I don't believe most of the people who will be on this thread will have been on THAT one but just in case... http://kh13.com/foru...er/page__st__20 BUT,honestly,that block of text JUST isn't needed! All you need to know is,I go to church every sunday,and I have a crush on a girl that is in the same class as me! I mean technically its a Youth group not a CLASS,but it doesn't really matter!

 

Well,you see,there is this family,there is the dad who is the pasture for the second service after sunday school,the daughter who is also in my Youth-Group,and then the son ZACHERY,also in my Youth group! You would think that Bethini(the brother of Zachery)would take a lot with Kateline(my crush),but,actually, Zachery and Kateline seem to talk a LOT,their good friends which is nice! No I am pretty sure Zachery isn't interested in her or the other way around or both! All I am going to say is,he is shorter then he should be.For the sake of privacy,that is all i'm going to say.

 

Ahem,as I was saying,so for a month or so,about 4 or 5 sundays,OR A BIT LONGER,I have been wanting to tell Kateline that I have a crush on her,cause I already know that she couldn't like a guy like me! Um most of the reasons are private to ME,but one I can share is I am ultra lazy! So,anyways,this Sunday,for SOME reason,I just knew what I had to do,I had to tell Zachery that I had a crush on her,and have him tell her when he is talking to Kateline the following,in these exact words,"Someone anonymous has a crush on you,and he likes your laugh". Ah,she does have a cute laugh,and I wanted her to know that!

 

So,after the second service,I go up to him,try to conversation with him to build up a good moment to tell him that I have a crush on Kateline! And,SOMEHOW,I was able to conjure up the courage to tell him! I then asked him to tell her that,but also if she asked anything related to WHO has a crush on her,to comfirm nor deny it! So say if she asked straight up who had a crush on her,he would say,"I will not comfirm nor deny that!" or so I could think! Or something like,"does he wear braces" or,"does he wear glasses" even though no one wears glasses in our class... I THINK!

 

SO,ANYWAYS,we talked a it more,and then he went to go see Kateline,for you see,she likes to help with the litle kids during second service,and then I see him coming with Kateline,then I freak out,BECAUSE,I told him to not have her see us speaking to teach other,so that way she wouldn't know I was the person who had a crush on her! So I kinda acted like I wasn't there to talk with Zachery! OH BIG THING YOU NEED TO KNOW,I WAS ON THE PLAYGROUND THE ENTIRE TIME!

 

So I just paid attention to the little kids enjoying the playground,then I notice my mom has come over in her car! Ya see I kinda told her that I was talking to one of my classmates so when I got into the car,she noted that she saw me over paying attention to the little kids! LUCKILY,my mom doesn't ask too many questions! Oh,and before I got in the car,I made sure Zachery knew I was leaving,so while he was taling to Kateline,i was waiting for him to look at me,and when I did,I waved! THE END!

 

I just hope he got the message through! Though I worry because all she has to do is ask someone,"Do you have a crush on me?" And well in my church we don't like to LIE so... YEAH! I hope nothing goes wrong! I am anxiously waiting next week to ask Zachery how it went! Oh also,he is 13,I am 15,and Kateline... I thought I heard her age but I won't tell you what that number was just in case that number is her wrong age then you all start thinking she is THAT wrong age !

 

FINALLY,if she says no,or just says,"I'm sorry" or similiar,then,ITS OK! Sure ill be dis-appointed but,well,there isn't anything I can do about being rejected except be friends with her!

 

EDIT:I hope pressing those enter keys helped now!

Edited February 2, 201213 yr by Matthew

What a story bro, it seems that you really have a crush on this girl. I hope she say yes for you. Also, it would be nice to press ENTER once in a while

What a story bro, it seems that you really have a crush on this girl. I hope she say yes for you. Also, it would be nice to press ENTER once in a while

 

HAHAHAHA... oh dang it I forgot to say in there how old I am!

