PLEASE READ ALL OF IT! A lot of it isn't neccisary but it gives a good backround of Kateline and everything leading up to my delima! BUT if you must,just read the parts where I mention Kateline! Plz read the third paragraph though its a funny story about what I did for HER! ALSO 3rd TO LAST PARAGRAPH! The one before the second to last one lol. Also tell me how long it took for you to read ALL of this IF you read all of it at all!

 

Alright let me first let you know... I do stay at home 24/7 except on a few occasions like when my mom to take dorothy,our dog out(but thats just in the yard and for a short time),or wants me to go with her somewhere or downstairs where my grandma lives(because I live in my grandma's garage upstairs cause it was turned into a living area at some point,and yes I has had a few previous tenates!).I go to church on Sundays,there is a Sunday School class running from about 10-11 A.M and then the actually CHURCH at ABOUT 11-12 A.M After about 5-10 minutes of about 4 songs,we separate single a more saperated class two,no wait three of I THINK 7-8( and I am 8th),9-10th,and 11-12th.Of course its rougher because people need time to get over there and have a closing prayer after the sunday school.Also need time to prepare since SOME people in the church are in classes during Sunday School.

 

ANYWAYS... to the ACTUALLY STORY! Alright... so there is this girl named Kateline! I do not know her last name,just her first. She has always been a grade above me I believe although due to the strange way my church arranged things for the first 5-10 minutes of the sunday school we sing about 4 songs,and she is one if the girls that sing,one being another girl,and another being her sister Bethini(who is in 10th I believe.Now let me tell you when I first fell in love (yes I have to say it like that!) with her! You see a month or two OR THREE ago there was a camp that a bunch of churches were going to.It was in the mountains and the camp was called Ponyo.Even though I had seen her before,for some reason,I want gaga over her at camp! One funny thing I remember doing is she said she was thirsty or something like that,and you see the 3 water tanks and SUPER SMALL cups were quite a distance away,about i dunno... I am bad judge of distance.About 20 yards away,or 1/16 of a mile? Yeah! So I told her I would get some water! I walked all the way there,got a couple of cups since they were so small,and CAREFULLY walked all the way back slowly,and then I finally get there with some of my friends/classmates around i forget what they were doing,and she took one cup,drank it,and she said she didn't want the other cup.She said since I brought the water there I should have it,sadly though I wasn't thirsty!

 

For a while... she was VERY distracting.I knew from camp she was very sweet and beautiful! For the next month or two,I couldn't concentrate fully during class! Also,from about 9:20-10 A.M people get there early to just hang out or whatever.Some like Bethini and Kateline get there early to rehearse.Also our guitarist too.ANYWAYS... one day,she is there,and she goes to get a drink of water... NOW first of all,the setup for where we listen to our music or special things we are do! Like the dimolishing strongholds film series where we stay like all the way to 10:30 there.We have a screen and its projector,a person who controls the computer for controlling which lyrics appear on the screen,and something that has to do with a PS1... Ok.Top to down,split the room in half,from the side that is South is the one you enter from in.There is the computer,the projector on the west all,and a bunch of chairs facing the west,with a door to the south where you enter in from! Now on the second half to the right you have a pool table... above the room split this second half horizontaly from left to right,you have a room or two with a few doors leading into them.Then on the south wall some high chairs with a high,thin,round table with usually some candy on it from our main teacher.A couple of those high thin round tables anyways! Ahem,THEN to the far right is a little kitchen where you can grab a root beer or another beverage or other stuff,but only I have seen beverages taken.Set up with a couple doors or doorways leading into it with a big window like... one where you pull down a metal thing to close the"shop" or whatever you get the idea.And between the higher door(again from top down view) and the window there is a Water Tank,normal one that is blue!

