I have a taken a different perspective on life due to recent things happening in mine. I have realized that it doesn't pay to be a nice guy, because being the nice guy always makes you a target. People take advantage of you when you are the nice guy. People try to punk you when you are the nice guy. I'm sick of being nice to people who treat me like I am a piece of shit stuck to the bottom of their shoe. So I have resolved not to be nice anymore, but now people are steering clear of me at school because they think if they say the wrong thing to me, I'm going to kick their ass.

 

 

Am I making the right decision by becoming a person without a hint of niceness? I think it's getting all of my "haters" away from me, but my friends are getting kinda iffy with me as well.

hatetism

I think you should still be nice. But not everyone you come across will like you, and yes, if you are nice to somebody that will always take advantage of you and your kindness, then don't hang out with them anymore. You can't expect everyone to like you just because you're nice. So I say be nice to those who are your true friends and won't always take advantage of you.

I think that you should be nice to people you just met or have never been bad to you. But being mean to everyone? That's a little harsh. I think you should only be mean to those that piss you off.

 

Just my thoughts on the matter.

hatetism

 

GTFO.

 

But yeah, I know what you mean man . A lot of people at school annoy the hell out of me. I say you still be nice, if someone else does something to piss you off, you get them back. So, kind of half nice, half mean...

 

/lame advice

I have a taken a different perspective on life due to recent things happening in mine. I have realized that it doesn't pay to be a nice guy, because being the nice guy always makes you a target. People take advantage of you when you are the nice guy. People try to punk you when you are the nice guy. I'm sick of being nice to people who treat me like I am a piece of shit stuck to the bottom of their shoe. So I have resolved not to be nice anymore, but now people are steering clear of me at school because they think if they say the wrong thing to me, I'm going to kick their ass.

 

 

Am I making the right decision by becoming a person without a hint of niceness? I think it's getting all of my "haters" away from me, but my friends are getting kinda iffy with me as well.

 

You won't be taken advantage of if you're nice, you'll be taken advantage of if you're a pushover.

hatetism

 

I would punch you in the face if you were in front of me right now.

 

@Everyone else.

 

I'm not planning on being a grouch or anything, I'm just not going to be that happy-go-lucky guy who would give anyone a dollar just because. I'm not going to be that guy who does things for people because he wants to be respected. I'm not going to be that guy who gets shoved into the locker and laughs about it. I'm deciding to fight back people who piss me off.

 

Some of my friends think I've become a ruffian, and they don't like that. That's why our relationships are becoming iffy.

 

hatetism

 

I would punch you in the face if you were in front of me right now.

 

@Everyone else.

 

I'm not planning on being a grouch or anything, I'm just not going to be that happy-go-lucky guy who would give anyone a dollar just because. I'm not going to be that guy who does things for people because he wants to be respected. I'm not going to be that guy who gets shoved into the locker and laughs about it. I'm deciding to fight back people who piss me off.

 

Some of my friends think I've become a ruffian, and they don't like that. That's why our relationships are becoming iffy.

 

SK3 when i said hatetism i wasn't talking about u i was talking about people who take advantage of nice people like some of my friends

 

hatetism is a word i use for people who are more than haters

I know where you're coming from SK, people used to push me around like I was a piece of trash at school for being so nice, and I just took it all the time, or fobbed it off like it was nothing. I was too nice for my own good. One day I decided I wouldn't be so nice, like yourself, sadly it has to be done sometimes to get people to stop annoying you.

 

Anyway, what I do really is just be mean to those who are mean to me, give it back and they back off. As for those who are nice to me and who I consider my friends, I'm still nice to them. It seems to work well for me, as you said if you be too nice people will walk over you, take advantage of you and it's terrible when that happens. I can't say you're not making the right decision doing what you are, or the wrong one though, but personally I'd go down the road I have, balance out the two.

I'm a nice guy myself. But all you need to do is learn to say no. If they don't accept no then you kick their ass.

 

Acting mean and "tough guy" to everyone isn't going to gain you respect. Actually everyone is going to be making fun of you behind your back. If your unlucky they will all rise up against you because they will have enough of you.

 

"You may hand us over to the executioner, but in three months time, the disgusted and harried people will bring you to book and drag you alive through the dirt in the streets." -Erwin von Witzleben

 

Trust me, I deal with people who act tough all the time. It always backfires on them eventually.

 

If you want to go around and be mean then I recommend building some muscle and wearing some Kevlar.

 

That's all I have to say.

SORAtheKING, sorry, I misinterpreted your post.

 

@Tsunamo and FFB4. Thanks for the advice. I don't want to be a "tough guy" per say, I just want people to know that they can't bully me into getting what they want from me.

Wait a minute... Since when you be a "nice guy"?

I always see you as over-confident guy(<-which is in common sense not Mr.nice-guy) (what you do online here is from your heart) and that is your real personality, you may just have expressed it wrong in real world. nothing has to do with being nice guy or not. Come to think of it, even if you being not-nice-person you simply do what your real personality in reversal and as much as I know, that doesn't do anything good.

 

...I think all you need is courage (ah, cliche, I know -_-' but anyway, no-more-mr-nice-guy sure drives wrong perception here, I was being mistaken in your means too, if the post of mine isn't suited of what you mean, ignore those parts)

 

(I still kinda don't get what you mean, if you're not ruffian, then you're not a bad guy, which means you're still sufficiently nice, then.)

Dude be your self and nice then when the bad people come unleash your hatre and let them know that you are not so nice all the time lol simple fix

I agree with you, but the trick is, you can be nice, but you can trust no one. and you better be ready to drop someone under the bus at any given time when necisary.

SORAtheKING, sorry, I misinterpreted your post.

 

@Tsunamo and FFB4. Thanks for the advice. I don't want to be a "tough guy" per say, I just want people to know that they can't bully me into getting what they want from me.

 

Which is good, don't be a pushover, but don't change you're sweetheart.

go kick some ass if you want my opinion dont stand anyone that bullies you around and if you go down you will go down swinnging ;D

OLIVER TWIST.

I agree with you, but the trick is, you can be nice, but you can trust no one. and you better be ready to drop someone under the bus at any given time when necisary.

 

me?

I think ur making the right decison cuz my bf doesdid the same thing.

 

I agree with you, but the trick is, you can be nice, but you can trust no one. and you better be ready to drop someone under the bus at any given time when necisary.

 

me?

 

NO NOT YOU! SK3!

 

Anyways, Kicke da ass!

you know what... that's a hell of a good idea. except anyone could kill me if I tried to hurt them. don't imagine me as that nerdy guy who casn't do shit, it's just that everyone else is stronger then me. And I AM sick of beign treated like this. I'm gonna show them... and I'm gonna show EVERYONE THAT TREATS ME LIKE A firetruckING LOSER!!!!!!!!!!