My grandmother has a problem that won't let her talk and think straight, but for some reason, when she's lucid, she's very mean. You don't know how mean she can be.

 

Since the beggining of this year, my mom and my uncle have been taking care of her on weekends. In one weekend, she went to our house, and in another she went to my uncle's house and so on.

I have another uncle that's supposed to take care of her as well, but he always says that he's got squash tournaments around Europe and until now he never had her in his house (and my grandma has been giving her retirement money to him!).

 

This month, he was supposed to take care of her until September, when the personal maid is back. But no, he said again that he has another tournament and she's gonna stay ANOTHER FREAKING MONTH WITH US.

 

She's mean. Very mean. She always demands breakfast on her bed when she wakes up, she makes insulting commentaries, she always says that our summer house is hers, she always wants me to take her to her favourite places on town, and there's a lot of other stuff I can't remember now. BUT SHE DRIVES ME FREAKING INSANE!!!

 

Everyone is pretty sure that she's gonna give everything she has to my uncle that never had the burden of having her around, when she dies. AND IT'S VERY UNFAIR!!!

 

I DON'T WANT MY VACATIONS TO GET SCREWED JUST BECAUSE "HER MAJESTY" DOES WHATEVER SHE FREAKING WANTS!!!

AND SHE ALWAYS PEES HER BED WHEN SHE GOES TO SLEEP!!!

 

I had to get that out of my thoughts because it's driving me insane.

It kinda reminds me of Multiple Sclerosis. If it is that disease then the mood swings are pretty normal. My mother has it and it can be incredibly annoying to deal with. I would talk to your parents about the whole thing, if they're as annoyed as you are. You can all probably go to her and just complain that she's being a total *&^%$!

(Oh and I would try to find her will if I were you. And if someone were to change said will, someone might be happier)

I feel ya on the Vacation part, but if you Weren't on Vacation, id say deal with it.

why not leave her alone? I mean I know it's a different situation but when my sister broke her leg me and my parents did everything for her, and she got used to that sort of life. So when her leg got better she expected things to stay the same and she became a little b!tch. So me and my parents decided to ignore and let her do things on her own. That worked for us, I mean if your convinced she's leaving everything to this uncle who is never around then ignoring her would hurt your chances of getting anything...but then again if your just taking care of her for her will your doing it for the wrong reasons...

It kinda reminds me of Multiple Sclerosis. If it is that disease then the mood swings are pretty normal. My mother has it and it can be incredibly annoying to deal with. I would talk to your parents about the whole thing, if they're as annoyed as you are. You can all probably go to her and just complain that she's being a total *&^%$!

(Oh and I would try to find her will if I were you. And if someone were to change said will, someone might be happier)

 

My parents are on vacations just because of her, so I don't want to disturb their vacations because of her.

 

I feel ya on the Vacation part, but if you Weren't on Vacation, id say deal with it.

 

Well when we're not on vacations it sucks too because I want to study and she's always calling me for the most stupind errands.

 

why not leave her alone? I mean I know it's a different situation but when my sister broke her leg me and my parents did everything for her, and she got used to that sort of life. So when her leg got better she expected things to stay the same and she became a little b!tch. So me and my parents decided to ignore and let her do things on her own. That worked for us, I mean if your convinced she's leaving everything to this uncle who is never around then ignoring her would hurt your chances of getting anything...but then again if your just taking care of her for her will your doing it for the wrong reasons...

 

Well if we would leave her alone she would probably kill herself, once we left her alone for 5 minutes and she broke her arm. Don't want to imagine if it would be the whole year.

Oh, so im guessin ur in school? Brutal man just Brutal.

Oh, so im guessin ur in school? Brutal man just Brutal.

 

yeah I'm on the year before University.