 

So me and two other guys AND Kateline all at the same time manage to walk over to the water tank at time same time! Before Kateline comes by,It seems all three of us got a hair-cut! THE TIMING! I know we had a week with quite a few days able to be seperating us but STILL! And then once they both say they got a hair cut I said as just about Kateline comes by,"What would you know I got one too!" Or something similiar.And then for some reason it was like after camp x10! or x5 you get the idea lol.So next sunday... which is last sunday as I am typing all of this... I sit down on some stairs where at first people going TO the class are walking towards you,then go to your right,turn left and over to go up some stairs,right because at the top you have to turn back to where all the doors are,and there is our main class room! So I stay on the stairs leading to other class-rooms,eventually talking to some people including Mr. Tom our teacher saying I was just enjoying the fresh air watching people come in,which I WAS enjoying the fresh air and watching ppl go in.But no I was waiting to watch Kateline go in.YES,when she finally came,idk if she saw me or not,but I enjoyed it as my heart raced.NOW,you can understand how hard this is since just by watching her walk that I get all happy like that! Ahem,so then when she walks in I walk in as well,we do our class... then go into our seperate class rooms,THREE,the same room,the 7-8th grade room,and the 9th-10th grade room.At the beggining of the movie series we got randomely picked into different rooms which for me was the 9th-10th grade one with some other classmates and her sister Bethini.Kateline got picked to be in the 7th to 8th grade room.So after class I go to see if in this secret sisters thing on the table if there is anything gift from my mom's secret sister,I go back to my mom's classroom,then go BACK,and stair across the large LARGE HUGE room to where Kateline is standing/siting! Ok I stretched that its not THAT big but like 50 people wide!Or is it 25 or 35 IDK! Na its 50 people can FIT in there! or 40 or close! Ahem,and I think(hmm I have to strike up the corage to talk to Kateline!) So without my mom knowing ANYTHING about my love life,I ask if we can stay for church service,and she says SHE cannot because our grandma isn't feeling well BUT she has one of her friends in her class watch over me so she can pick me up AFTER church is over! Then I sit down about the room length of about 20 people away,listening to an hour of service that actually went be pretty quickly!

 

So after its over me and my mom's friend walk a bit and wait for my mom! I then see Kateline walking and then her and her mom stop for SOMETHING idk what it was a little table with some papers on it.Then they split up idk where Kateline's mom went but I carefully watched Kateline going to the Playground to talk with her friend Zachery which i am confident is in no way interested in her! Just being friendly! Ahem,then Jerry which is his name,he says he can wait in his truck,and I can go and enjoy myself.Why he knew that I just wanted to relax instead of stand and wait? I guess he put myself in his place and thought I wouldn't just wanna STAND THERE! Ahem,so just as he starts to walk to his truck,I start to walk towards Kateline who isn't that far away!

 

And here is when I start to actually talk to her in a conversational WAY! I ask,"Whatcha doing?" and she says in a sweet voice,"To the playground wanna come?" I said,"Sure".Now during this whole time I was talking with her and around her I felt REALLY weird and strange,for this was a huge milestone for me rofl! So we went,her and Zachery sat on a couple of swings,and I stood leaning onto the actual Structure of the Swingset! I mostly listened and then Zachery said he had to go! Kateline followed him and I was looking for Jerry's Truck,when I saw my mom! Now my mom LOVES TO CHAT so she starts to talk to Jerry a little bit I FORGET if she did or didn't BUT at some POINT she starts to talk to Katelines mom! I then walk over to where Kateline is standing where Zachery's family is getting ready to go! So I ask what she is doing! I forget her response or if that was the first thing I said or asked or EVEN if I said that at all,but she asked,"Back to the swings?" and I answer,"Sure..." and on the way there I made weird sounds cause i felt weird being around her! She didn't seem to notice or mind the weird noises I made! So then It was just me and her! Then I sat where he was siting and it was just me listening to her talk and TALK! And I was a good listener too since guys aren't good conversationalists! ESPECIALLY ME! So I talked back telling her how I lost about my whole top front left tooth and about a quarter of my top front right tooth.Then she told me some stuff about part of one of her canine teeth came out! And how her Jaw has to be re-ajusted every 2 weeks. Then eventually she walks up and I follow her to her mom and mine! We waited and waited and they FINALLY STOPPED! Then Kateline leaves!

