December 29, 201014 yr Then I'm sure you'll be happy to know that this makes me closer to you(not in a sexual way of course so don't get scared). IM me about this ok? Anyways, have you tried therapy. Even if it's hard to admit, you should talk to someone about this that can actually really help. Just talking about it, will make it better. It's the first step in letting go. I am very sorry that this happened. I know words really don't mean much in a situation like this but I hope you know that I mean this.
December 29, 201014 yr Then I'm sure you'll be happy to know that this makes me closer to you(not in a sexual way of course so don't get scared). IM me about this ok? Anyways, have you tried therapy. Even if it's hard to admit, you should talk to someone about this that can actually really help. Just talking about it, will make it better. It's the first step in letting go. I am very sorry that this happened. I know words really don't mean much in a situation like this but I hope you know that I mean this. Off topic: .. But how does this make you closer to him?! I just .. don't get it. And .. I'm not sure this is something we can help you out with. As Zexion's_Lover_46 said .. Try therapy.. talk to a psychologist.. or at least a welfare officer
December 29, 201014 yr Then I'm sure you'll be happy to know that this makes me closer to you(not in a sexual way of course so don't get scared). IM me about this ok? Anyways, have you tried therapy. Even if it's hard to admit, you should talk to someone about this that can actually really help. Just talking about it, will make it better. It's the first step in letting go. I am very sorry that this happened. I know words really don't mean much in a situation like this but I hope you know that I mean this. Off topic: .. But how does this make you closer to her?! I just .. don't get it. And .. I'm not sure this is something we can help you out with. As Zexion's_Lover_46 said .. Try therapy.. talk to a psychologist.. or at least a welfare officer Kinode's a dude, just saying. Anyway I think that maybe you shouldn't tell any more people, if you have something to get off your chest write it down in a journal. If you act like none of this happen those around will forget that it did happen. It worked for me when a secret got out. It used to be all anyone talked about and now every has forgotten.
December 30, 201014 yr That's awful...like everyone has been saying you really should try talking to someone (parent, counselor, therapist, etc.) about it. You shouldn't have to keep being reminded of it. If you ever need someone to talk to, just send me a PM/IM, okay? <3
December 30, 201014 yr Wait, so you go raped by a 6 year old? I'm a little confused, could you explain it clearer so I can help you out?
December 30, 201014 yr Author Wait, so you go raped by a 6 year old? I'm a little confused, could you explain it clearer so I can help you out? I think the term is abused...
December 30, 201014 yr Then I'm sure you'll be happy to know that this makes me closer to you(not in a sexual way of course so don't get scared). IM me about this ok? Anyways, have you tried therapy. Even if it's hard to admit, you should talk to someone about this that can actually really help. Just talking about it, will make it better. It's the first step in letting go. I am very sorry that this happened. I know words really don't mean much in a situation like this but I hope you know that I mean this. Off topic: .. But how does this make you closer to him?! I just .. don't get it. And .. I'm not sure this is something we can help you out with. As Zexion's_Lover_46 said .. Try therapy.. talk to a psychologist.. or at least a welfare officer Let's just say I know what he went through. It brings me closer to him because I can understand him better. Anways, I wish you the best of luck in trying to let this go Kinode
December 30, 201014 yr This must be a hard memory to forget child. Talking about it or writing it down somewhere is a good way to release it from you. Do not keep it bottled up inside though. May I ask, have you had any strange dreams lately? In my research, dreams tell alot about a person and their current situations..or on what to do for the future..
December 31, 201014 yr Wait, so you go raped by a 6 year old? I'm a little confused, could you explain it clearer so I can help you out? I think the term is abused... I wouldn't use the term "abused". No doubt it was a traumatizing event in your life, but at that age I'm pretty certain that the boy had no idea what he was doing. Kids at that age are unable to fully grasp the concept of sexuality, what it's about etc. Odds are it's haunting him as much as it's haunting you. I suggest therapy or at the least someone to talk to, it will make you feel way better about it.
