So I'm just here to vent so any advice is greatly appreciated but not really needed.

 

Anyway, me and my ex broke up back in December. That first month after wasn't bad at all, I mean we took the train together so I decided to take it by myself for that month and let us each have our space and that was good for us. Then when I started taking the train with her and the rest of our friends things were still kinda awkward but we had our occasional conversations. Then around valentine's day I heard that she was telling everyone at her school that I was doing something big for her on valentine's day(I wasn't). Anyway, I then got this sort of feeling that she wanted me back, or atleast the old me(long story). So after valentines we started becoming really close again, we were talking like we were when we first started going out and everything was good between us...I even started thinking that there might be an US agin. Then I found out she liked some other guy and that kinda sucked cause I was planning on asking her to prom. So now skip ahead to the summer. I was pretty much over the whole thing, finally lol, but not quite. We started hanging out again and she treated me differently than the other people we were with. Like she would go out of her way to talk to me about something, constantly hitting me(you know jokingly), and laughing at any joke I said, just like before we started going out. So I started thinking there might still be something between us. But I know there isn't because we are close again and talk about basically everything, he'll we've talked about her guy problems and I've given her advice on this guy she likes. So she's got a new guy she's into, every guy from stage crew wants to hook up with her, and I've gotten into...ummm...something with a girl who has the same name and well its awesome but kinda messing me up emotionally.

 

So basically to sum it all up. She broke up with me, and I've never gotten over it. There have been other girls since, and sure there would be a mourning period, but in the end I always get over them...not her. I've basically been getting mixed signals and it sucks. And now to top it all off I'm an emotional wreck and it sucks.

 

So that's about everything. Again this was just to help me get some stuff off my chest...it actually helped haha. So any advice is appreciated.

 

Thanks.

Well...

I'd say be her friend.

After a while she'll notice that you're the one who's been always helping her in all things and she'll accept you.

That's what I'm doing now with a girl I like.

Um, are you positive that she's just not saying about this guy because she's trying to get you jealous and take her back or see if they're emotions there, because she still likes you. In other words, she never got over the break-up and instead of asking you about your feelings. She's pretending to like some other guy to see how you react and then it saves her the embarrassment of asking you. But, to be honest, I would just confess or ask her or something. The worst that could happen is that you both get embarrassed.

Um, are you positive that she's just not saying about this guy because she's trying to get you jealous and take her back or see if they're emotions there, because she still likes you. In other words, she never got over the break-up and instead of asking you about your feelings. She's pretending to like some other guy to see how you react and then it saves her the embarrassment of asking you. But, to be honest, I would just confess or ask her or something. The worst that could happen is that you both get embarrassed.

 

As much as I would like to think that she is just saying that she likes this guy but yea positive she likes him. I mean she was kicked from stage crew because she didn't go to my school and insurance didn't cover it but she snuck back in and said she would just help out not actually build anything. During the talent show she was there and so was the guy she liked and the way she acted around him was basically the same thing she's doing to me now, and when she was near ms with him she acted awkward and nervous...if she was trying to make me jealous wouldn't she rub it in my face? Also, I know this might sound stalkerish, but not to long ago her and a mutual friend of ours were talking about their boy problems and she said how she has been having problems with this one guy for about 4 months now so she was talking about him. So thanks for the positive thoughts but I doubt it.