 

What is the problem you may ask? Well I have been thinking of different scenerios of me saying things to her and different ways she might respond! And I cannot stop thinking about HER! What should I DO?! Only things that keep me from doing it...YOUTUBE VIDEOS... and that is pretty much it and NO don't just say WATCH YOUTUBE VIDEOS I do that ANYWAYS all THE TIME so its not the answer! Just when I am doing WHATEVER like getting food or a drink how do I NOT think about HER!

 

Oh also you guys were not in the internet and irl,I would not be talking about my love life I HATE telling ANYONE about it! So feel honered! It makes me feel better cause I feel like people on the internet are not real people even though I know they are lol! Also I do plan on dating when I am older about a year since in about 2 or 3 weeks I am turning 15! But its pressuring to tell her how I feel!

Well, if you can't stop thinking about her you must really like her. Maybe you should ask her to go to a school dance with you,or just go do something fun like ice skating or bowling. If you're too scared to ask her to go with you 1x1, just make it a group thing and invite some of your friends!

 

On the subject of not thinking about her, maybe it'd be better if you hung out with some of your friends. That usually distracts me whenever I'm upset over something. Hope all goes well, Matthew! (:

Ask her to eat Icecream with you,

that should do it.

Well, if you can't stop thinking about her you must really like her. Maybe you should ask her to go to a school dance with you,or just go do something fun like ice skating or bowling. If you're too scared to ask her to go with you 1x1, just make it a group thing and invite some of your friends!

 

On the subject of not thinking about her, maybe it'd be better if you hung out with some of your friends. That usually distracts me whenever I'm upset over something. Hope all goes well, Matthew! (:

 

Um yeah this is CHURCH... NOT a school! And NO we don't have anything like that!

 

Ask her to eat Icecream with you,

that should do it.

 

Ok that would be a little weird like WHY would we eat ice cream and where would we get it from RIGHT AFTER church lol.

Avoid writing novels about how much you can't stop thinking about her, that could help you stop thinking about her.

Avoid writing novels about how much you can't stop thinking about her, that could help you stop thinking about her.

 

rofl Good advice I didn't mean for it to be a Novel though rofl I just wanted to get every tiny bit of information in this topic!

Um yeah this is CHURCH... NOT a school! And NO we don't have anything like that!

 

So? My boyfriend goes to a different school than me and he took me to Homecoming and the Military Ball. Just because you go to different schools doesn't mean you can't take her to a fun school function. (: You probably have something. Pretty much every school has some sort of fun/formal/something event, even if only a couple of times a year. Well, good luck, Matthew! (:

That was an extremely long thread.

 

Anyways, it's sweet that you can't stop thinking about her but your only in 8th grade. You'll have plenty of time to date once you're a bit older. Just try becoming friends with her. Get to know her, be nice to her, etc...

It's best to start off with being friends before you even think about a relationship. Also, try you be yourself around her. That way she can get to know you as well.

 

And after you get to know her, like Lexi suggested, invite her to go with you to your school dance or other activity. Even a church activity.( If your church has activities like that)

 

Good luck. (:

That was an extremely long thread.

 

Anyways, it's sweet that you can't stop thinking about her but your only in 8th grade. You'll have plenty of time to date once you're a bit older. Just try becoming friends with her. Get to know her, be nice to her, etc...

It's best to start off with being friends before you even think about a relationship. Also, try you be yourself around her. That way she can get to know you as well.

 

And after you get to know her, like Lexi suggested, invite her to go with you to your school dance or other activity. Even a church activity.( If your church has activities like that)

 

Good luck. (:

 

Ok now THAT is practical advice! The problem is that I am so pressured to tell her how I feel! Also I am about two or three weeks from 15 and my mom (and I agree since dating before you turn 16 can turn out bad!) wants me to only date when I am 16 which then is about a year from now! And I dunno how long I can stand it! Also I do not believe my church DOES have activities like that! Um yeah I am pretty sure it DOESN'T since I have never heard of such an event!

Ok now THAT is practical advice! The problem is that I am so pressured to tell her how I feel! Also I am about two or three weeks from 15 and my mom (and I agree since dating before you turn 16 can turn out bad!) wants me to only date when I am 16 which then is about a year from now! And I dunno how long I can stand it! Also I do not believe my church DOES have activities like that! Um yeah I am pretty sure it DOESN'T since I have never heard of such an event!

