So this guy i had a thing with over the summer and still feels pretty possessive over is bringing his new "girl thing" (not sure what to call her) really over today... What should i do?

I'll be a lire if i said i wasn't horribly jealous and kinda hurt http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-neutral.png

 

It's so funny, i don't care who he talks too once i never hear about her or see her and he gives me some form of attention at the end of the day.. it's pathetic. Any advice on how to get over this as well?

Edited August 26, 201213 yr by Axarial

Don't get jealous and show it off, plus, consider his feelings.

Even if you do have feelings for him, if he's with someone else, then you should try your best to respect that and be supportive of him. If you don't feel like you can do that, then it may be best to spend some time away from him to try and get your feelings sorted out.

Let him date what he wants and don't be rude to her or him just because of their relationship. It's not your business.

Murder.

 

JUST KIDDING!

 

Okay, now that I might have made you laugh, it depends on how you feel. If you are willing to be just friends, then try your best to tolerate them. Be as open as possible because it might hurt his feelings if you take animosity towards his new love. If you cannot stand the thought of him being with anyone else, then let him know that you feel uncomfortable about him and her being together with you and suggest some alternative situation (such as you and him hanging out after he goes on a date with her).

Let him date what he wants and don't be rude to her or him just because of their relationship. It's not your business.

 

Siigh, yeah you're right http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png I wasn't going to be rude though, i would have smiled and waved but i just wouldn't have hung out with them is all.

 

Murder.

 

JUST KIDDING!

 

Okay, now that I might have made you laugh, it depends on how you feel. If you are willing to be just friends, then try your best to tolerate them. Be as open as possible because it might hurt his feelings if you take animosity towards his new love. If you cannot stand the thought of him being with anyone else, then let him know that you feel uncomfortable about him and her being together with you and suggest some alternative situation (such as you and him hanging out after he goes on a date with her).

 

Haha, that did make me laugh so THANKS!

I'm not sure about that though. If he has a new girlfriend i feel the need to slowly sever that connection because i don't wanna be hooked on a guy who just wants to be friends , One day i know we'll be friends though but now. Too soon. I would honestly rather him not bring her over at all but hey.... >3>

I'm not even sure why i still have feelings for him, he's not worth it! http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-neutral.png CURSE THESE FEMALE EMOTIONS OF MINE!

Start singing Baby Got Back to him.

 

 

(i'm not good at advice about jealousy)

Edited August 26, 201213 yr by Caity Raindrop

Start singing Baby Got Back to him.

 

 

(i'm not good at advice about jealousy)

 

Loll, don't worry

 

Loll, don't worry

 

It would make me wanna get with someone if they broke into song, a song with such beautiful, deep meanings.... Like Sin with Sebastians "Shut Up And Sleep With Me"

Moving words are spoken http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-cry.png

Let him date what he wants and don't be rude to her or him just because of their relationship. It's not your business.

 

That's kind of mean...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nuim2YXcECo