Well, there's this boy I like. In case you guys still don't know, yes, I'm gay.

Now, I've been dealing with being obsessed with him for at least 4 months now.

Last year, towards the end of classes, I told my father I was gay. However, he refused to believe so, stating that I was too young and setting a set AGE for when to assume this. His set age was 20 year old. And I'm not going to wait that long, because I know who I am and what gender I am attracted to. Sexuality is fluid, yes, but I don't see why he's putting such a limit.

Anyway, I told him about this boy I likes. That's how I told him I was gay, actually.

This boy... well he's a perv. I think most people already read the threads I posted previously and should know what I mean...

And he did some jokes which can be considered inadequate.

The thing is, I liked it when he did those "jokes", "teases", whatever they were. And I let him. Because he's goofy and likes joking around as much as any boy.

My father told me not to let this boy do those anymore near me. I ways follow my parents' orders, without even trying to argue back. So that's what I did.

I was so confused at the moment, that when he did those teases again, I asked him to stop. He didn't even care, really. I had to punch him to make him stop, causing us to get in a fight and having me needing to inform my parents about what happened(or else the school would).

My dad told me not to ever stay near that boy again and simply marked him as "evil". But I'm the one who started the fight, because of HIS orders. My dad thinks he's the one who confused me into "thinking I was gay". He never put it out like that but I can tell that's what he's thinking. He's trying to "heal" me, for god's sake.

I couldn't stand ignoring him though... For all the last days of school, the final week to be exact, he came to me everyday apologizing, and asking me to be buddies with him again. I told my dad and he told me that "When someone did these things to me, you know when I forgave them? Aaaaallll the way through. It's not a thing you can forget over a week and forget and just be buddies again".

Truth is, this boy I like is complicated. He has his bad sides but you should know you don't choose who you like. He's "bullied" me once before, but he didn't really mean it. I hated him at the time, but suddenly I started growing closer to him and we both became more friendly to each other, in fact, he became a more friendly person.

Anyway, school's back. I haven't had ONE full conversation with him, because I was waiting for him to come over to me and try to talk to me. Turns out he didn't.

I started only looking at him by distance, etc.

One day, I walked into the library, was gonna play some Mario Kart, and him and two other boys from our grade were sitting on the same table. They told me I could sit down on that table. Why not, right?

I sat down. Started playing Mario Kart. One guy asked to play a race. So did the other one, and then him.

When it was his time to play, I sat next to him o watch him. I think I grabbed my 3ds to play after him, and turned the 3D on. He was like "I wanna see, too!" and squished his face next to mine. I felt his cheeks. His face. I was loving that moment. I think I blushed at the moment, hope no one noticed. He went back to his normal position and said "cool".

When I was going away, I couldn't stop thinking about that... his face...

I felt it. Next to mine.

I just... loved the moment, y'know? I don't know if many members know what it's like to love/like

 

Now... I just wanna bond him again... to the point in which I can one day tell him how I feel about him.

But then I remembered my promise to my parents... No, their order.

So... I'm asking for advice from you guys. Should I try to get closer to him again, or follow my parents' orders?

 

 

TL;DR Should I disobey my parents and try to befriend the guy I like again?

Pow cara chorei aqui,serio,eu acho que vc deve tentar ficar perto dele e,sei lah,se abrir pra ele sabe,vai que ele tambem sente o mesmo nunca se sabe;pow nois aqui do kh13 so queremos o melhor pra vc!!!

 

pergunta:ele tambem eh gay?

Kinode you are epic no matter what happens if your dad can't except you have tons of friends here who will help you through.

Pow cara chorei aqui,serio,eu acho que vc deve tentar ficar perto dele e,sei lah,se abrir pra ele sabe,vai que ele tambem sente o mesmo nunca se sabe;pow nois aqui do kh13 so queremos o melhor pra vc!!!

 

pergunta:ele tambem eh gay?

 

Você me matou de susto, tava pensando que era meu amigo que fica me espionando nesse site o-o

E eu não tenho certeza, até agora não tem ninguém nessa escola que já se assumiu >> Mas eu desconfio que sim.

 

Translation: You almost killed, I though you were my irl friend that stalks me on the site o-o

And I'm not sure, no one's come out in my school yet... >> but I suspect so.

If your parents told you to jump off a cliff, would you do it? That's the same thing happening here. Your parents can't tell you to do everything. Sometimes ya gotsta take charge of your life. A little rebellion is nice every once in awhile, and it has interesting results. Wait for the right moment, then let it all out.

Você me matou de susto, tava pensando que era meu amigo que fica me espionando nesse site o-o

E eu não tenho certeza, até agora não tem ninguém nessa escola que já se assumiu >> Mas eu desconfio que sim.

 

Translation: You almost killed, I though you were my irl friend that stalks me on the site o-o

And I'm not sure, no one's come out in my school yet... >> but I suspect so.

