Ok to start out my ex has made my life a living hell the whole time we were dating. So I move on she still loves me etc. anywho I met this girl and she is amazing and beautiful and all that stuff! I became great friends with her first, then she said that she liked me and I told her that I liked her as well. Then one day at church I was dusting next to her and I was just about to ask her out before church started until her BFF showed up and sat between us....her BFF was my ex!! My ex said "oh yeah that boy I still love that you promised you would never date is him" I was pretty pissed...now she refuses to date me since she made a promise a while back. We both want to date but my ex is being a bitch and keeping us apart. Can someone tell me what I need to do to get this girl to go out with me even after her promise? (That's legal)

The only possible help I might be able to offer is to do what I've been doing in a slightly similar situation. 

 

 

wait

 

She is best friends with somebody who made your life a living hell? That's an interesting friend choice that I think should factor into your thoughts of even wanting to pursue this girl. If she is trying to keep a promise to someone you find a terrible person and she chooses that over you, that's her choice. I don't think begging her or anything like that will do any good, not to mention the fact that your relationship would certainly include your ex if she is the best friend of the girl.

 

My personal advice, which I can't say is particularly good but it's what I have to offer, is to talk with the girl once more about the situation. Explain it at length and be wholly honest. If she still wants to keep that promise over a relationship with, that's about all you can and should do.

Edited March 29, 201312 yr by MDSVeritas

Wow that is a episode there. Hmm I do say Brother talk to both of them at the same time about how you feel about both of them, that way if they're both there then it gives more of a sense of honesty and hopefully they should respect you for that. Not guaranteeing it will go smooth. Just one path my Brother the choice is yours.

 

If your that religious ask God. 

To be honest don't take what the ex says into it at all. She is no part of you and this girl's potential relationship and she should NOT have the power to stop a relationship from forming. Try explaining to this girl that a relationship is between the two of you and no one else, and it's okay to care about the ex's feelings and stuff, but it's really not about her. Of course, don't hurt the ex's feelings on purpose, but it really doesn't concern her. A relationship is formed between two people, not two people and an ex/friend.

Ok to start out my ex has made my life a living hell the whole time we were dating. So I move on she still loves me etc. anywho I met this girl and she is amazing and beautiful and all that stuff! I became great friends with her first, then she said that she liked me and I told her that I liked her as well. Then one day at church I was dusting next to her and I was just about to ask her out before church started until her BFF showed up and sat between us....her BFF was my ex!! My ex said "oh yeah that boy I still love that you promised you would never date is him" I was pretty pissed...now she refuses to date me since she made a promise a while back. We both want to date but my ex is being a bitch and keeping us apart. Can someone tell me what I need to do to get this girl to go out with me even after her promise? (That's legal)

date secretly i guess? sorry i ain't got many idea's

Girls over Bros.

I think you should have a discussion with your ex and have things sorted out with her first. I can't think of anything else.