Let me start off by saying that this is a little story of mine. We had to write about heart break or successful romance in my english class and I just started writing out this story/writing...and the thing is that this actually happened to me(and still is):

"Part 1"(I guess)

Have you ever met this amazing girl who, at the time, seemed pretty cool but you didn't think much about her at the time cause of other personal problems? But then a week or two later you start realizing how amazing she really was...and you think that that's it you'll never see her

again. But then come school time you do something out of your normal routine and show up to class about 30 min earlier and who is wandering around the hall?

That same girl. She sees you and you both say hi and talk for a few minutes and when your talking you realize she's exactly as you remember her. Anyway she

leaves for class and you tell her to wait, then you ask her to have lunch with you and from there you really hit it off, and well the rest is history. So has

this happpened to anyone? Or are you guys like me and did you just let her walk away to class, and realize that the school has 15,000 freshmen and the odds of

you running into each other again is....bad. So anyone?...or just me?

 

"Part 2"

So at this point you've started realizing that it's COLLEGE, a fresh start, why waste it on this one girl who you'll probably never see again? So a few days later you're on your college's facebook page talking with a few "soon-to-be" friends when a random girl joins the little conversation and she gets along well with everyone and all of you add each other. When going through these new friends what do you realize? THAT GIRL WHO JOINED LATE WAS THE SAME ONE YOU JUST GAVE UP ON. Now it's a new gameplan right? You two start talking, exchange phone numbers, and you somehow get talked into running a marathon with her(I still don't really know how it happened lol). But somehow you managed to overlook the fact that she has a boyfriend already...and, not to sound too weird, but he's perfect. So let's say they do break up and you and her get together(yes I know I'm getting ahead of myself) how are you supposed to compete with this guy? What can you offer that he couldn't? Ugh maybe it's just one those things that you gotta let go...

Well if she relly likes then it wont matter.

Find out what she didn't like about him and make sure you don't do the same thing, lol

BE YOURSELF! Please! It's better if you be yourself that she can get to know the real you. Don't worry about that other guy. That other guy is just someone she is dating. Acting like someone else just to impress her, won't help for long. A friend of mine once told me, if it doesn't happen(if you can't get her to date you) then it was never meant to be. She's just one girl out of the very many that you could relate to and really like or fall in love with. At least, you guys are friends.

Meh, who cares if you have a gf or not.

Living happily is something that changes with the person.

I have a different point of view of how to live happily, and so do you.

My situation is almost exactly the same bro.theres this girl alex in my math class.i have never fallen in love at first sight before but i fell harder than anything the moment i layed eyes on this girl.and we really hit off we're on the right track to becoming friends.but you have to give it time and let things sort themselves out.im not saying dont make little gestures in that direction just remember that theres other stuff to do atm to.is there the risk of losing her?yes.are you probably gonna want to take every moment talking to her looking for an oppurtunity to make a move?possibly.just keep your head my friend and if its not meant to be its not meant to be.the most important thing is to be able to accept whatever does happen.

...and make sure she doesn't take advantage of you. There's plenty of girls out there who have boyfriends or whatever, but just crave the attention. Don't ever become someone's plan B.