Hey guys.

It's been a while since I last posted a topic here, in Personal. But lately, things have changed a loott.

Well, as you all know, I've changed to another school last year. I made two great friendships, with two girls.. It was always the three of us. 

But since the end of 2012, that changed. It started with one of them getting slowly away from the other, but still being very close to me. Then, the other one started staying a lot with another boy, and now they're boy and girlfriend. I don't feel that happy to be around her anymore, and so me and the other one are getting really close. But then the 'three of us' is just disappearing, and it has split between me and this friend, and the other and her boyfriend. 

I wonde what will happen? Friend A (the one that's close to me) says she won't get close to Friend B because it's their moment, but once they break up, she'll be there for her. But lately, since I've been so close to Friend A, I'm not sure if I just want her as a friend, or more than that... 

Weeeelll I'm so CONFUSED! 

And there's another friend joining us, too (Friend C, but he's a boy.) 

Friend B is very honest, and she keep saying that she is jealous of my friendship with Friends A and C, mostly with C, since he's new to the group.... 

And I'm afraid we'll be getting apart more and more til we become strangers.... 

We used to talk a lot on facebook, but now it's only 'hey and bye'...

 

So, what do you think will happen with me and my friends? Any advice on how acting towards each of them would be good, too. 

 

Thanks for reading =D

No matter what happens, it would probably be for the best.  Most friendships don't last forever, but whatever the case, just make sure to keep contact with all of them and just let fate take course. You can't make people become close again, people change; hope it works out!

Edited February 9, 201313 yr by Alagoth

Hmmm friendships, a group of friends...Hmmm. Well to get everyone all close in and what not invite them to hang out with you or something like a party, or hang out at a mall or something. Have some fun, make memories and what not. As long as everyone is still getting a long, being friends, having a great time together friendship will always remain I hope =D I hope my terrible advice helps.

Edited February 9, 201313 yr by Rainbow Dash

Suddenly reminded of KH1.Lu Xun is Sora. Friend B is Riku. Friend A is Kairi. Friend C is Donald and Goofy.

 

Try to find a perfect time when everyone is available and meet up. Then you guys can talk about the good times, and hopefully things go good from there.

Edited February 9, 201313 yr by Rob

To be honest I think it's best if you fight for the friendship. If you guys have done that much for each other, it's not worth letting it fall apart. Good luck Lu!

you should make paopu fruit shaped charms because it worked so well for aqua

Honestly this might sound cold, but your in a situation where you are bound to lose someone. I think  A and C will stay with you for a while, but B seems to have drifted away, i'm sorry but that's pretty much what it looks like to me.However, i think you should still try to keep things together. IF keeping friend both, B and A, really means that much to you

Dunno about friend b, but since you like friend a be wary if friend c begins to like friend a as well. If that happens, whether you want friend a to be more than just a friend might be decided for you due to not making a move.

Thank you guys for giving your opinion.

But as the situation stands, the only one from Me, B and C who's really close to A is me. 

as you can see, I'm there <<< then there's C (the boy), B(the girl) and then B's boyfriend. A didn't go with us =/

 

Here you can see me and A 

 

 

But oh well, I guess only time will tell. It seems like I'll get closer and closer to A and C, and B will be isolated with her boyfriend, if things keep up like this