i have a problem. i confessed to a girl i liked and she said she liked me back but she doesent want a boyfriend. not to mention that im not sure if i still like her. im annoyed by this. and im also annoyed becouse i think its immoral to be worried about thsi. i want a girlfriend but she said shell start dating when she's 18. thats like 5 years and i dont want to wait that long. someone pls help me. i feel bad becouse of this becouse i feel like i am a bad person becouse of this.

Well if you still really want to be with here then you can either wait or try to change her mind. 

 

If you no longer want to. Then move on an find somebody else. 

5 years is a bit of a wait...

screw advice: do what you heart says.

It's her choice. If she wants to wait until she's 18, let her do it. 

Ask her why.

 

If the problem is that she doesnt want a relationship: Then you can't do something

If the problem is that she wants but she is afraid that you will be pressing, tell her that you wont and I don't know make her feel that you are not like "all the others" ( you know how girls canbe )

 

But if you really wanna hear my advice, You're still young, you should not worry about these things! Live your childhood! WOOOOO

Ask her why.

 

If the problem is that she doesnt want a relationship: Then you can't do something

If the problem is that she wants but she is afraid that you will be pressing, tell her that you wont and I don't know make her feel that you are not like "all the others" ( you know how girls canbe )

 

But if you really wanna hear my advice, You're still young, you should not worry about these things! Live your childhood! WOOOOO

 

 

It's her choice. If she wants to wait until she's 18, let her do it. 

 

 

5 years is a bit of a wait...

screw advice: do what you heart says.

 

 

Well if you still really want to be with here then you can either wait or try to change her mind. 

 

If you no longer want to. Then move on an find somebody else. 

 

 

i have a problem. i confessed to a girl i liked and she said she liked me back but she doesent want a boyfriend. not to mention that im not sure if i still like her. im annoyed by this. and im also annoyed becouse i think its immoral to be worried about thsi. i want a girlfriend but she said shell start dating when she's 18. thats like 5 years and i dont want to wait that long. someone pls help me. i feel bad becouse of this becouse i feel like i am a bad person becouse of this.

to make things even worse, im not even sure i want to go out with her anymore. i feel even worse now! for some reason i dont feel that way anymore about her. this only makes things worse.

How does losing romantic interest in a person make you bad?  Especially when you two aren't even a couple, she doesn't want a boyfriend yet, and you're not even sure you want to be said boyfriend?  But if you still care about each other and enjoy each other's company, you can always, y'know, hand out as friends.  Strange idea, I know.

to make things even worse, im not even sure i want to go out with her anymore. i feel even worse now! for some reason i dont feel that way anymore about her. this only makes things worse.

If it's getting really confusing, just move on. She's not the only girl you'll ever have interest in throughout your life. 

to make things even worse, im not even sure i want to go out with her anymore. i feel even worse now! for some reason i dont feel that way anymore about her. this only makes things worse.

Don't beat yourself up about it: do as you feel is right, regardless of whatever someone else says.

Maybe she's not the right one?

Think it over before you place yourself in a relationship that is stale from the get go, and makes you both miserable.

to make things even worse, im not even sure i want to go out with her anymore. i feel even worse now! for some reason i dont feel that way anymore about her. this only makes things worse.

Don't feel bad about it man. You can't help the way you feel. 

Don't feel bad about it man. You can't help the way you feel. 

so im confused. do i like her or not? how do i feel. i feel like i dont like her romanticly anymore but i still enjoy her company. what now?

How does losing romantic interest in a person make you bad?  Especially when you two aren't even a couple, she doesn't want a boyfriend yet, and you're not even sure you want to be said boyfriend?  But if you still care about each other and enjoy each other's company, you can always, y'know, hand out as friends.  Strange idea, I know.

becouse even tho i told her i like her id be lying now. i told her and now that i dont feel that way anymore, i feel like i lied.

so im confused. do i like her or not? how do i feel. i feel like i dont like her romanticly anymore but i still enjoy her company. what now?

Well It all depends on how you feel. If you feel like you don't like her romanticaly anymore. Than you don't like her that when anymore. If you still enjoy her company that is fine. Just be her friend. 

Well It all depends on how you feel. If you feel like you don't like her romanticaly anymore. Than you don't like her that when anymore. If you still enjoy her company that is fine. Just be her friend. 

but i already told her that i like her. do i just go up to her and tell her i dont like her anymore? that seems pretty unsensative and i dont like that.

but i already told her that i like her. do i just go up to her and tell her i dont like her anymore? that seems pretty unsensative and i dont like that.

You don't need to do that. She already told you she doesn't want a boyfriend. So there is no need. Just hang out and have fun with her. 

You don't need to do that. She already told you she doesn't want a boyfriend. So there is no need. Just hang out and have fun with her. 

she also said that she liked me back.