Posted November 21, 201212 yr I think i forgot how to OPEN-UP to other people even in this website,so.....can somebody help? Edited November 21, 201212 yr by Hazimie
November 21, 201212 yr Author uuuuuuuuuuuuunmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm what? ah,never mind.....it's useless anyway if i want anyone's help,after all,i have to deal alone....
November 21, 201212 yr ah,never mind.....it's useless anyway if i want anyone's help,after all,i have to deal alone.... ahhhh ok thats what i thought you meant...well im sure everyone on this site would say other wise...were badass like that
November 21, 201212 yr I would like to help you with your problem or what ever you have in your mind, but I really can't do that if you don't say what is wrong. Just say it and I (at least try to) help you
November 21, 201212 yr Hazimie, I've known you for quite a while, and if there's anything you need to talk about, feel free to start a chat with me. If there's something wrong, you can talk to me about it.
November 21, 201212 yr Do what I do. Recklessly describe all your atrociousness with no shame whether they want to listen or not.
November 21, 201212 yr Author Do what I do. Recklessly describe all your atrociousness with no shame whether they want to listen or not. that's kinda humiliation to me but thanks for the advice and sorry if i insult you... Edited November 21, 201212 yr by Hazimie
November 21, 201212 yr that's kinda humiliation to me but thanks for the advice and sorry if insult you... It's barely insulting.You can't expect to open up to anyone if you're too humiliated to do so. You'll just end up bottling all these emotions and feelings because you're too scared of them judging you for what you've done. If you remain to that attitude, you might as well just get a therapist who legally can't mock you or spread your information.
November 21, 201212 yr Author It's barely insulting. You can't expect to open up to anyone if you're too humiliated to do so. You'll just end up bottling all these emotions and feelings because you're too scared of them judging you for what you've done. If you remain to that attitude, you might as well just get a therapist who legally can't mock you or spread your information. well,the problem is,i have do almost ALL about what you have said,and i tried many times and yet it all just waste of effort,time and life though....so i had no choice but to restart as to know how to OPEN-UP Edited November 21, 201212 yr by Hazimie
November 21, 201212 yr I think i forgot how to OPEN-UP to other people even in this website,so.....can somebody help? I have the same problem. If you figure it out, please tell me what you discover.
November 21, 201212 yr well,the problem is,i have do almost ALL about what you have said,and i tried many times and yet it all just waste of effort,time and life though.... so i had no choice but to restart as to know how to OPEN-UP But all opening up is, is either trusting someone enough to let them in on your personal thoughts and experiences knowing their won't be a backlash, or else being shameless enough to not give a damn about people judging you. I am the latter, because frankly to me I know my real friends wouldn't trivialize me based on my past, same as I would with them. If you want you can talk to me in a pm about what's bothering you, though i'm quite blunt and think with logic, which isn't what everyone always wants.
November 21, 201212 yr Author I have the same problem. If you figure it out, please tell me what you discover. well,i discover that i don't know how to say or deal with the people on this website who is 'higher level' than me.it's just as if that i don't have the right though and don't know how to describe it...
November 21, 201212 yr well,i discover that i don't know how to say or deal with the people on this website who is 'higher level' than me.it's just as if that i don't have the right though and don't know how to describe it... Hmm. I don't fully understand, but I understand it a little.
November 21, 201212 yr Author But all opening up is, is either trusting someone enough to let them in on your personal thoughts and experiences knowing their won't be a backlash, or else being shameless enough to not give a damn about people judging you. I am the latter, because frankly to me I know my real friends wouldn't trivialize me based on my past, same as I would with them. If you want you can talk to me in a pm about what's bothering you, though i'm quite blunt and think with logic, which isn't what everyone always wants. It's just that i don't know what people's likes and dislikes,and besides,people will hate for those people who doesn't do what they want and ended up forget who their friends are and that is what makes me worried....
November 21, 201212 yr All you have to do is be yourself on the forums. Share your opinions, make some jokes.
November 21, 201212 yr Author All you have to do is be yourself on the forums. Share your opinions, make some jokes. To tell you the truth,i almost hated to myself and i want to become better than anyone.i tried to share my opinions but none of them agreed and understand,so as the same making jokes and be myself it's as if that i have to be a person who people hates....but yeah,be myself is the only way,and thanks for advice though... Edited November 21, 201212 yr by Hazimie
I think i forgot how to OPEN-UP to other people even in this website,so.....can somebody help?
Edited by Hazimie