first if all, i'm sorry to always post these kinds of things.

 

sometimes i feel like i'm being the kind of person i dont want to be. i feel like i'm beggining to change into that person. i dont want to be that kind of person. (womanizers, jerks, etc.) i feel like if i dont do something i will stay that kind of person. is this all in my head? pls respond.

You are who you choose to be . If you don't want to become 'that person " then choose to become the person you want to be .

Flaming Lea speaks the truth! 

You are who you choose to be . If you don't want to become 'that person " then choose to become the person you want to be .

 

Pretty much it.

 

If you need help, ask someone for help. 

Pretty much it.

 

If you need help, ask someone for help. 

who?

....OMG. The person who created this thread sounds sooo much like me, its crazy O_O;;;

 

*I* also worry i'm going to become a jerk, a meanie, a bad person. And won't be able to control it. Just cuz I was always soo....girly. And NICE. And i've been convinced girly girls are bad in the past. Or being girly all your life means you HAVE to become an abusive jerk. Or something.

 

I synthisize, first poster. I synthisize a lot. I wonder what medications your on for this.....(i'll probably be on another one soon enouth. but i have been calming down the last few days).

 

 

Try to relax, though...but, if it helps. Don't even think of yourself as a human anymore. Try to believe your a different creature...

 

 

For me, I try to imagion i'm a plant or part plant, like, part flower. I stemmed that from my love to wear dresses and skirts and they look flower like IMO.

 

Try a non-human creature you can identify with. If you feel being human will turn you into a jerk......stop thinking of yourself as a human. Like, now, if you can.

 

It seems to help ease my own axiety, at least.

 

 

I hope this post was helpful. I really do not know your situation. But, if its anything like mine is, maybe we're on a simular ground here.

 

Yeah...

Edited June 4, 201312 yr by ~DawnStar2004~

You're a cool dude. I'm sure you'll be just fine.