 

 

Well, your mom is right. Dating under at least 15 isn't entirely a great idea. I personally don't plan on dating until I'm 17.

 

Anywho, I'm sure you'll be able to last a year until you're old enough to date. Just stick with being friends with her. (:

You could even take her to the movies just as friends. Does your church have Christmas parties? Or even where you go caroling with your church? Because then you could ask her to go with you as friends. (:

Dat wall of text. O_O

 

Anyway, I would suggest that you remain calm around her. Don't be weird, because I'm assuming - note that this is an assumption, because I'm not a girl - girls don't like weirdness. Be kind and funny. Act friendly. Soon enough, you guys should become the best of friends. And then, once the two of you are older, you can confess your love, and you'll live happily ever after.

 

Of course, this is a long-time goal, but if you're willing to put the time and sweat into it, and you really adore this girl, it should be all worth it in the end, I guess.

Well, your mom is right. Dating under at least 15 isn't entirely a great idea. I personally don't plan on dating until I'm 17.

 

Anywho, I'm sure you'll be able to last a year until you're old enough to date. Just stick with being friends with her. (:

You could even take her to the movies just as friends. Does your church have Christmas parties? Or even where you go caroling with your church? Because then you could ask her to go with you as friends. (:

 

Um I do know that we actually go caroling because I remember my church/class(I forget) did that last year.The movies is a good idea,though I have never heard of friends going to the movies.So like... asking for her to go to the movies with me is probably thought by me and her(well MAYBE NOT idk what goes on inside her head!) as asking to go on a date lol.

 

Dat wall of text. O_O

 

Anyway, I would suggest that you remain calm around her. Don't be weird, because I'm assuming - note that this is an assumption, because I'm not a girl - girls don't like weirdness. Be kind and funny. Act friendly. Soon enough, you guys should become the best of friends. And then, once the two of you are older, you can confess your love, and you'll live happily ever after.

 

Of course, this is a long-time goal, but if you're willing to put the time and sweat into it, and you really adore this girl, it should be all worth it in the end, I guess.

 

Good advice to go along with JesusFreak's advice! Pretty similiar advice,but with an optimistic tone! Where as JesusFreak's tone is more... aggressive and realistic,ITS THE PERFECT BALANCE! Oh also when I meant I felt weird,i just felt a RUSH of my heart racing the entire time I was around her,or something like that! But except for those like small sounds like groans or whatever I made because I was having that rush,I seemed pretty normal on the outside!

Um I do know that we actually go caroling because I remember my church/class(I forget) did that last year.The movies is a good idea,though I have never heard of friends going to the movies.So like... asking for her to go to the movies with me is probably thought by me and her(well MAYBE NOT idk what goes on inside her head!) as asking to go on a date lol.

 

Well I've gone to the movies with some of my guys friends. It's normal. lol But it does depend on what she'll think it means.

 

Good advice to go along with JesusFreak's advice! Pretty similiar advice,but with an optimistic tone! Where as JesusFreak's tone is more... aggressive and realistic,ITS THE PERFECT BALANCE! Oh also when I meant I felt weird,i just felt a RUSH of my heart racing the entire time I was around her,or something like that! But except for those like small sounds like groans or whatever I made because I was having that rush,I seemed pretty normal on the outside!

 

How was I aggressive? Ha, ha I was trying to be completely nice the whole time.

Anyways, glad I could help a bit. (:

Oh God a block of text. I skimmed, so I'm just gonna go with what I know about these kinds of situations.

 

8th grade isn't a great time to date; the relationships don't last long at all, and younger kids lose interest in other people very quickly. I'd wait until you're a bit older to actually date a girl. But it's nice that you're thinking about her so often, and it seems like you have a genuine interest in her.

 

I agree with J. Severe - become friends first, and see how long it lasts. If everything goes well, you can confess to her when the time is right.

Well I've gone to the movies with some of my guys friends. It's normal. lol But it does depend on what she'll think it means.

 

 

 

How was I aggressive? Ha, ha I was trying to be completely nice the whole time.

Anyways, glad I could help a bit. (:

 

lol When I said you were aggresive I ment in a way that you were aggresively anxious to help me!

