendships take time to build, so just be patient and try to be as friendly as you can. When you're sure you're good friends, ask him. If he says no but still wants to be friends, then just try and be happy with how things are.

Good luck~ (:

Hey yea good luck cause i know a guy who is bioseuxal in real life and i dont know with ill say ok ill go out with you because i dont know with am straight,gay, or biosexual, or trisexual( means u like male female and animals)