yes i had a status conversation about this.

 

at the moment i'm completly strait. i have no romantic intrest in boys. i'm just wondering if i'm just gay in denile. is it possible to stop liking girls and start liking boys? i have a crush on a girl right now. can i hear someones thoughts?

...But the bible says!

Just kidding.

yes i had a status conversation about this.

 

at the moment i'm completly strait. i have no romantic intrest in boys. i'm just wondering if i'm just gay in denile. is it possible to stop liking girls and start liking boys? i have a crush on a girl right now. can i hear someones thoughts?

 

Are you gay? We don't know.

Can you become gay? Yes. People change. Someone starts liking boys, someone girls.

Do you have a problem if you turn out gay? I hope no. There is no need to worry. If you like boys/men, then you like. It's your own business.

 

 

Well, actual gay people think you're born with it. So I'd just go with them and say if you were gay you'd already know it by now.

False.

If you have identical twins, and other one is gay, is the other one too? Can be, but not always. So people don't "born gay". And it isn't something you "born with". You grow to be one.

Edited June 1, 201312 yr by Sanmuri

You know I never really seen people talk about being gay,cause in my shcool if just say something thats gay(u would have be joking ALLthe of the time,if u wanted some kind of redemption after saying that) or anything thats sounds gay cause ppl in my school are all pervs so they will take anything u say that is gay in the slightest and make a big deal about it.Seeing this makes me wonder,are people really this accepting to gays?Cause from how i live its just wrong to be gay,i do believe so myself anyways.BTW i didn't mean to offend anyone gay here.

 

There's a difference between flamboyant or feminine instead of gay, bro.

I don't know how you feel right now so none of us can tell you for sure. It's something you have to find for yourself, and you can take as long as you need. Just because you like some boys doesn't automatically mean your gay (you might be but I'm just saying keep your mind open) you might be bi or just exploring. I've liked a few girls before but right now I think I'm really more into guys. As has been said before, sexuality is a fluid thing. You don't have to try to fit into the label of being gay, straight, bi, or whatever. You like who you like, you don't need to ask someone else to validate your feelings. You don't need to fit into a name--just like who you like and go with it. Maybe at some point you will figure out exactly where you think you fall, but you don't have to decide that now. Just enjoy yourself and explore and figure out what works best for you.

at the moment i'm completly strait. i have no romantic intrest in boys. i'm just wondering if i'm just gay in denile. is it possible to stop liking girls and start liking boys? i have a crush on a girl right now. can i hear someones thoughts?

me right now