if anyone knows me they will know that i;m very worry full. i worry about everything. i still have some more worries here. pls tell me if its my choice to decide these or not. 

1. only wanting 1 girlfriend fro my entire life.

2. being aloof

3. liking anime/manga forever

4. liking video games forever

5. becoming a womanizer (i really dont want this)

6. being kind hearted forever (i want this)

7. being worry full (how ironic)

 

pls tell me if these things are something i decide or something that isnt a choice like being gay/lesbian/bisexual (i have nothing against these)

I'd say all of those are choices or happen because of the choices you make.

It all depends on what your will is.

if anyone knows me they will know that i;m very worry full. i worry about everything. i still have some more worries here. pls tell me if its my choice to decide these or not. 

1. only wanting 1 girlfriend fro my entire life.

2. being aloof

3. liking anime/manga forever

4. liking video games forever

5. becoming a womanizer (i really dont want this)

6. being kind hearted forever (i want this)

7. being worry full (how ironic)

 

pls tell me if these things are something i decide or something that isnt a choice like being gay/lesbian/bisexual (i have nothing against these)

I can tell you right now 7 is not a choice.

These are things can you pretty much decide yourself (debatable), but don't let things worry you. Be yourself and look for things you can accomplish. Things don't always go the way you plan to (I can honestly tell you that with experience) which includes not being kind all the time (it's really annoying when I do this), but at the end of the day, you create your destiny.

 

Become light by living within the light and you will be able to accomplish so much and appreciate so much about life and people you know and even don't know so well. Anyways, to answer your question,

 

Points 1, 2 and 5 I believe is totally up to you, but the other points will depend on you (who you are inside) along with what's happening in your life.

 

Anyways, have an awesome day. Think of Sora and the kindness he shows to his friends . Cya

You sir, are like me - we worry wayyyyy too much

 

I think its because we are just generally anxious that we can't control the future events surrounding us.

 

But know this, YOU need to breathe and stop worrying AND - you do have control over your life

• Theres nothing wrong with having 1 gf forever, especially if she's the special one for you
• There isn't anything wrong with liking anime/games even when you age...heck Im turning 22 and I still read/watch anime/manga for entertainment...been doing that since grade 8
• Being kind-hearted is a good thing, just watch out because alot of people in this cruel/cold world might take advantage of your kindness - i've had that happen to me heaps of times because I was naive (But I don't want to give you another thing to worry about).
• Becoming a womaniser?...that will really depend on your actions and how you behave around other women/girls
• Being aloof could just be another side to you, it might be that you show your aloof side to people you don't know while your more warmer and caring side is shown to people you do know. (I don't know, just making assumptions)
• Sexuality is a very sensitive issue which I will leave to the more experienced forum members on the website, I won't comment since I care not for what sexuality people are as long as people don't offend each other.

 

In times when you feel like the choices are not clear, try meditating to clear your mind and sometimes things become clearer

 

All the best!

You sir, are like me - we worry wayyyyy too much

 

I think its because we are just generally anxious that we can't control the future events surrounding us.

 

But know this, YOU need to breathe and stop worrying AND - you do have control over your life

• Theres nothing wrong with having 1 gf forever, especially if she's the special one for you
• There isn't anything wrong with liking anime/games even when you age...heck Im turning 22 and I still read/watch anime/manga for entertainment...been doing that since grade 8
• Being kind-hearted is a good thing, just watch out because alot of people in this cruel/cold world might take advantage of your kindness - i've had that happen to me heaps of times because I was naive (But I don't want to give you another thing to worry about).
• Becoming a womaniser?...that will really depend on your actions and how you behave around other women/girls
• Being aloof could just be another side to you, it might be that you show your aloof side to people you don't know while your more warmer and caring side is shown to people you do know. (I don't know, just making assumptions)
• Sexuality is a very sensitive issue which I will leave to the more experienced forum members on the website, I won't comment since I care not for what sexuality people are as long as people don't offend each other.

 

In times when you feel like the choices are not clear, try meditating to clear your mind and sometimes things become clearer

 

All the best!

i said i WANTED only one girlfriend. i didnt say it was a bad thing. i WANTED to only have one. and i dont want that to change.

i said i WANTED only one girlfriend. i didnt say it was a bad thing. i WANTED to only have one. and i dont want that to change.

 

Oh, my apologies ><

tbh most of the are choices since if anyone of them does happen its your choice if you want to change it or not .. E.g if your a stress head up to you if you want to deal with it orr keep it . But TBH lifes toooo short and Just have fun ... YOLO