December 31, 201014 yr well that other kid must have been just creepy. obviously at that time he wouldn't even have known what it is. really you shouldn't have told anyone in the first place. now you should just hope they don't spread it IMO
December 31, 201014 yr I understand where you're coming from, but there's no possible way, imo, that a 1st grader would know what he's doing, like Eterna said. I guess I don't understand how you know that he's gay and that he 'does it' with other boys if he moved away after that. And again, if he is a 1st grader he doesn't understand those feelings and would probably not even know what being gay is. I'm sorry that had to happen to you, but overall, the whole story kind of confused me.
December 31, 201014 yr Author I understand where you're coming from, but there's no possible way, imo, that a 1st grader would know what he's doing, like Eterna said. I guess I don't understand how you know that he's gay and that he 'does it' with other boys if he moved away after that. And again, if he is a 1st grader he doesn't understand those feelings and would probably not even know what being gay is. I'm sorry that had to happen to you, but overall, the whole story kind of confused me. He likes Hannah Montana and is all like... lets say he acts like Marluxia in those comics SpoonyChan dubs.. And he kinda admited. Actually he said he did it with girls too which makes me even more confused... And he knew, because he tried to shove the bird up the nest... He probably saw some porn or something... And he's adopted. might have something to do with that..
December 31, 201014 yr I understand where you're coming from, but there's no possible way, imo, that a 1st grader would know what he's doing, like Eterna said. I guess I don't understand how you know that he's gay and that he 'does it' with other boys if he moved away after that. And again, if he is a 1st grader he doesn't understand those feelings and would probably not even know what being gay is. I'm sorry that had to happen to you, but overall, the whole story kind of confused me. He likes Hannah Montana and is all like... lets say he acts like Marluxia in those comics SpoonyChan dubs.. And he kinda admited. Actually he said he did it with girls too which makes me even more confused... And he knew, because he tried to shove the bird up the nest... He probably saw some porn or something... And he's adopted. might have something to do with that.. Okay, are you talking about him in first grade or him currently? If you are talking about him in first grade, then that accusation is pretty false, more or less. My little brother is 8 and he loves Justin Bieber and Hannah Montana. That does not mean he is gay. Also, there's this cool thing where you can like both guys and girls. It's called being bisexual. Sorry, I'm still confused.
December 31, 201014 yr fool. READ THIS IMPORTANT How old are you now? If you're old enough, try really hard to get a girlfriend. Tell yourself it wasn't yourself it wasn't your fault. Believe it, cuz it's true. The more you like being with your girlfriend, the more you'll dislike the event that occured. The more you dislike the event, the more you will realize it's not your fault and feel less guilt about it. You may be finding yourself blaming that boy more, even hate him.(even more than now) The next is to forgive him. Not in person, just say in your head " I forgive you". You must believe this part. If you follow all of this, you'll get over it.
December 31, 201014 yr Author I understand where you're coming from, but there's no possible way, imo, that a 1st grader would know what he's doing, like Eterna said. I guess I don't understand how you know that he's gay and that he 'does it' with other boys if he moved away after that. And again, if he is a 1st grader he doesn't understand those feelings and would probably not even know what being gay is. I'm sorry that had to happen to you, but overall, the whole story kind of confused me. He likes Hannah Montana and is all like... lets say he acts like Marluxia in those comics SpoonyChan dubs.. And he kinda admited. Actually he said he did it with girls too which makes me even more confused... And he knew, because he tried to shove the bird up the nest... He probably saw some porn or something... And he's adopted. might have something to do with that.. Okay, are you talking about him in first grade or him currently? If you are talking about him in first grade, then that accusation is pretty false, more or less. My little brother is 8 and he loves Justin Bieber and Hannah Montana. That does not mean he is gay. Also, there's this cool thing where you can like both guys and girls. It's called being bisexual. Sorry, I'm still confused. both before and recently... and he acts all like... "gligihihihiti! ^.^" and he walks with his arms up and him hands down, you know like a puppy? But yes I think he might be bi. I'm not stupid, I know what bisexuality is..
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