Alright, many months ago I had made a friend who was a huge fan of kingdom hearts. She had only played Kingdom Hearts 1 & 2 so as the crazy fan I am for the series, I had to let her play through my games! First, I let her borrow my PS2 with KH Re:Chain. She wasn't a huge fan so theater mode did the trick. next up was Kingdom Hearts 358/2 day. This is were things get a bet complicated.  

 

I allowed her to borrow my Nintendo 3DS along with the game. She was excited because Roxas was her favorite character and she wanted to know more about him. After a few days though, she stopped responding to my calls and began to avoid any contact with me. I let it go, she didn't live the easiest life and I thought maybe she would be busy. after a few months, I herd from a friend that she had moved out of her girlfriend's house and in to her grandmas house in the city. I call her many times, and try much harder to get a hold of her but nothing would happen.

 

I had got a hold of her best friend and asked about it. She had told me that she was going through a lot right now so I decided to give it more time. a few months I try to get a hold of her and I never could. At this point I'm afraid she sold it! I get a hold of her ex girlfriend and the first thing she says to my asking about it is. "I'm sorry, it is gone. If you want I can pay for part of it." This really concerns me and I try to get a hold of my friend again and i get nothing. I then told her best friend "Tell her I want my stuff back or I will call the police" I get a response saying "She has your PS2 but her ex wouldn't hand over your game boy."

 

I go back to her ex girlfriend and I find out that her and her best friend were now dating and that she was **** over just like I was, and that she offered to pay for part of it because she didn't want to deal with any of it anymore. I have no idea on how to tell who has it and if I should take legal action of not. I bought it when it was still around $300 so would it could as an item stolen that is that much? I now know not to trust people as much as I should, but for some reason I dont want my friend hurt out of all of this. I just want to play Kingdom hearts 3D and Zelda.

 

What do you think I should do?

 

My advice would be to let it go and get a new 3DS. Just paying the money for a new one instead of going through all of this is worth it in the end. I've actually had things like this happen to me in the past, so I know. 

I would say it depends if you want to make her go through it. If I were you I would file a police report, because I don't have the extra couple hundred lying around for a new one. But if you can afford it and want to avoid the hassle, then maybe you should get a new one.

I'd take legal action and turn her into the police if I were you. That is basically stealing/theft. If you don't want to hurt her even more though, then just drop it and buy a new one. It's all up to you.

If I were you, I'd file a report. It's practically theft. If you truly don't want to hurt her, let it go and buy a new one. I'm a very forgiving person, but I'd still take legal action. 

I'm sorry to hear that happened.  

I don't have the money nor do I want to hurt her. I guess I could just wait till she gets on her feet more before I pressure her for it... Then again by the time that happens it may be to late. o.o Thanks you guys.

I don't have the money nor do I want to hurt her. I guess I could just wait till she gets on her feet more before I pressure her for it... Then again by the time that happens it may be to late. o.o Thanks you guys.

 

You waited a few months(you said that two times in your post). I think thats enough time. Time to take action.

You waited a few months(you said that two times in your post). I think thats enough time. Time to take action.

Yeah your right. And if she doesn't answer any more of my calls tonight I think I'll just tell her new girlfriend that she has one more chance to talk to me until I get law involved. Even if her Ex took it, it was her responsibility in the first place right?

Honestly before you call the police, you should try and find out where she lives and confront her.

Take the money and buy a new one.Unless you feel it necessary to take legal action. Then by all means, do.

If you have the spare money and don't want to deal with the drama just get a new one. Otherwise I'd say filing a report could help.

That's too serious to drop; I'd file a report to the police.  I'm all for not wanting to hurt friends and everything, but this is too much.  I cannot believe someone would just up and steal your 3DS like that.  Even *if* the girl's having problems, she's responsible to be a good friend and not just run off with your stuff.

 

In the end, I'm not sure what the police can do, and you might end up having to buy a new one after all.  Hopefully something can be resolved though, and at least you'll get some money from girlfriends, ex-girlfriends, et cetera.