What a story bro, it seems that you really have a crush on this girl. I hope she say yes for you. Also, it would be nice to press ENTER once in a while

 

NO ONE ELSE?! DANG! Oh well its no big deal... looks like your the only one who read this

That was quite difficult to read in such a giant wall of text, and with such horrendous grammar. Probably why there aren't many comments.

 

Anyway, I'm sure things will turn out alright. I've noticed that kids behave better in church, so hopefully there won't be a lot of drama when it gets around that you like her. You seem nice, so I'm sure that she will like you just as much as you like her from the sound of it! Best of luck (:

That was quite difficult to read in such a giant wall of text, and with such horrendous grammar. Probably why there aren't many comments.

 

Anyway, I'm sure things will turn out alright. I've noticed that kids behave better in church, so hopefully there won't be a lot of drama when it gets around that you like her. You seem nice, so I'm sure that she will like you just as much as you like her from the sound of it! Best of luck (:

 

One problem,you don't know me... but I find most of the stuff about me disturbing,so I don't like to tell other people about myself,except for being lazy since that is common enough in boys,BUT,I am lazy even for being a boy! Oh also,I would find it a bit disturbing if the whole church caught wind! You see I've always been PRETTY private about my love life! I mean form a privious church & crush my friend found out without me telling him,same this THIS time,though it was a bit more complicated in that I was in a car with my friend Jordan,it was a van FYI,and me,and like 3 girls in the back and one next to my right,with an adult driving.They were asking a lot of questions about me so... OH WELL! YEEEAH they asked a lot of questions that led UP to who I had a crush on,and from there on they just narrowed it down and,,I helped them a bit by saying we were in the same class(WHAT tHE HECK MATT!),and they just guessed until I stopped saying NO to their guess! Yeah I don't lie! But I was happy since Jordan knew! And,well,I doubt any of the girls in the van would tell,same with the adult driving.And how your probably picturing them,they were various ages,for as I said,its a Youth Group.oh ill just tell you we went on a photo hunt in Downtown disney,TWO different teams(and no I was on a different team then Kateline),and somehow Zachery gets on Katelines team,who is a bit heavy on girls and same with my team but with guys! And yes Jordan was on my team! But we WENT there in different cars,like 3 I believe,and well when we left we all went in the cars we came in with! And yeah all that happened once we got back!... sorry... I am a motor mouth you see I am not exactly a PEOPLE PERSON at church or anywhere else,so I don't talk much! I guess that is why I unleash it all at once here! But,I think I only told Zachery for two purposes,the original to have him tell someone has a crush on her,and NOW,to share it and talk about it with Zachery! Lucky guy,I AM JELOUS! I mean I know their just friends,but I would love to be in his position,although then I would have a sister! BUT that wouldn't be so bad ,I mean I am sure Bethini and Zachery love each other very much as brother and sister,on the inside of course!

(this post was by accident http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png,too bad there is no delent button!)

I don't know what you said. Cause I can't read anything you said. Sorry

I don't know what you said. Cause I can't read anything you said. Sorry

 

Please point out my first mistake... during this time to respond ill look it over again! OR ELSE,I simply have bad grammar O-o

EDIT:Um no I think I did it in an understandable way! How odd that you don't understand it! WOW,something must be REALLY messed up with my brain O-o

Please point out my first mistake... during this time to respond ill look it over again! OR ELSE,I simply have bad grammar O-o

 

The grammar I don't care about. But whe you post like this.

