One of my many lady friends just said she loves me. Like alot of people it caught me off guard because to be honest I'm told that by friends and family alot but alot of the time i never feel loved. I told her the truth that I only see her as a friend and I don't think it could ever change. But for some reason I feel guilty.I'm not gonna lie she was'nt exactly winning any beauty contests,but she is a good person and at some point she fell for me,and now I feel lots of guilt trips coming on because nobody understands why I rejected her but am on the verge of asking my friend Abigail out on a date.I'm so confused on what to do. Sorry to be so depressing everyone but its sadly the story of my life.

Hm..Well your not a bad guy.I'll tell you that.It good that you told her the truth.Hm...

Maybe just wait and see if anything happens? Sorry if I'm not helping.

Im not sure if this helps..but maybe you should give her the chance,the worst that can happen is that it doesnt work out and youll be friends like before..sorry if it doesnt help but it doesnt hurt to give her a chance to be with you

Seriously, you can't love everyone who falls for you. So don't feel guilty. You did the right thing you told the truth and you were gentle. So you have nothing to be sorry about.

It's better to be honest and tell her that you don't feel the same way, than to pretend you do and then lead her on. I can understand why you might feel bad, but you did the right thing, even if it doesn't seem that way.

That exact same thing happened to me yesterday. Literally. I feel your pain, man. It'll suck for a while, but then it'll fade away. Just don't focus on it too much and just try to act like everything's normal.

you never did anything bad, it's not like you flat out just said no or anything like that, if you like her you like her, if not she'll move on.

It would've been more wrong to lead her on.