 

Also on the movies thing,I don't care if she thought of it as a friendly thing,for me going to the movies with a girl means a date!

Right now it seems like you're just OBSESSED with the thought of being with her since it seems you don't know her at all or are even friends with her. In my opinion, a relationship develops from a strong friendship, especially if you want it to work. So start slow like everyone's been saying.

Befriend her. For all you know, maybe she isn't the person you think she is and you might start not liking her or it'll work out and you'll like her and she'll like you and blah blah blah blah. Don't get your hopes up. Not everything is fairy tales and happy endings.

Oh God a block of text. I skimmed, so I'm just gonna go with what I know about these kinds of situations.

 

8th grade isn't a great time to date; the relationships don't last long at all, and younger kids lose interest in other people very quickly. I'd wait until you're a bit older to actually date a girl. But it's nice that you're thinking about her so often, and it seems like you have a genuine interest in her.

 

I agree with J. Severe - become friends first, and see how long it lasts. If everything goes well, you can confess to her when the time is right.

 

I know I know! I think she considers me a friend but I don't consider her one since as you read (I am assuming you read that,"block of text") I have barely spoken to her!

 

Right now it seems like you're just OBSESSED with the thought of being with her since it seems you don't know her at all or are even friends with her. In my opinion, a relationship develops from a strong friendship, especially if you want it to work. So start slow like everyone's been saying.

Befriend her. For all you know, maybe she isn't the person you think she is and you might start not liking her or it'll work out and you'll like her and she'll like you and blah blah blah blah. Don't get your hopes up. Not everything is fairy tales and happy endings.

 

Oh I KNOW! But I'm pretty sure she is as she shows herself! But too true... you never know! Also your right,I am obsessed!

 

Ok now here is a question,should I tell my friend Jordan that I like Kateline? Its as I describe in the topic,that first part where we listen to music,(and currently specially listening to the Demolishing Strongholds video series!) For some reason he started talking to me a bit after the camp thing! I guess he just thought I was a cool kid or that I needed SOMEONE as a friend since technically before the camp,I never talked to ANYONE except for my teachers.He says the normal things like "hi","and how are you doing?" And I responded like normal! We sit next to each other also! He is over 16 or IS 16 I dunno but in church 16-20 year olds are very nice and act like any other age! Except more mature! Now,since guys don't talk much,we don't have that many conversations.We have had a few though lol.But again as I said,guys don't talk nearly as much as girls! But all the same,I consider Jordan a friend,and he considers me one! So... my dilima is,should i tell him? There is no telling what will happen.I KNOW he is trustworthy to keep a secret though! But like how will he take it? Ok to tell you the truth,I have no reason not to tell him! I'm just afraid to tell people irl if I like a girl! As you heard in the topic! But hey,this isn't irl,this is the internet! Well I mean as we chat on this topic its on the internet I know outside of this website & forum it is real life lol!

I know I know! I think she considers me a friend but I don't consider her one since as you read (I am assuming you read that,"block of text") I have barely spoken to her!

 

 

 

Oh I KNOW! But I'm pretty sure she is as she shows herself! But too true... you never know! Also your right,I am obsessed!

 

Ok now here is a question,should I tell my friend Jordan that I like Kateline? Its as I describe in the topic,that first part where we listen to music,(and currently specially listening to the Demolishing Strongholds video series!) For some reason he started talking to me a bit after the camp thing! I guess he just thought I was a cool kid or that I needed SOMEONE as a friend since technically before the camp,I never talked to ANYONE except for my teachers.He says the normal things like "hi","and how are you doing?" And I responded like normal! We sit next to each other also! He is over 16 or IS 16 I dunno but in church 16-20 year olds are very nice and act like any other age! Except more mature! Now,since guys don't talk much,we don't have that many conversations.We have had a few though lol.But again as I said,guys don't talk nearly as much as girls! But all the same,I consider Jordan a friend,and he considers me one! So... my dilima is,should i tell him? There is no telling what will happen.I KNOW he is trustworthy to keep a secret though! But like how will he take it? Ok to tell you the truth,I have no reason not to tell him! I'm just afraid to tell people irl if I like a girl! As you heard in the topic! But hey,this isn't irl,this is the internet! Well I mean as we chat on this topic its on the internet I know outside of this website & forum it is real life lol!