I don't believe most of the people who will be on this thread will have been on THAT one but just in case... http://kh13.com/foru...er/page__st__20 BUT,honestly,that block of text JUST isn't needed! All you need to know is,I go to church every sunday,and I have a crush on a girl that is in the same class as me! I mean technically its a Youth group not a CLASS,but it doesn't really matter! Well,you see,there was always this OTHER family,there is the dad who is the pasture for the second service after sunday school,the daughter who is also in my Youth-Group,and then the son ZACHERY,also in my Youth group! You would think that Bethini(the brother of Zachery)would take a lot with Kateline(my crush),but,actually, Zachery and Kateline seem to talk a LOT,their good friends which is nice! No I am pretty sure Zachery isn't interested in her or the other way around or both! All I am going to say is,he is shorter then he should be.For the sake of privacy,that is all i'm going to say. Ahem,as I was saying,so for a month or so,about 4 or 5 sundays,OR A BIT LONGER,I have been wanting to tell Kateline that I have a crush on her,cause I already know that she couldn't like a guy like me! Um most of the reasons are private to ME,but one I can share is I am ultra lazy! So,anyways,this Sunday,for SOME reason,I just knew what I had to do,I had to tell Zachery that I had a crush on her,and have him tell her when he is talking to Kateline the following,in these exact words,"Someone anonymous has a crush on you,and he likes your laugh". Ah,she does have a cute laugh,and I wanted her to know that! So,after the second service,I go up to him,try to conversation with him to build up a good moment to tell him that I have a crush on Kateline! And,SOMEHOW,I was able to conjure up the courage to tell him! I then asked him to tell her that,but also if she asked anything related to WHO has a crush on her,to comfirm nor deny it! So say if she asked straight up who had a crush on her,he would say,"I will not comfirm nor deny that!" or so I could think! Or something like,"does he wear braces" or,"does he wear glasses" even though no one wears glasses in our class... I THINK! SO,ANYWAYS,we talked a it more,and then he went to go see Kateline,for you see,she likes to help with the litle kids during second service,and then I see him coming with Kateline,then I freak out,BECAUSE,I told him to not have her see us speaking to teach other,so that way she wouldn't know I was the person who had a crush on her! So I kinda acted like I wasn't there to talk with Zachery! OH BIG THING YOU NEED TO KNOW,I WAS ON THE PLAYGROUND THE ENTIRE TIME! So I just paid attention to the little kids enjoying the playground,then I notice my mom has come over in her car! Ya see I kinda told her that I was talking to one of my classmates so when I got into the car,she noted that she saw me over paying attention to the little kids! LUCKILY,my mom doesn't ask too many questions! Oh,and before I got in the car,I made sure Zachery knew I was leaving,so while he was taling to Kateline,i was waiting for him to look at me,and when I did,I waved! THE END! I just hope he got the message through! Though I worry because all she has to do is ask someone,"Do you have a crush on me?" And well in my church we don't like to LIE so... YEAH! I hope nothing goes wrong! I am anxiously waiting next week to ask Zachery how it went! Oh also,he is 13,I am 15,and Kateline... I thought I heard her age but I won't tell you what that number was just to think she was the wrong age! FINALLY,if she says no,or just says,"I'm sorry" or similiar,then,ITS OK! Sureill be dis-appointed but,well,there isn't anything I can do about being rejected except be friends with her!

 

It hard to read.Well to me anyways. I have very bad eyes and when I try to read something like that it hurts my eyes sorry.

The grammar I don't care about. But whe you post like this.

 

It hard to read.Well to me anyways. I have very bad eyes and when I try to read something like that it hurts my eyes sorry.

 

