Okay, so a couple of months ago, I went to my best friend's sister's sweet sixteenth where I met her cousin who is 13 and got moved up a grade so that we are both in year 9. So her cousin and I spent the whole night talking together and the end of the night I gave him my phone number and email address.
We spent the next couple of months talking a lot on skype and at one point I got depression. He helped me the whole way through my struggle with depression. He did not leave my side for a minute though I didn't see him at all in person we instead spoke on Skype. Only just recently have I come over my depression. He was the only person or only friend I had to support me because my other friends were either going through their own shit or weren't there. He goes to a different school so I don't see him often.
On Saturday night I had a party at my place and towards the end of the night we got talking and this how it went.
We started off talking about life and he gave tons of life advice and he even told me how at one point he wanted to kill himself and to hurt himself. The night before he pretty confessed his feelings for me in the most poetic and he told me how whenever we were instant messaging on skype he thought of my eyes. He said that he could tell a lot about a person by looking at their eyes.
"When you first met me, what could you tell about me by looking at my eyes?" I asked.
"When I looked into your eyes I saw someone who didn't look like she had problems, someone so beautiful, who I would have never guessed was going through a rough time."
When he said that I started crying and I could see that he was crying too. He then came up and hugged me and just as I was about to walk him out, I started crying, sobbing even.
"I`m sorry....I`m sorry." I said in between sobs.
"Hey, don't be sorry you have done absolutely nothing wrong." he replies.
He then pulls me into a hug and I wrap arms around his neck as he wraps his arms around me. I cry into his shoulder as his fingers run play with my hair. He holds me me there for a while and for the first time in my life I feel safe, I feel like I belong there, I feel at home.
We part and he starts grazing my arm with his fingers. After awhile he holds my hand tightly.
" *Insert name here* I really really like you." I confess.
"I feel the same way." he replies.
"I`m scared." I say.
"Don't be scared." he replies.
"But I am scared."
"Go, find your light." he suggests.
"But you are my light." I reply.
"And you're mine."
He pulls me into one last hug.
"I`m going to miss you." I tell him.
"I`ll miss you too." he replies.
End
Sorry that took so long but my question is when would be a good age to start dating? I`m 14 and he's 13, we both feel very strongly about each other and my mum is very against the idea of us 'rushing into things.' So could someone please tell me what would be a good age to start dating a boy. You know just going out and be together not having sex or anything. By the way, this is not the first time I've fallen for a boy.
Okay, so a couple of months ago, I went to my best friend's sister's sweet sixteenth where I met her cousin who is 13 and got moved up a grade so that we are both in year 9. So her cousin and I spent the whole night talking together and the end of the night I gave him my phone number and email address.
We spent the next couple of months talking a lot on skype and at one point I got depression. He helped me the whole way through my struggle with depression. He did not leave my side for a minute though I didn't see him at all in person we instead spoke on Skype. Only just recently have I come over my depression. He was the only person or only friend I had to support me because my other friends were either going through their own shit or weren't there. He goes to a different school so I don't see him often.
On Saturday night I had a party at my place and towards the end of the night we got talking and this how it went.
We started off talking about life and he gave tons of life advice and he even told me how at one point he wanted to kill himself and to hurt himself. The night before he pretty confessed his feelings for me in the most poetic and he told me how whenever we were instant messaging on skype he thought of my eyes. He said that he could tell a lot about a person by looking at their eyes.
"When you first met me, what could you tell about me by looking at my eyes?" I asked.
"When I looked into your eyes I saw someone who didn't look like she had problems, someone so beautiful, who I would have never guessed was going through a rough time."
When he said that I started crying and I could see that he was crying too. He then came up and hugged me and just as I was about to walk him out, I started crying, sobbing even.
"I`m sorry....I`m sorry." I said in between sobs.
"Hey, don't be sorry you have done absolutely nothing wrong." he replies.
He then pulls me into a hug and I wrap arms around his neck as he wraps his arms around me. I cry into his shoulder as his fingers run play with my hair. He holds me me there for a while and for the first time in my life I feel safe, I feel like I belong there, I feel at home.
We part and he starts grazing my arm with his fingers. After awhile he holds my hand tightly.
" *Insert name here* I really really like you." I confess.
"I feel the same way." he replies.
"I`m scared." I say.
"Don't be scared." he replies.
"But I am scared."
"Go, find your light." he suggests.
"But you are my light." I reply.
"And you're mine."
He pulls me into one last hug.
"I`m going to miss you." I tell him.
"I`ll miss you too." he replies.
End
Sorry that took so long but my question is when would be a good age to start dating? I`m 14 and he's 13, we both feel very strongly about each other and my mum is very against the idea of us 'rushing into things.' So could someone please tell me what would be a good age to start dating a boy. You know just going out and be together not having sex or anything. By the way, this is not the first time I've fallen for a boy.
Your fellow teen,
Princess Kari