 

Well, in the end, it's all up to you. I'd recommend telling Jordan only if you think it's worth anything. He might be able to help you come up with things to do with her. (:

Well, in the end, it's all up to you. I'd recommend telling Jordan only if you think it's worth anything. He might be able to help you come up with things to do with her. (:

 

Yeah I wanna tell him badly BUT... so embarresed to tell anyone irl. OH WELL my life has always been boring(before I spoke to Kateline on the swings and on the way there when I asked what she was doing and she said "going to the swings,wanna come?" and I said "sure" lol)so while I am making my life more exciting every sunday,I might as well tell Jordan that I like Kateline just to make it TWICE AS EXCITING! Too bad it doesn't last all week and the excitment is only on sundays! THEN AGAIN,I am still trying to get over when I talked to Kateline in that conversational way! But yeah its worth something! He can help me keep my mind off of her every Sunday by giving some certain advice! It will take some courage,but I think I can pull it off by JUST SPITTING IT OUT,OR RIPPING IT OFF LIKE A BANDAID!

PLEASE READ ALL OF IT! A lot of it isn't neccisary but it gives a good backround of Kateline and everything leading up to my delima! BUT if you must,just read the parts where I mention Kateline! Plz read the third paragraph though its a funny story about what I did for HER! ALSO 3rd TO LAST PARAGRAPH! The one before the second to last one lol. Also tell me how long it took for you to read ALL of this IF you read all of it at all!

 

Alright let me first let you know... I do stay at home 24/7 except on a few occasions like when my mom to take dorothy,our dog out(but thats just in the yard and for a short time),or wants me to go with her somewhere or downstairs where my grandma lives(because I live in my grandma's garage upstairs cause it was turned into a living area at some point,and yes I has had a few previous tenates!).I go to church on Sundays,there is a Sunday School class running from about 10-11 A.M and then the actually CHURCH at ABOUT 11-12 A.M After about 5-10 minutes of about 4 songs,we separate single a more saperated class two,no wait three of I THINK 7-8( and I am 8th),9-10th,and 11-12th.Of course its rougher because people need time to get over there and have a closing prayer after the sunday school.Also need time to prepare since SOME people in the church are in classes during Sunday School.

 

ANYWAYS... to the ACTUALLY STORY! Alright... so there is this girl named Kateline! I do not know her last name,just her first. She has always been a grade above me I believe although due to the strange way my church arranged things for the first 5-10 minutes of the sunday school we sing about 4 songs,and she is one if the girls that sing,one being another girl,and another being her sister Bethini(who is in 10th I believe.Now let me tell you when I first fell in love (yes I have to say it like that!) with her! You see a month or two OR THREE ago there was a camp that a bunch of churches were going to.It was in the mountains and the camp was called Ponyo.Even though I had seen her before,for some reason,I want gaga over her at camp! One funny thing I remember doing is she said she was thirsty or something like that,and you see the 3 water tanks and SUPER SMALL cups were quite a distance away,about i dunno... I am bad judge of distance.About 20 yards away,or 1/16 of a mile? Yeah! So I told her I would get some water! I walked all the way there,got a couple of cups since they were so small,and CAREFULLY walked all the way back slowly,and then I finally get there with some of my friends/classmates around i forget what they were doing,and she took one cup,drank it,and she said she didn't want the other cup.She said since I brought the water there I should have it,sadly though I wasn't thirsty!