Oh I guess the ENTER-ing does help! Ok ill edit it

its awesome y like her so much bro ^^

One problem,you don't know me... but I find most of the stuff about me disturbing,so I don't like to tell other people about myself,except for being lazy since that is common enough in boys,BUT,I am lazy even for being a boy! Oh also,I would find it a bit disturbing if the whole church caught wind! You see I've always been PRETTY private about my love life! I mean form a privious church & crush my friend found out without me telling him,same this THIS time,though it was a bit more complicated in that I was in a car with my friend Jordan,it was a van FYI,and me,and like 3 girls in the back and one next to my right,with an adult driving.They were asking a lot of questions about me so... OH WELL! YEEEAH they asked a lot of questions that led UP to who I had a crush on,and from there on they just narrowed it down and,,I helped them a bit by saying we were in the same class(WHAT tHE HECK MATT!),and they just guessed until I stopped saying NO to their guess! Yeah I don't lie! But I was happy since Jordan knew! And,well,I doubt any of the girls in the van would tell,same with the adult driving.And how your probably picturing them,they were various ages,for as I said,its a Youth Group.oh ill just tell you we went on a photo hunt in Downtown disney,TWO different teams(and no I was on a different team then Kateline),and somehow Zachery gets on Katelines team,who is a bit heavy on girls and same with my team but with guys! And yes Jordan was on my team! But we WENT there in different cars,like 3 I believe,and well when we left we all went in the cars we came in with! And yeah all that happened once we got back!... sorry... I am a motor mouth you see I am not exactly a PEOPLE PERSON at church or anywhere else,so I don't talk much! I guess that is why I unleash it all at once here! But,I think I only told Zachery for two purposes,the original to have him tell someone has a crush on her,and NOW,to share it and talk about it with Zachery! Lucky guy,I AM JELOUS! I mean I know their just friends,but I would love to be in his position,although then I would have a sister! BUT that wouldn't be so bad ,I mean I am sure Bethini and Zachery love each other very much as brother and sister,on the inside of course!

 

First of all, you don't have to know someone well to notice if they act nice. :// And honestly with some of what you've previously said in other threads, I was only being polite by saying that. What, do you want me to post and say: Hey you've been kinda rude to me before and I don't know you but here's what to do with your life? Seriously man. Relating to your story, though, that doesn't make much sense. So you're on a Youth Group field trip to Disneyland, and separate into different photography groups, and you let a couple of kids draw your crush out of you? I know the Bible says not to lie, and you're lying to yourself when you say you don't lie, but all you had to say was you didn't like anyone right then. Or that it was none of their business or something. I apologize for the slow reply, though. It took me a long time to decipher that post. o.O

Matt you're gonna hate everything Imma bout to tell you, first even though you genuinely believe you're in love with that girl, you're not. You're mixing up obsession with love, I've been in love and whats going on inside you is not love but obsession the same thing hapened to me when I was your age but I had to get through everything feeling that comes after on my own and I know it was drammatic but it felt like it nearly spoiled my chances of being with a girl.

 

If I got to you sooner I would've told you to keep it 110% secret, people arent all bad but teens your age would give you a slagging for sayinjg you like a girl cause they think its funny, it's not for badness it's just fellas are immature enough to think your crush is funny. But obviously you're not gonna see the funny side. Hopefully that Zach guy will do as you asked but I wouldn't count on it. It'll probably be in your interest to tell her you got a crush on her soon but please God to spare your dignity do not flatly say you are in love with her, nothings gonna freak a girl out more than being that forward, also you might think its cute and while it works in poorly written movies grand gestures arent gonna win her affections so don't "passionately" kisss her and to hammer this point home do not say you love her!!!!

 

I'm not trying to stifle yuor feelings or put you down and this is a hunch but you're probably not one of the Justin Biebers at your school, so girls arent gonna be swooning for you, now it's not the end of the world but don't go thinking you're worthless or ugly I'm sure you look alright. You might think you're to young but you should definately consider working out 3 times a week to build muscle look healthy and feel good. Girls arent normally shallow and it would be ideal if one would like you as you are but I can 50% guarantee your chances would improve if you looked like you work out.

 

Of course confidence matters so ask that girl and have a feeling of self worth it'll save you the pain of hating yourself. lastly when you do ask her be prepared for her to say no or she doesnt like you that way. Its most likely gona be she don't fanncy you, it's not cause the universe hates you it's a part of life. Beside if you wait a few moar years you might meet a realy nice girl who likes you for you. Plus imo its better when your older and more mature. So if things things dont go your way wiat til you go home have a good cry and dont cancel your life. I also think its good advis=ce to not take it out on us to.

 

Christ sorry for saying so much.

Agreeing with everything CCD said. Honestly, I didn't read the first post, but CCD has some pretty sound advice. Just learn to have confidence, actually tell the girl you like her rather than thinking about it for months, and then see where things go from there.

first off post is way too long my vision is blurry from reading it second if I were you I would go over to that girl right now and sweep of her feet because if you don't someone else will. Harsh but it's the truth.

first off post is way too long my vision is blurry from reading it second if I were you I would go over to that girl right now and sweep of her feet because if you don't someone else will. Harsh but it's the truth.