 

Pow cara agente conversava lembra?? uahsauhsua fika tranquilo que no final tudo vai dar certo

Você me matou de susto, tava pensando que era meu amigo que fica me espionando nesse site o-o

E eu não tenho certeza, até agora não tem ninguém nessa escola que já se assumiu >> Mas eu desconfio que sim.

 

Translation: You almost killed, I though you were my irl friend that stalks me on the site o-o

And I'm not sure, no one's come out in my school yet... >> but I suspect so.

 

Haha, e eu duranto o verão de 2011 até perguntei se era eu por ter o mesmo nome que essa pessoa que te andava a espionar.

 

Translation:

Haha, and during the summer of 2011 I even asked you if it was me, since that person has the same name that I do.

From what I read from your post, it seems your father is a homophobic know-it-all who really doesn't know what he's talking about. There is no set age to know what gender you like. If you really like this boy, go for it. Ignore what your father says, he's trying to change you, make you straight. He's wrong and closed-minded.

Follow your heart.

Go on my wayward son.

Follow your heart.

Go on my wayward son.

 

lol

 

Kinode are you now sure what to do or do you have anymore questions? Please do tell.

 

*off to listen to Carry on my Wayward son* (damn)

Follow your heart.

Go on my wayward son.

 

Listen to your heart when he's calling for YOOOOUUU~

 

Also applies to Kinode.

Thanks everyone.

I still need to put some thought into it...

I'll be careful and see how it goes. Thanks again

Well, there's this boy I like. In case you guys still don't know, yes, I'm gay.

Now, I've been dealing with being obsessed with him for at least 4 months now.

Last year, towards the end of classes, I told my father I was gay. However, he refused to believe so, stating that I was too young and setting a set AGE for when to assume this. His set age was 20 year old. And I'm not going to wait that long, because I know who I am and what gender I am attracted to. Sexuality is fluid, yes, but I don't see why he's putting such a limit.

Anyway, I told him about this boy I likes. That's how I told him I was gay, actually.

This boy... well he's a perv. I think most people already read the threads I posted previously and should know what I mean...

And he did some jokes which can be considered inadequate.

The thing is, I liked it when he did those "jokes", "teases", whatever they were. And I let him. Because he's goofy and likes joking around as much as any boy.

My father told me not to let this boy do those anymore near me. I ways follow my parents' orders, without even trying to argue back. So that's what I did.

I was so confused at the moment, that when he did those teases again, I asked him to stop. He didn't even care, really. I had to punch him to make him stop, causing us to get in a fight and having me needing to inform my parents about what happened(or else the school would).

My dad told me not to ever stay near that boy again and simply marked him as "evil". But I'm the one who started the fight, because of HIS orders. My dad thinks he's the one who confused me into "thinking I was gay". He never put it out like that but I can tell that's what he's thinking. He's trying to "heal" me, for god's sake.

I couldn't stand ignoring him though... For all the last days of school, the final week to be exact, he came to me everyday apologizing, and asking me to be buddies with him again. I told my dad and he told me that "When someone did these things to me, you know when I forgave them? Aaaaallll the way through. It's not a thing you can forget over a week and forget and just be buddies again".

Truth is, this boy I like is complicated. He has his bad sides but you should know you don't choose who you like. He's "bullied" me once before, but he didn't really mean it. I hated him at the time, but suddenly I started growing closer to him and we both became more friendly to each other, in fact, he became a more friendly person.

Anyway, school's back. I haven't had ONE full conversation with him, because I was waiting for him to come over to me and try to talk to me. Turns out he didn't.

I started only looking at him by distance, etc.

One day, I walked into the library, was gonna play some Mario Kart, and him and two other boys from our grade were sitting on the same table. They told me I could sit down on that table. Why not, right?

I sat down. Started playing Mario Kart. One guy asked to play a race. So did the other one, and then him.

When it was his time to play, I sat next to him o watch him. I think I grabbed my 3ds to play after him, and turned the 3D on. He was like "I wanna see, too!" and squished his face next to mine. I felt his cheeks. His face. I was loving that moment. I think I blushed at the moment, hope no one noticed. He went back to his normal position and said "cool".

When I was going away, I couldn't stop thinking about that... his face...

I felt it. Next to mine.

I just... loved the moment, y'know? I don't know if many members know what it's like to love/like

 

Now... I just wanna bond him again... to the point in which I can one day tell him how I feel about him.

But then I remembered my promise to my parents... No, their order.

So... I'm asking for advice from you guys. Should I try to get closer to him again, or follow my parents' orders?

 

 

TL;DR Should I disobey my parents and try to befriend the guy I like again?

 

Your father just cares about you man. After all he is the one that takes care of you and supplies for you right? Maybe he just didnt know how to approach the situation since your young. You do well for obeying your father and thats good, but every child parent relationship start to get shaky especially during the teen years. This is the time to start thinking for yourself, which you seem to be doing. If you have feelings for this dude then do what you think is right. Just remember it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all