 

For a while... she was VERY distracting.I knew from camp she was very sweet and beautiful! For the next month or two,I couldn't concentrate fully during class! Also,from about 9:20-10 A.M people get there early to just hang out or whatever.Some like Bethini and Kateline get there early to rehearse.Also our guitarist too.ANYWAYS... one day,she is there,and she goes to get a drink of water... NOW first of all,the setup for where we listen to our music or special things we are do! Like the dimolishing strongholds film series where we stay like all the way to 10:30 there.We have a screen and its projector,a person who controls the computer for controlling which lyrics appear on the screen,and something that has to do with a PS1... Ok.Top to down,split the room in half,from the side that is South is the one you enter from in.There is the computer,the projector on the west all,and a bunch of chairs facing the west,with a door to the south where you enter in from! Now on the second half to the right you have a pool table... above the room split this second half horizontaly from left to right,you have a room or two with a few doors leading into them.Then on the south wall some high chairs with a high,thin,round table with usually some candy on it from our main teacher.A couple of those high thin round tables anyways! Ahem,THEN to the far right is a little kitchen where you can grab a root beer or another beverage or other stuff,but only I have seen beverages taken.Set up with a couple doors or doorways leading into it with a big window like... one where you pull down a metal thing to close the"shop" or whatever you get the idea.And between the higher door(again from top down view) and the window there is a Water Tank,normal one that is blue!

 

So me and two other guys AND Kateline all at the same time manage to walk over to the water tank at time same time! Before Kateline comes by,It seems all three of us got a hair-cut! THE TIMING! I know we had a week with quite a few days able to be seperating us but STILL! And then once they both say they got a hair cut I said as just about Kateline comes by,"What would you know I got one too!" Or something similiar.And then for some reason it was like after camp x10! or x5 you get the idea lol.So next sunday... which is last sunday as I am typing all of this... I sit down on some stairs where at first people going TO the class are walking towards you,then go to your right,turn left and over to go up some stairs,right because at the top you have to turn back to where all the doors are,and there is our main class room! So I stay on the stairs leading to other class-rooms,eventually talking to some people including Mr. Tom our teacher saying I was just enjoying the fresh air watching people come in,which I WAS enjoying the fresh air and watching ppl go in.But no I was waiting to watch Kateline go in.YES,when she finally came,idk if she saw me or not,but I enjoyed it as my heart raced.NOW,you can understand how hard this is since just by watching her walk that I get all happy like that! Ahem,so then when she walks in I walk in as well,we do our class... then go into our seperate class rooms,THREE,the same room,the 7-8th grade room,and the 9th-10th grade room.At the beggining of the movie series we got randomely picked into different rooms which for me was the 9th-10th grade one with some other classmates and her sister Bethini.Kateline got picked to be in the 7th to 8th grade room.So after class I go to see if in this secret sisters thing on the table if there is anything gift from my mom's secret sister,I go back to my mom's classroom,then go BACK,and stair across the large LARGE HUGE room to where Kateline is standing/siting! Ok I stretched that its not THAT big but like 50 people wide!Or is it 25 or 35 IDK! Na its 50 people can FIT in there! or 40 or close! Ahem,and I think(hmm I have to strike up the corage to talk to Kateline!) So without my mom knowing ANYTHING about my love life,I ask if we can stay for church service,and she says SHE cannot because our grandma isn't feeling well BUT she has one of her friends in her class watch over me so she can pick me up AFTER church is over! Then I sit down about the room length of about 20 people away,listening to an hour of service that actually went be pretty quickly!

 

So after its over me and my mom's friend walk a bit and wait for my mom! I then see Kateline walking and then her and her mom stop for SOMETHING idk what it was a little table with some papers on it.Then they split up idk where Kateline's mom went but I carefully watched Kateline going to the Playground to talk with her friend Zachery which i am confident is in no way interested in her! Just being friendly! Ahem,then Jerry which is his name,he says he can wait in his truck,and I can go and enjoy myself.Why he knew that I just wanted to relax instead of stand and wait? I guess he put myself in his place and thought I wouldn't just wanna STAND THERE! Ahem,so just as he starts to walk to his truck,I start to walk towards Kateline who isn't that far away!

