Okay I know I'm not shy on here...but I am outside the internet.

And Impact Choir is starting up again...and I just can't do it.

Singing at my church or singing with my friends is okay but I just can't do it.

 

So I've only gone to one impact choir because the second time I got sick and now this is the third. I really don't want to do it because I know only three people from my church. and there are over 60 kids. And we have to stay at someones house(That we DON'T know. but they are in the church that we go to sing to.), then go to the church to sing.

 

 

...Why do I have to be shy like my dad ..DD8

I am shy too, but you know that deep down yo really want to talk to the people, sooo go for it. Don't let your shyness get the best of you, try to overcome and think of yourself as being in the other person's shoes. I mean on here you seem like a really nice and likable person, so try to be like that outside of the internet. Singing is a great talent and do not let your shyness rob away that talent from you or the friends you can make. It is horrible being shy and I know how you feel, but when you get out there and talk to people first it makes you feel a lot better afterwards, even if it might be a little embarassing at first. Not too long ago I went and stayed with my friend but we went to one of her friend's house and stayed the night and she had a party. I was extremely nervous and hate being around so many people, but you have to ask yourself why am I doing this? and why does it seem like no one else is shy? Well, you know what they are shy in there somewhere. You just have to get pass those boundaries in order to find yourself in others and to expand your world. It won't be easy, but don't let your shyness ruin you ok?

You're right. But the problem is to get out of those boundaries...But I'll try.

Thanks Cricket I feel better. 8D

I'm glad I could help some. :]

haha, i'm pretty shy too. like cricket said, you shouldn't let shyness get in your way. (: it'll be an obstacle for the rest of your life if you let it get at you. just take a deep breath, and be yourself. i do that, and it sure did help. ^^ i have a lot of friends now, and we laugh and joke around too.

 

i've been in choirs too, and i hated them but, singing was my passion so i didn't let it get to me ^^ you shouldn't either. you probably sing really pretty and deserve to let your voice be heard (:

 

good luck and i hope you don't let shyness get to you ^^

i believe in you JF! and i think you can do it! Just act poilite and TRY to go with the flow

seee this is flow ~ this is no no flow -

(trying to make you laugh but failing DX)

Don't worry! I'm also a tad more shy in real life than how I am behind a computer screen. I'm not a very good presenter, especially with my stuttering problem if I get too, too nervous. but I am working on it. What I do is I try to feel more confident in myself and try to make myself believe that I can do things. Either that, or I just go with the flow, and hope for the best. It's very, very hard to overcome shyness, I'm still struggling a bit myself, but just be yourself, and usually most people will accept you and be happy that you're there. I'm pretty sure that there is a lot more people who are just as shy as you in your choir, you just can't tell. Just believe in yourself! <3

well i am shy too when i tell my friends about it they pinch me and tell DONT BE SHY! lol