I swear I can't be happy at all when I'm at home anymore. Once my dad gets home from his meetings, He is constantly screaming at me because I always do something wrong in his eyes.

They want me to be Perfect.....And I'm just not.

Two weeks ago, I went to my first Impact Choir weekend and I had a fantastic time..and I haven't had a good time in a while. Anyways, I get back home renewed in my faith with Jesus and Trying to be a better christian then my dad starts yelling at me to stop talking and why I can't grow up etc.

It hurts so much.

I love him.

I love my mom.

I love them both to death.

And I just want to know why he keeps yelling at me and bringing me down. I try to be kind and act like the "Good 13 year old young lady I should be" But it's never enough. I want it to be like it was before he started yelling at me and getting so angry...

And I just hate it..

 

I want to tell him...But I'm afraid he'll get mad at me and start yelling again.

Maybe you should yell back, make them realize what they are doing.

Well I ask my mom why my dad kept yelling at me. She just said " I don't know sweetie. He is just mad for some reason. Just leave it and Don't worry about it. He loves you."

 

...But I how can I know he really loves me when he's being screaming at me for weeks now?

Sit down and talk to him. Tell him that it hurts you.

He might be stressed from something and can't help but take it out on you.

Talk with him ;~;

Hope it helps. <3

Well. If I were you, I would give him a left hook to the jaw to quiet him up. But I'm not you so...

 

My advice: Try to find the root of the problem by yourself, because parents aren't always willing to tell their kids what's wrong with them.

If this does not work, talk to your mom more. She seems like a sensible person. Ask her to ask him why is he upset.

 

If he just taking his anger out on you....that's just wrong. But hopefully that's not the case.

Thanks guys. My mom is a very sensible and caring person. I love her so much because of it.

I think I will try talking to him... I do think I may already know why he's bring so angry. It's just hard having to stand up to him.

I'm in the same situation quite often. So I can relate...

I'll admit, I have a little problem with listening to it... and I find myself screaming back, and he screams at me even louder. And even more agressively.

Try to talk to him about it, like everyone else said. But dont look to me for good advice... because I'm not one to look to on these things e,e

Well, it's probably not yor fault. Maybe he's just stressed. But if that isn't it, talk to him calmly about it.

No matter how loud he gets, don't raise your voice or back down. Be cool and collected.

Well I ask my mom why my dad kept yelling at me. She just said " I don't know sweetie. He is just mad for some reason. Just leave it and Don't worry about it. He loves you."

 

...But I how can I know he really loves me when he's being screaming at me for weeks now?

 

I know your pain, my Dad would scream at me, beat me ETC, but for different reasons.

 

My Dad did not love me, but yours I think is different.

Odds are he comes home tired and stressed from work, and when he see's certain things they may set him off. Just clean up around the house, do your homework and try to be helpful. It will very likely solve the problem.

I'm sorry JF

Your one of thepersons I most missed and I wish I could help you with those problems that you have

Talk tohim and then tell us how was it ok?

he's probably stressed, even tough it isn't right to discount that on his daughter...

 

well, good luck ^^

I'm in the same situation quite often. So I can relate...

I'll admit, I have a little problem with listening to it... and I find myself screaming back, and he screams at me even louder. And even more agressively.

Try to talk to him about it, like everyone else said. But dont look to me for good advice... because I'm not one to look to on these things e,e

 

Well, it's probably not yor fault. Maybe he's just stressed. But if that isn't it, talk to him calmly about it.

No matter how loud he gets, don't raise your voice or back down. Be cool and collected.

 

 

Well I ask my mom why my dad kept yelling at me. She just said " I don't know sweetie. He is just mad for some reason. Just leave it and Don't worry about it. He loves you."

 

...But I how can I know he really loves me when he's being screaming at me for weeks now?

 

I know your pain, my Dad would scream at me, beat me ETC, but for different reasons.

 

My Dad did not love me, but yours I think is different.

Odds are he comes home tired and stressed from work, and when he see's certain things they may set him off. Just clean up around the house, do your homework and try to be helpful. It will very likely solve the problem.

 

Thank you guys. It really means a lot to me that you guys actually care and want to help. I still haven't talked with him yet...But he is starting to be himself again. I think it was cause he was stressed or whatever. But I will talk to him...sometime.

 

I'm sorry JF

Your one of thepersons I most missed and I wish I could help you with those problems that you have

Talk tohim and then tell us how was it ok?

he's probably stressed, even tough it isn't right to discount that on his daughter...

 

well, good luck ^^

 

Aww! Thank you Phil! That means a lot to me. (:

 

 

Again, Thank you everyone. I feel a lot better. ^_^

..Now all I gotta do is talk with him.