 

And here is when I start to actually talk to her in a conversational WAY! I ask,"Whatcha doing?" and she says in a sweet voice,"To the playground wanna come?" I said,"Sure".Now during this whole time I was talking with her and around her I felt REALLY weird and strange,for this was a huge milestone for me rofl! So we went,her and Zachery sat on a couple of swings,and I stood leaning onto the actual Structure of the Swingset! I mostly listened and then Zachery said he had to go! Kateline followed him and I was looking for Jerry's Truck,when I saw my mom! Now my mom LOVES TO CHAT so she starts to talk to Jerry a little bit I FORGET if she did or didn't BUT at some POINT she starts to talk to Katelines mom! I then walk over to where Kateline is standing where Zachery's family is getting ready to go! So I ask what she is doing! I forget her response or if that was the first thing I said or asked or EVEN if I said that at all,but she asked,"Back to the swings?" and I answer,"Sure..." and on the way there I made weird sounds cause i felt weird being around her! She didn't seem to notice or mind the weird noises I made! So then It was just me and her! Then I sat where he was siting and it was just me listening to her talk and TALK! And I was a good listener too since guys aren't good conversationalists! ESPECIALLY ME! So I talked back telling her how I lost about my whole top front left tooth and about a quarter of my top front right tooth.Then she told me some stuff about part of one of her canine teeth came out! And how her Jaw has to be re-ajusted every 2 weeks. Then eventually she walks up and I follow her to her mom and mine! We waited and waited and they FINALLY STOPPED! Then Kateline leaves!

 

What is the problem you may ask? Well I have been thinking of different scenerios of me saying things to her and different ways she might respond! And I cannot stop thinking about HER! What should I DO?! Only things that keep me from doing it...YOUTUBE VIDEOS... and that is pretty much it and NO don't just say WATCH YOUTUBE VIDEOS I do that ANYWAYS all THE TIME so its not the answer! Just when I am doing WHATEVER like getting food or a drink how do I NOT think about HER!

 

Oh also you guys were not in the internet and irl,I would not be talking about my love life I HATE telling ANYONE about it! So feel honered! It makes me feel better cause I feel like people on the internet are not real people even though I know they are lol! Also I do plan on dating when I am older about a year since in about 2 or 3 weeks I am turning 15! But its pressuring to tell her how I feel!

 

ok so a pargraph?yeah id say you fell hard.yeah when i met abigail i immediately fell to man but right now the best you can do is just be her friend and let things come together and definitely dont let any other guys push you out of the way as the years go by.don't fight em but make sure they don't just come in and push you out(a mistake i made in high school )

ok so a pargraph?yeah id say you fell hard.yeah when i met abigail i immediately fell to man but right now the best you can do is just be her friend and let things come together and definitely dont let any other guys push you out of the way as the years go by.don't fight em but make sure they don't just come in and push you out(a mistake i made in high school )

 

Riiiiiiiiight ill keep that in mind!

If you think about her a lot, then that means that you probably like her a lot. That's what happened to me and one of my friends. She was my friend at first, and then all of the sudden, I couldn't stop thinking about her. And also, if you want your friend to talk to her, make sure that your friend is completely trustworthy and you would probably trust your life on that one friend to tell her that you like her. If she listens, then she'll probably come up to you and talk to you about how you feel about her.

If you think about her a lot, then that means that you probably like her a lot. That's what happened to me and one of my friends. She was my friend at first, and then all of the sudden, I couldn't stop thinking about her. And also, if you want your friend to talk to her, make sure that your friend is completely trustworthy and you would probably trust your life on that one friend to tell her that you like her. If she listens, then she'll probably come up to you and talk to you about how you feel about her.

 

I trust Jordan! But as the others have said,in a year,ill THEN tell Kateline how I feel about her,so by then we are good friends!

I trust Jordan! But as the others have said,in a year,ill THEN tell Kateline how I feel about her,so by then we are good friends!

 

From personal experience, I wouldn't recommend waiting for a year. If you wait for a year, there's a chance that you might procrasinate and say "Oh, I'll see her tomorrow and I'll do it" and it'll just keep on going on and on.

From personal experience, I wouldn't recommend waiting for a year. If you wait for a year, there's a chance that you might procrasinate and say "Oh, I'll see her tomorrow and I'll do it" and it'll just keep on going on and on.

 

Huh? OH no its not that its just as the other people have said on this forum,its kinda a bad idea to start dating this early! i'm only 14,and most people,including the people on this forum(and my mom tells me I can date at 16 not that she recommends it lol)that I date at 16 because dating before that age is a bad idea!

Eh, true. Reltationships don't really matter that much when you're 14...