- Always bringing up past wrongs and then argue about it.

- Always being paranoia and not trusting your partner.

- Always walking away from conflict.

 

What are other Common relationship destroyers do you guys think? It seems to be very common nowadays and couples breaking up for this kind of reasons. How can you change it?

 

In my opinion is to just deal the problem right away if there is one and trust your partner but its hard for some to do that and also one of the few things to have a healthy relationship.

 

Just had a chat with few of my friends talking about relationships just now so I thought on sharing/discussing it with you guys. =/

The number one destroyer of relationships are diamond related fatalities.

Video Games

Honestly, letting people mess with you, and caring too much about what other people think about your relationship. And not making time for your significant other.

(Not that I have had personal experience, but...)

I guess money.

Not enough trust. And rushing into it.

not spendin enough time. Thats common.

Cheating

Well the 2 break-ups I've gone through were because of:

1. not enough time with each other early on. Like we started the relationship off with not seeing each other much cause of our own personal activities.So I'm not sure if this would be a reason for a long standing relationship but you never know.

 

2. Me getting jealous, being insecure. We were going through some communication problems and to top it off she was "connecting" more with her ex than she was with me. So I, honestly, over reacted and I regret it but whats done is done.