This person I once knew is long gone. She's changed. Before, it was almost as if she didn't care about her appearence or what others thought of her. She used to be this beautiful woman with a great personality who I was attracted to. Now, it's all changed. She's been wearing all this makeup, some people say that she wants me to ignore her, yet she wants to hack into conversations that I have with her friends over Facebook to see if I'm talking about her. Yet, I still have this attraction to her, and I half want to get it over with, but on the other hand, I still want to believe that she is still the beautiful woman with a great personality who I was attracted to.

its hard to get over someone you care about despite how they may change. i hope everything works out for you.

Similar problem to another post in this section. Let me tell you roughly what I told them.

 

People change. My middle school friend became a druggie. My elementary school BF became a druggie. My other BF became jelous of me and began to ignore me. People change. You have to realize that behind the makeup, she may not be the same person. She probably has some sort of problems, and it may be in your best intrest to separate yourself from her. If she's trying to "hack" into your files, she may be a dangerous influence. Think about the long run... Would you want a girlfriend like that?

Why does it matter if she wears makeup or not

it's her business to be honest not yours

I don't see how she's changed you need to elaborate

All I see is that you're complaining that now she's wearing makeup

Also don't always believe what you hear from other people

Wait... So you think she changed cause she wears makeup?

It's because of the fact that she almost never seemed to care about her appearence. Now it's as if she's trying to impress everyone and it's affecting her personality.

It's because of the fact that she almost never seemed to care about her appearence. Now it's as if she's trying to impress everyone and it's affecting her personality.

 

Again: it's none of your business

There's nothing wrong with carrying about your appearance.

Why do people automatically assume that when a girl wears makeup she's trying to impress everyone?

Maybe you know, SHE LIKES MAKEUP

OR SHE WANTS TO WEAR MAKEUP

AND SHE WANTS TO LOOK AND FEEL PRETTY

AND ENHANCE HER ALREADY NICE FEATURES

That's what makeup is for.

Honestly it's none of your business and if her 'change in personality' bothers you so much, then just stop associating with her.

Like Koko said, why should it matter to you if she wears make-up? It's not your decision whether she cares about her appearance or not, and it's not your decision if she wants to impress people.

 

How about actually talking to her and seeing if she wants you to ignore rather than relying on what other people are saying.