Guys,I'm having a problem...A big problem.I've been bullied in school by one of my school mates in class.I can't really describe her personality,'cus there're so many bad thing she've done.You see,she had been bulling everyone,expecually me...I think she's jealous of everything I have.The worst part is she knows my weak spot....I'm too sensitive.You may ask what have she done to me so here's some things that hurt me the most:

• She had been insulting me since long time..since 1 grade.Now I'm 8th and next year I'm going to high school.She had been telling me that everything I do,Is stupid,everytime I do something with my friends she comes and does the same thing saying that she does it better.Sometime,She offencing me and then laughing in the face,after saying that what she said is just a joke(NOT!!).She told me once that I worth nothing after trying to defent myself from her insulting by offencive her back,but it didn't work.I'm not good at defending myself in a arguements.
• She tryes to make me jealous.Envy is not my deadly sin but everytime she does that(By hugging and kissing my best friend in the cheek and meanwhile staring at my eyes and smiling filled with delight thinking that she's doing the right thing to make me "jealous")makes me feel miserable.I have nothing against other people being friends with my BF,but I she's always gets out of control.I asked my friend about their friendship and he told me that she only likes being friend when her only when she's calm,and I realised that my friend had been offeneced by her too.
• She's nuts!!While the teacher isn't here she makes the bigger mess.She had been fighting with boys,she yelles all the time,billying anybody she could touch..with one word,she's a person with no feelings...Even the boys aren't that bullish(They just do crazy stuff,fighting with themselves or with girls that annoy them,but they don't do it to offence someone).And I think I'm her biggest victim.

You would ask:"What about your reactions?"Well you see,I try to be polite to everybody and it's the reason why I don't want to fight.Usually I've been poking her in the stomach when I want her to stop.That's gone 'cus I thought that's bad.I try to ignore her but she doesn't give me space and carries on.I never reposted her to the main teacher because I know that it's not gonna work.The teacher will only strictly tell to stop but she'll continue(there're no detentions at the schools in my country)I know that the girl who bullies my always react on punching her or kicking.I try to avoid big fight for my own good will.Once I talked to my mom about my problem and said that if i comunicate with more people,the problem will resolved.Yeah Imaybe she's right about the making friends part,but Is that really going to solve the problem?

What should I do?Is my mother's advise will work?What should I do when in the moment she's insulting me?I need help quick 'cuz ,We're going to have a three-day long school trip next week and what if the teacher say to that I need to stay with her in the same room?!If that happen my heart, will crack in million pieces...

 

P.S:She's a Belieber.....

Edited October 18, 201213 yr by Sandra_Nedelcheva1998

Does she have any friends? Sometimes she's just doing that because she needs a friend.

 

Try to reach out for her. If it doesn't work, well too bad for her.

 

About the problem of being in the same room with her, ask your teacher to exchange. Say to the teacher that she bullies you, and you don't want to be bullied for 3 days straight.

Well if she's bullying everyone, even if you're one of the major targets, then don't worry about it. She's like that with everyone. I'd say just ignore her, if the teachers can't get her to stop and the other kids don't seem to get through to her then ignore her. Hopefully, she'll eventually realize just how lonely she's making herself.

 

P.S. Your sig made it look like Ventus was making sure he was listing off everything about this girl that needed to be said. lol

Edited October 18, 201213 yr by Ertyx

The best thing to do to piss off a hater, is smile at them. Pretend like you are their friend. When you can tell she's trying harder to piss you off, that means its working.

That's all i got. Good luck!

The best thing to do to piss off a hater, is smile at them. Pretend like you are their friend. When you can tell she's trying harder to piss you off, that means its working.

That's all i got. Good luck!

 

Well if she's bullying everyone, even if you're one of the major targets, then don't worry about it. She's like that with everyone. I'd say just ignore her, if the teachers can't get her to stop and the other kids don't seem to get through to her then ignore her. Hopefully, she'll eventually realize just how lonely she's making herself.

 

P.S. Your sig made it look like Roxas was making sure he was listing off everything about this girl that needed to be said. lol

 

Does she have any friends? Sometimes she's just doing that because she needs a friend.

 

Try to reach out for her. If it doesn't work, well too bad for her.

 

About the problem of being in the same room with her, ask your teacher to exchange. Say to the teacher that she bullies you, and you don't want to be bullied for 3 days straight.

 

Ok...I'll try..Thank you :,)

I hope the situation gets much better for you. Nobody deserves to be a subject of bullying. Follow everyone's advice, tell a grown up, and things should get better.

Just ignore her. Karma will do its job.

Just ignore her. Karma will do its job.

 

But what if ignoring doesn't work?

I'd go with ignoring her. But things like this can't just be ignored and you may have to ask a teacher for help.

I hope everything works out for you.

Edited October 18, 201213 yr by Keysofblades

Wow, this is a rough situation. I know how you feel, I used to be bullied a lot when I was a little kid. The best thing you can do is to try to reason with her, and see if there is any deeper emotional hurt, and maybe that's why she bullies you. If that doesn't work, then ignore her, and eventually she'll see that her insults aren't working. I also advise that you stand your ground and that you feel proud of who you are. You are a good person, and that's the main reason why she must be jealous of you. Since she sees that you are so kind and that everyone likes hanging around with you, then that's probably one of the reasons she bullies you. But don't let yourself fall. You have strength and willpower, and I know you'll do all in your power to solve the problem as soon as you can. Good luck!

We're going to have a three-day long school trip next week and what if the teacher say to that I need to stay with her in the same room?!If that happen my heart, will crack in million pieces...

 

Ask your teacher if you can not share a room with her. If that doesn't work, try trading with someone.

Well now I try my best to stop the bulling.Today I talked to some kids how they react when they're insulted by her and I'm suprised of what they said:We try to ignore her but It didn't work..Anytime...WHAT?!