(i wasn't sure which section to post this)

 

     So as of today i no longer have a girlfriend. This is my real first heartbreak which is pretty sad because i'm 24 years old. I was crying a lot earlier but now i just feel numb. This is so hard for me because even after what she did to me i still love her so much. She wasn't even going to break up with me but i just had to man up and break it off myself because i know things would just get worse. I just wanted to end it on somewhat good terms. I don't hate her. Even though i probably should. I'm sorry if i come off as whiny in this. I just needed to let this stuff out here because i have no one to talk to right now and i'm not the type of person to post all my business on facebook. 

Well.....I can't do much for you, but I do understand your pain. Heartbreak sucks.....and if we don't bawl our eyes out over it right away, it comes eventually. It's alright that you're venting a bit, though. Everyone needs somewhere they can just- release the frustration.

 

 

I will say this : it takes a real adult to end a relationship that you know is not healthy for either of you. And, even though it hurts tremendously right now, I guarantee your life will become better than it would have if you had continued with it. Temptation's gonna come, you're gonna want her back...but, you just have to keep reminding yourself of your priorities, and that you've made the best choice for the future.

Question: What did she do in the first place? At least tell us that much!

Question: What did she do in the first place? At least tell us that much!

Well she's been acting really weird this past week texting all the time in front of me and i looked through her phone and found out she is  pursuing a relationship with another guy she met at the bar. I seen his number before but she told me it was a guy her sister met and was texting through her phone. 

There's no real cure for heartache; it hurts like hell, but you've just gotta wait it out. If anything, try venting some more, keeping stuff about her bottled up will only increase the hurt.

I know It hurts, more than any physical injury.

 

But don't be disheartened. It just means that it wasn't meant to be and that someday you will find someone who you can truly be happy with.

Sorry if I sounded insensitive - don't beat yourself up over it, be happy that she's with someone else who might be able to make her happy - and then afterwards you need to work out how to pursue happiness again and avoid falling into despair.

 

Keep you chin up, there is always light at the end of the tunnel

All the very best!

I'm sorry to hear this dude. But hey, like everyone else is saying here: don't beat yourself up. This was actually the right thing to do in my opinion. It's her loss, like straight out. Everyone needs to be with someone who's 100% dedicated and faithful to them, and them only. That's what a relationship is about. It's about trust, love and fidelity. Heartbreak sucks, I know. But sometimes... It's for the best for both parties. I wish you good luck with tackling this hardship, and remember to just smile.

 

And hey, for every relationship that fails you're one step closer to finding that special woman for you.

 

Peace!

Thank you guys for the kind words and support. It really means a lot to me.