 

That makes it sound like this girl is just an object for the taking. She has an opinion in this, too, you know. Honestly, she may not like him, or may just not want to date anyone. He can't make her do anything. And if she doesn't want to date him, hey, that's her choice and there's nothing he can do.

That makes it sound like this girl is just an object for the taking. She has an opinion in this, too, you know. Honestly, she may not like him, or may just not want to date anyone. He can't make her do anything. And if she doesn't want to date him, hey, that's her choice and there's nothing he can do.

 

I'm sorry if i offened you I just saying she seems like someone a lot of people would like and vice versa if he doesn't make move he'll never know how she feels.

"tis better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"-Alfred Tennyson

First of all, you don't have to know someone well to notice if they act nice. :// And honestly with some of what you've previously said in other threads, I was only being polite by saying that. What, do you want me to post and say: Hey you've been kinda rude to me before and I don't know you but here's what to do with your life? Seriously man. Relating to your story, though, that doesn't make much sense. So you're on a Youth Group field trip to Disneyland, and separate into different photography groups, and you let a couple of kids draw your crush out of you? I know the Bible says not to lie, and you're lying to yourself when you say you don't lie, but all you had to say was you didn't like anyone right then. Or that it was none of their business or something. I apologize for the slow reply, though. It took me a long time to decipher that post. o.O

 

Oh BASICALLY my ONE friend Jordan and some random girls who was also in the van on our return trip back found out when they were asking questions about me http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png and your right,I have lied before,so I SHOULDN'T say I don't lie!

I'm sorry if i offened you I just saying she seems like someone a lot of people would like and vice versa if he doesn't make move he'll never know how she feels.

"tis better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"-Alfred Tennyson

 

Um I just wanna tell her,though due to me not having enough courage,that is why I had Zachery tell her some mystery person has crush on her! If she doesn't like me there isn't anything I can do,I just wanna get it off of my chest and MOVE ON ya know? Although,I guess with love,it isn't that SIMPLE is it?

Matt you're gonna hate everything Imma bout to tell you, first even though you genuinely believe you're in love with that girl, you're not. You're mixing up obsession with love, I've been in love and whats going on inside you is not love but obsession the same thing hapened to me when I was your age but I had to get through everything feeling that comes after on my own and I know it was drammatic but it felt like it nearly spoiled my chances of being with a girl.

 

If I got to you sooner I would've told you to keep it 110% secret, people arent all bad but teens your age would give you a slagging for sayinjg you like a girl cause they think its funny, it's not for badness it's just fellas are immature enough to think your crush is funny. But obviously you're not gonna see the funny side. Hopefully that Zach guy will do as you asked but I wouldn't count on it. It'll probably be in your interest to tell her you got a crush on her soon but please God to spare your dignity do not flatly say you are in love with her, nothings gonna freak a girl out more than being that forward, also you might think its cute and while it works in poorly written movies grand gestures arent gonna win her affections so don't "passionately" kisss her and to hammer this point home do not say you love her!!!!

 

I'm not trying to stifle yuor feelings or put you down and this is a hunch but you're probably not one of the Justin Biebers at your school, so girls arent gonna be swooning for you, now it's not the end of the world but don't go thinking you're worthless or ugly I'm sure you look alright. You might think you're to young but you should definately consider working out 3 times a week to build muscle look healthy and feel good. Girls arent normally shallow and it would be ideal if one would like you as you are but I can 50% guarantee your chances would improve if you looked like you work out.

 

Of course confidence matters so ask that girl and have a feeling of self worth it'll save you the pain of hating yourself. lastly when you do ask her be prepared for her to say no or she doesnt like you that way. Its most likely gona be she don't fanncy you, it's not cause the universe hates you it's a part of life. Beside if you wait a few moar years you might meet a realy nice girl who likes you for you. Plus imo its better when your older and more mature. So if things things dont go your way wiat til you go home have a good cry and dont cancel your life. I also think its good advis=ce to not take it out on us to.

