gambler-of-fate 1 Posted January 5, 2010 Hey guys I'm sorry I havent been on much but I'm going through some hard times. My parents are devoricing and well grandma dearist is deciding to blame everything on my poor father. We need to get her out of here but my 'mom' and I use that word lightly says that if we tell the 'evil woman from hell' to leave then she'll make my dad's "Homeless" friends leave...thats not fair. So I need to find a way to cope with this because frankly I'm not doing to well myself and really I have friends trying to kill themselves 24/7 [yes I know strange choice in friends but I love them and they need to know they're loved too] but I've had awful ideas and well if anyone can help I'll be greatful. thank you ~LuLu Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ObsidianEagle 103 Posted January 6, 2010 ouch, thats an incredibly tough situation... i don't really know what you should do there hold tight until (hopefully) someone else can give you a good answer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cricket 1,180 Posted January 6, 2010 Ok, first off, you might need to keep some distance between you and your friends in order for you to become mentally stable and from the shock of the divorce. You cannot give wonderful advice to your friends right now since you are going through a tough situation. I am not trying to sound like the 'b' word, but really tell your friends you need space and cannot help out with all their problems right now and tell them to just hang on tight, because they matter and killing themselves won't solve anything, it will just cause more grief. For your situation, I do not know what I can really say, but to not lose hope in anything. things will straighten back up later on and it just takes time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rue 3 Posted January 7, 2010 Ok, first off, you might need to keep some distance between you and your friends in order for you to become mentally stable and from the shock of the divorce. You cannot give wonderful advice to your friends right now since you are going through a tough situation. I am not trying to sound like the 'b' word, but really tell your friends you need space and cannot help out with all their problems right now and tell them to just hang on tight, because they matter and killing themselves won't solve anything, it will just cause more grief. For your situation, I do not know what I can really say, but to not lose hope in anything. things will straighten back up later on and it just takes time. Shes right, besides, I got a firned, he's an Orphan, now. so,All in all, in short,is that Listen to cricet she's right! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gambler-of-fate 1 Posted January 8, 2010 ari I appreciate the help Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deadshot 666 Posted January 8, 2010 this sounds tuff i hope every thing gets better and i if you need anyone to talk to to can PM or chat thing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