 

Christ sorry for saying so much.

 

oh no I agree! um Zachery didn't do or say anythingthat would indicate NOT getting the message about some mystery guy liking her,so yeah.NO way I would be so BOLD,I might say I like her,but to directly say I LOVE HER,thats a little to strong for me! also its a church . and that IS why I plan on dating when I am 16,and maybe even later,but hey the later the BETTER! but its true your much better of dating when your older and more mature.and yeah she PROBABLY doesn't like me in a romantic way,simply because of,THE CHANCES! But I honestly just wanna get this off of my chest,and your probably right I am just obbsessed! I already changed my mind once from another girl,Korean,who was at another church I used to go to ALONG with this one,but now its ONLY this one,but then,I guess ill put it,became OBSESSED with Kateline and lost my obbsession! I know to be careful and to make sure to draw a line between obbession and being in love! I'm mature enough in ONE way to know the line between the two! BUT,as I said,the whole point of this situation is to tell her,get it off of my chest,and get on with my life,although of all the odds if she DOES like me or wanna give me a chance,I would wait a year,or at least UNDER a year.

Agreeing with everything CCD said. Honestly, I didn't read the first post, but CCD has some pretty sound advice. Just learn to have confidence, actually tell the girl you like her rather than thinking about it for months, and then see where things go from there.

 

YUP.... I have always wanted to get it off of my chest,and just get ON with my life! Although,I don't have the COURAGE,so that is why I had Zachery tell her SOMEONE has a crush on her! If she asks ME if I like her,i have to say yes,I couldn't lie to her,or anyone else if they asked I liked Kateline!

Matt you're gonna hate everything Imma bout to tell you, first even though you genuinely believe you're in love with that girl, you're not. You're mixing up obsession with love, I've been in love and whats going on inside you is not love but obsession the same thing hapened to me when I was your age but I had to get through everything feeling that comes after on my own and I know it was drammatic but it felt like it nearly spoiled my chances of being with a girl.

 

If I got to you sooner I would've told you to keep it 110% secret, people arent all bad but teens your age would give you a slagging for sayinjg you like a girl cause they think its funny, it's not for badness it's just fellas are immature enough to think your crush is funny. But obviously you're not gonna see the funny side. Hopefully that Zach guy will do as you asked but I wouldn't count on it. It'll probably be in your interest to tell her you got a crush on her soon but please God to spare your dignity do not flatly say you are in love with her, nothings gonna freak a girl out more than being that forward, also you might think its cute and while it works in poorly written movies grand gestures arent gonna win her affections so don't "passionately" kisss her and to hammer this point home do not say you love her!!!!

 

I'm not trying to stifle yuor feelings or put you down and this is a hunch but you're probably not one of the Justin Biebers at your school, so girls arent gonna be swooning for you, now it's not the end of the world but don't go thinking you're worthless or ugly I'm sure you look alright. You might think you're to young but you should definately consider working out 3 times a week to build muscle look healthy and feel good. Girls arent normally shallow and it would be ideal if one would like you as you are but I can 50% guarantee your chances would improve if you looked like you work out.

 

Of course confidence matters so ask that girl and have a feeling of self worth it'll save you the pain of hating yourself. lastly when you do ask her be prepared for her to say no or she doesnt like you that way. Its most likely gona be she don't fanncy you, it's not cause the universe hates you it's a part of life. Beside if you wait a few moar years you might meet a realy nice girl who likes you for you. Plus imo its better when your older and more mature. So if things things dont go your way wiat til you go home have a good cry and dont cancel your life. I also think its good advis=ce to not take it out on us to.

 

Christ sorry for saying so much.

 

YEAH... he told her... I dunno why you thought he wouldn't... as a matter of fact CAN you tell me why you thought that he wouldn't?